丈夫外遇妻子非离婚不可，真的没救了吗？

 zhangfu waiyu qizifeilihunbukeshiweishenmeni?zhangfuwaiyuqizilihunhouhechulianzaiyiqizheishizijichuguihaishibeichuguileni?zhangfuwaiyuqizitilihunxiangwanliugaizenmebanni?ranghuazhenxiaobianjiaoniyixiewanliujiqiaoba。

一、丈夫外遇妻子提离婚

zhangfuwaiyuqizifeilihunbuke，zhendemeijiulema?yaozenmewanliuni?

1、进行有用的交流

 renyurenzhijianzuibunengqueshaodejishijiaoliuyujiaoliu。fuqigengshiruci，queshaojiaoliuzhihuiranghuxiangderiziyuelaiyuewuqu，gemoyuelaiyueshen，zheimeduiniduitaeryandoubushiyijiangongde。xiangyaowanhuixingjianglihundelaopo，nijiuyaoxuehuiyutajinxingyouyongdejiaoliu，shajiaoyouyongdejiaoliu?

 yisijishitongguozheixiejiaoliu，nengbanimenzhijiandediduidianxiajiang，nengtuijinnimenzhijiandehaoqing，erbushisanyanliangyudewenhaoheyixiebubiyaodetiwaihua。

2、huanweisikao，buyaorangsuoshichengweinimenganqingdezhimingdian

其实，在婚姻生活中，其实最忌讳的也是把对方看成是自己私有物品，不给对方私有空间。很多人会咨询我说为什么自己为这个家庭付出那么多，洗衣做饭，照顾孩子，孝顺公婆，为什么对方还是不能够多点理解和宽容自己，为什么他的心里永远只有他自己。 >> chuguiwaiyu!hunyinweiji!ruhekuaisuzhengjiuhunyin?

 zheishihunyinshenghuolihenchangjiandeyigewenti，yeshiyigehenxiaodewenti，keshiqueshiyinweizheigehenxiaodewentibunengjishidequjiejue，manmandiyanhuachengbuduandizhengchao，maodunyuelaiyueduo，daozhihunyindebuxingfu。xuduorenzaihunhouzaizhaobudaoduifanghuozheshishuoduifangbujietingnidedianhuadeshihou，jiubianchengzhuiminglianhuanhujiao，huoxuduifangzheishihouzhendeyoulinshideshiqingni，zheiyanghuirangnimendeganqingmanmandechanshengmaodun，duoyifenlijie。

 duozhanzaiduifangdejiaodusikao，buyaojiangzijidesikaoxiangqiangjiadaoduifangshenshang，zheiyangnicaizhidiaoduifangxiangyaodeshishenme，duoyifenlijie，nimendeshenghuojiuhuiduoyifentianmi。

二、丈夫外遇妻子离婚后和初恋在一起

 zhangfuwaiyuqizilihunhouhechulianzaiyiqi，zheiyoushenmeguanxini?lihunle，bianshiziyoude，wulunduifangshenmeshenfen，neibuyinggaiquzhiyibuyinggaiqupohuai，yinweishouxian，shinimeiyouzhenxi。

cengjingkanguoyijuhua，wuluntacengjingdeshenghuoduomehunluanduomefuza，ninengyongyoudezhishitadeaiqingerbushitaderensheng。

 renmenchangbayouqingrenzhongchengjuanshushuochengyouyuan，yidanfanmuliyini，bianshuoshiyuanfenyijin。yuandezhangduan，zuinanyuliao。xiangaizhesheibuzixuyijingcongmangmangrenhaizhongzhaodaolezijide"lingyiban"，congciyongjiebainianzhihaoleni?

 keshi，shishiwuchang，fengyunbianhuan，duoshaozhongchengjuanshudeyouqingrenweicengliaodao，youchaoyiritamenzhijianhuifashengganqingweiji，shenzhiyudubuguonanguan，zhihaohuileijuebie。

 shishanghunpei，xingxingsese，zhenzhengjiyuaiqingdejiehebingbutaiduo，yinermizuzhengui。raner，pianpianyushijiyuaiqingdejiehe，biqineixieyichuantonglunliheshijiliyiweijichudehunyinlai，yuyouqicuiruozhichu。

 suoweijiaounanjiu，renmenyanzhongdetianzuozhihewangwangbunengbaitouxielao，zheichabuduoshigulaoerchangxindegushile。jiuqiyuanyin，yexushiyinweirendeneizaideganqingyaobiwaizaideguifanheliyigengjiananyizhuomo，gengjiabuyibawo，aiqingshibishisudehunyinniudaigengyibiandedongxi。

 yiaiqingweihunyindeweiyiyiju，zailuojishangbianyiweizheaiqinggaoyuhunyin，yinci，yifangmian，ruguojiyoudeaiqingchuxianxiaci，hunyinbianchengwenti，lingyifangmian，yidanxindeaiqingchansheng，hunyinbiandangrangwei。shishishang，fanshizaihunyinzhongbaaiqingkandebiyiqiedouzhongyaoderen，zaiganqingwentishangwangwangbijiaomingan，jirongyihuxiangtiaoti，yerongyidongqingbielian。tamenaiqilaijingtiandongdi，kegekeqi，tongshiyefengqiyunyong，zhaxizhabei。

 jiarutamenzugouxingyun，youzugouchengshu，yinernenggouzugouzhangjiudixiangai，neime，tamendaoyenengzuodaoqingshenyidu，qinsehexie，chengjiuyiduanmeimanyinyuan。raner，qianwanbuyaodayi，qianzaideweixianshizhongcunzaizhe，zhenzhengyiaiqingweijichudehunyinyongyuanbuhuidagonggaocheng，yilaoyongyi，zaihaodeyinyuanyebukenenghuodezhongshenbaoxian。