老公和外遇生了孩子，聪明的妻子这么做

 aiqingshishuangxiangde，ruguozijidelaogongduizijibugouguanxindehua，neijiugaizhuyile，henyoukenengjiushilaogongwaiyule，aiqingbukenengzuodaohonghonglielie，zongshiyaohuiguipingdandeshenghuode，youdenandezongshibumanzijidepingdanshenghuo，laogonghewaiyutiantianjian，duizijimobuguanxin，zheishiyigejiatingdebeiai，xiamianhuazhenxiaobianjianilaogonghewaiyutiantianjianzenmezuoba。

一、老公和外遇天天见怎么办

 1、 juechabingquedinglaogongchugui，duiyurenheyiweinvxingdoujinhuqingtianpili。tebieshiweijifashengqian，nijuedebiedenanrenhuichugui，zijidelaogongshibuhuiganzheiyangshide，niyueyouzheiyangdexiangfa，yuenanyijieshoutachuguideshishi，suoshoudeshanghaijiuyueda。nikenenghuijuedeaidetiankongyixiazikuatale，shenzhiquanpanfoudingguoqudeqinggan，renweizhiqiandeyiqiedoushixujiade，xianzaitayidiandoubuainile，weilaimeiyourenhexiwang。zheishiniyidingyaobuduandigaosuziji，zheishishanghaideyingjifanyingdaijinidejiaxiang，guoqudeqingaiwuxufouding，xianzaideguanxixuyaopinggu。

 2、 laogonghewaiyutiantianjianzenmeban，cike，nishouxianyaozuodeshizhongxinshenshiziji，kannishifouyiranaita，shifouhaixiangyaonidehunyin。buyaojiyuhetajiaotan，chongdongzhixiadegoutongzhihuizengjiachongtu;yebuyaojizhegaosujiarenhuoqinyou，gengbietingxinqigubapodeyijian，tamenhuibangnishengtaota，dannanyijidaonixiangyaodezhenzhengfuheniliyidejianyi;hunyinshinide，nineixindeganjuezhiyounizhidao，juedingdenizijina，ruoziwopinggu、juedingyoukunnan，keyixunqiuzhuanyerenshidebangzhu。

 3、 pingguhou，ruojuedezijibuaile，huosuiranyouai，danwufayebuxiangjieshoutachuguideshishi，lihunjiushiwunaidexuanze。cishi，weilebaozhangzijidequanyi，baduizijihezinvdeshanghaijiangdaozuidi，niyaoshoujiyouliyuzijidezhengju，zuohaotongguofalvtujingjiejuedezhunbei。dangran，shinenggouxieshangjiejue，quedinglelihunjiubuyaotuo，chentaduinihaiyouqingyi、kuijiuhebuchangxintaishilihungengyouli，ruojiuchanguojiu，bicizhijianzhishengxiayuanhehen，nanrenwuqingshiqianbianshiminggenzi。

 4、ruguohaiaizheta，haixiangzhengjiuzijidehunyin，jiuyaoxianguozijidexintaiguan，bimiandouqi、chongdong，yaoyongzhenqinghezhihuidaleihunyinbaoweizhan。ruguojuedezijineixinhentongku，guobulexintaizheiyiguan，keyijishixunqiuzhuanyedehunyinxintaizixunshidebangzhu，zengjianeixindeliliang。

 5、 chuguidazhifensanzhongqingkuang，diyizhongshihunneibuman，xunqiuhunwaibuchang;dierzhongshiyipohuaihunyinweimudedeexingchugui;disanzhongshibenxinghuaxin、quefaziwoguankongnengli。ruoshidierzhongwulunniruhewanjiu，zuihoukenengdouhuitulaowugong;ruoshidisanzhong，nideyoubodadexionghuai，yinweizhiwangtagaibianwuyiyuchirenshuomeng;ruoshidiyizhong，nidetanxunchuguibeihoudeyuanyin，cainengzhenzhengxiufuhunyin，bingdujueleisidegushizaicifasheng。

 6、 ruojuededuifangchuguishuyudiyizhongqingkuang，chuguijiushiyigexinhao，tatishinihunyinhuanbingle，jiurufashaoshiqutijibingdexinhaoyiyang。hunyinchulewenti，zerenwangwangbuzaiyifang，huanyanzhijiushiduifangchuguiyeyounidezeren。zheiyangshuoduiyushoushangdenikenenghuijuedebugongping，dannizhiyoufangxiashouhaizhexintai，fansi、fanshengzishen，cainengkeguandezhimianbingyouwangjiejuehunyinzhongcunzaidewenti，cainengfangpingxintai，bayanxiadeweijibianweichengzhangdeqiji。

 7、jiranbubazijikanchengshouhaizhe，yejiubuyaojiangtashiweizhaoshifangquzhize、baoyuan。dangran，nikeyigaosutanideshangxinhenanshou，bingyanzhengdiyaoqiutajinkuaijieshuhunwaiqing。raner，shiqingdezhenxiangshitabukenengshuoduanjiuduan，haikenenghuitoutoumomoyiduanshijian。dangnizhidaotaweibeiduinidechengnuo，buxizaiciqipian、shanghainihou，nidexinhuigengtong、gengjuewang，shenzhihuijuedetahaobuaini、zaihuni。suirantazheiyangzuohuirangniganjuetahencanren、nanyizaixinren，danyiduanqingganguanxidejieshukeguanshanglaijiangshixuyaoshijiande。suoyi，ninengzuodeshiyifangmiantaidumingque，juebuyunxutayudisanzhehaiyourenhelaiwang;erxingweishang，nizaineixindejitayixieshijianjieshuguanxi。shijianbunengtaizhang，shaoletazuobudao，yiban3geyuezuoyoujike。zaizheiduanshijianlibuyaochakantadeshouji、qq、koudaihepibao，yebuyaogenzong、diaochatadexingzong，jishinihenxiang、henxiang。danzhidaodeyueduo，nihuiyuetongku，yuerongyihetajiuchan。

 8、nikenenghenxiangzhidaotachuguidezhenxiang，tamenjiaowangdexijie，taqipianleniduoshao，zaitaxinzhongnihedisanzhesheigengzhongyaodengdeng。nihenxiangwenta，shenzhifanfudewen，chujingshengqingshiyaowen，manmanzhangyeshimiandenixiangqiyixiexijie，yerenbuzhutuixingtawen，meiwanmeiledewen。zuihou，nihuifaxiannidewentiwuluntazenmehuida，doubushilingnimanyidedaan。yinweitaweileziji，yeweilejianshaoduinideshanghaishuoletaiduodehuanghua。taruobuhuida，nihuigengshengqi。suoyi，mingzhidezuofashibuyaojiuchanzaizheijianshishang，bushibunengwen，bunengshuota，shiyicishuohaoshuotouhoubuyaozongquwenta。niwendeyueduo，dedaodeshifanxiaoguo，shitayuefangbuxianeigewaimiandenvren，xintaixuebazheijiaofuqianghua。

 9、 nikenengjuedezijidezixinxin、anquangan、xinrenganquanhuile，zhiyaotabuzainishenbian，nijiuhuihusiluanxiang。zheishiwulunniduomemingan、duoyi，nidouyaoxiangbanfashuofuzijixiangxinta，napanimingzhitazaishuohuang。yinweiniyueshixiangxinta，tayuehuiweilenidezheifenxinren，yeweileweihutadehuangyan，erjinlikezhiziji，buganzainimianqianfangsi，zheiyangjiugengyouxiaodedayaletamenjiaowangdekongjian，tamenguanxidejieshujiuhuigengshunliyixie。ruoniyidingyaochuochuantadehuangyan，neiniyeyidingkeyidecheng，zhishidedaodejieguokenengshitapoguanziposhuai。

 10、neigedisanzhejinrulenidehunyin，niduitachongmanfennushikeyilijiede。danniwuxuzaitamianqianshuodisanzhedehuaihua，fouze，tahuimeihuadisanzhe，wuyileiju，renyiqunfendedaolisheidoumingbai，taruochengrendisanzhedehuai，neitazijijiuhaobudaonaqu。nigengbuyaoquzhaodisanzhelilun、danao，nizhenyaozheiyangzuo，tahuiweilezijiquweihudisanzhe，qinigebansi。youxiedisanzhebijiaochangkuang，nibuzhaota，tahuilaizhaoni，duifuzheiyangderen，debanfashijiaojitaquchuli，zijiluodeqingsong，zuoguantajiaotoulane、chijinkutou。

 11、 weilebaohuziji，youshihoutahuishuoaidisanzhezhileideguihua，yinweiaiqingwulunzaishenmeqingkuangxiahaoxiangdoushiwuzuide。zheihuirangnigengshoushang，buguo，keguandishuohunwaiqingyeshiyizhonglingleideaiqing。zheizhimitudegaoyangyoushihouyehuiyiweizijizhendeaishangledisanzhe，suirannijitakuanrongdehuaibao，dantabuyidinglingnideqing，shenzhihaihuirenweinizuailetadexingfu。zheigeshihou，nizuixuyaodeshilengjing，dezuofashilengchuli。qianwanbuyaomangmudequzhaojiaren、pengyouzuotadegongzuo，gengbuyaobahaizijuanruqizhong。niyuezhaorenzuotadegongzuo，tayuehuishuonidehuaihuadisanzhedehaohua，zhongfushuoleisidehua，zhihuiqianghuatadezheizhongganjue，zuihoutazhongpanqinliyehuiyiyiguxing。haiyou，ruguojiaren、pengyoudouzhidaolezheijianshi，tayouduitamenshuolenineimeduohuaihua，nirangzheigesiyaomianzidechounanrenjinhouyouruhehaoyisizaihuidaonishenbian?

 12、wulunzijiduometongkuhenanshou，doubuyaokaolvyiqirenzhidao，haizhiqirenzhishendebaofufangshi。fouze，nibujinneixinyiranbunengpingheng，haihuirangnishangshangjiashang，yaojidekuanrongduifangdetongshiyejiushifangguoziji。zaixiufuguanxidezheiduanshijian，niwuxukeyitaohaota，danyebuyaozhengchao、lengzhan;nikeyirangtaganshoudaonidetongku，danbuyaoyitiandaowankukutiti，buran，tadexinlini、lijiahuiyuelaiyueyuan。yaorangtaganjuezainishenbianshishufude，jiatingshiwenxinhewennuande，rangtaderenhexinlibukaijiating、libukaini。

 13、nikenenghuishuo，“woshiyigeren，bushishen，weishenmefancuodeshita，nulidequeshiwo”?niyaozhidaohunyinyoushihoushilianggerende，dangengduoshihoushiyigerende，nidehunyinmeiyoulebudaibiaotajiumeiyoulehunyin。yinci，niyaoxiangyixiang，weizijidehunyinzaizenyangqunulishifoudouyingdangni?

 14、 nikenenghaihuishuo，zheixiedaoliwodoumingbai，kewozuobudao。shide，nibushishen，zhishigefanren，yaozuodaozhendehennan，dannanbingbubiaoshijiuzuobudao。zhiyaoniyuanyi，zhishaoyousanzhongfangfanikeyiquchangshi。diyizhongshibanideguanzhulicongtaneizhuanyidaonizijishenshanglai，xuehuiaiziji，guanzhaozijideshenxin。nikeyihepengyou、qinrenduoxiejuhuihehudong，yekeyiqulvxing、yundong、meishi、spa、tingyinle、kandianying，haikeyipeiyangyixiexingquaihao，rangzijidexinqingmanmanhuidaoyangguangdeshijie。dierzhongshitanxunhunyinwentizhongzishendezeren，bingxunqiugaibianzhidao，rangzijizhenzhengchengzhang。disanzhongshizixunhunyinzhidaoshi，zaihunyinzhuanjiadepeiban、zhidaoxiatigaojingyinghunyinhejiayuqinggandenengli，rangzijinulizuodao。

二、老公和外遇生了孩子该怎么做

 laogonghewaiyushenglehaiziyinggaishimeigenvrendouwufarongrendeshiqing，neimeruhelizhidejiejuelaogonghewaiyuyouhaizini?zheijiulaijiniyixiejianyilaogonghewaiyuyouhaizidechulifangfa。

1、chulitongkuqingxu，tishengneixinliliang

 qizimeiyouxiangdaozijidezhangfuhuibeipanziji，erqieshengxialehaizi。cishifuqijiandexinrengan，yijizaihunyinzhongdeanquanganshunjiantanta，gandaoshoushang、bengkui、fennu，shenzhiduilaogongchongmanyuanhen，zheiqishishiyizhongyingjifanying。zheiyangdexintaizhuangtaihuiyingxiangfuqirichangdehudong，zhihuipohuaibicideguanxi。jiangzhangfuyuetuiyueyuan。suoyizheizhongfumiandeqingxuyidingyaozhaodaozhengquedeshifangchukou，daixinqingpingfuhoucainenglizhichulilaogongwaiyudeshiqing。

2、zouchushouhaizhedejiaose

 xuduohunyinzhongdenvren，duizhangfudouhuiyouyixiexiangdangrandeyushe，biru，“woweitafangqileshiye，wodouduitazheimehaole，zhangfuyidingbuhuizuoduibuqiwodeshiqing”。dangnvrenyoulezheiyangdeyuqi，hunyinyidanchuxianwenti，jiuhuibazijifangzaishouhaizhedeweizhishang，bingbushishuozijibushishouhaizhe，ershibuyaoyouzheiyangdexintai。yongyoushouhaizhexintaidenvrenwangwangbunenggouquanmiandekandaihunyincunzaidewenti，ershijiangcuowuquanguijieyuchuguizhangfushenshang，zheiqishishiyizhongbuliangxintai。

3、shenshineixinzuochuxuanze

 jishihenaizijidezhangfu，chuguihaiyousishengzideshieryezuyicuihuiduitadeai。dangran，ruguozaidezhizheijianshihourengranhaiaita，jiudegenjuzijideneixinzuochuxuanze，zhangfuhaizhibuzhideniyuanliang?yuanlianglaogonghou，ninengzuodaoxinwujiedima?qingchulejiezijideneixin，mingquezijidedixianhexuyaohou，buguanshilihunhaishiwanhui，tadouyaoweizijidexuanzefuze。ruguoxuanzewanhuihunyin，jiudejieshouzhangfuchuguideshishi，yutayiqiqumianduiyinhunwaiqingerdailaidehuoxiaohuodadewenti。

4、tishengzijilaixiufufuqiguanxi

 qishidaduoshuchuguinanrendouyouyikehuiguidexin，danxianshishihenduonanrenjishihuiguihouyehennanjixuhunyinhuojixuzhechugui。zheilijiuyaoshuodaozhangfuchuguihouqizidexintai，yaoxiangzhenzhengdewanhuihunyin，zijixianyaozouchulai，zuohaoziji。ruguonanrenzhishichuguierqieshichuci，bingfeiyipohuaihunyinweimude，zhishihunneibuzuzhihaodaohunwaixunqiubuchang，qizimeibiyaosijiujiezheigewentibufang。congzishenkaishigaibian，dangnizuohaoleziji，zhangfushifounenghuilai，suiranbingbunengkongzhi，danshi，zaizheigegaibiandeguochengzhong，huiganjuehenchongshi、pingjing，neixingengyouliliang，juedejishibulihun，yenenggoumianduihejiejuexianshizhongdewenti;jishilihun，tayeyounengliguoshanggengxingfudeshenghuo。