发现老公有外遇怎么办？

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一、发现老公有外遇怎么办？

1、tuoshanchulizijideqingxu

 yidanquerenlaogongyouwaiyu，zhengchangrendouhuichuxianfennu、xiuru、cuobai、jiaolv、weiqudengfuxingqingxu。zheixieqingxudechuxianhesuofashengdeshijianxiangduiying，shizhengchangde。suoyi，womendiyibuyaojienazijizheixieqingxu。henduoqizizaizheigeshihouweilejixudouzheng，erquanweiziji：“wobunanguo，wobushengqi，woshigelixingderen”。jieguodaozhigengduodefennu、xiuru、cuobai、jiaolv、weiqudeleiji，zaimianduilaogonghewaiyushijianshigengquefalixinghezhihui。dierbuxuyaoyouyigeanquandeqingxushifang，birukeyiheguimiqingsuzijicikedezheixiehuaixinqing，huozhexierijikongsu，huozheshuaidalaogongdezhentou。

2、weizijizuoyigejueding

 waiyuyijingfashengle。nixianzaizhiyouliangtiaolukeyixuan：diyi、lihun：ruguoniyaobaochizijiweimeideaiqingguan，yaozuoyigewanmeizhuyizhe，congbuyunxuzijihuobierenzaihunyinzhongfancuo，neijiuxuanzelihun。bucunzaiduicuo，niwanquanyouzigehequanlihexuanzezijiyaodeshenghuofangshihehunyinzhuangtai。zhishi，zheiyangdenihuibijiaoxinku，duilaogongheguanxidekekekenenghuidaozhileisiwentichuxianzaiyihoudeguanxizhong。dier、jieshou：jieshoulaogongqueshishiwaiyule，gengjieshouzheizhishiduinimenhunyindeyigetiaozhan，jizijiyigefansidejihui，jiguanxiyigechengzhangdejihui。

二、发现老公有外遇怎么跟他说？

可以挑个时间和地方和老公好好的谈谈这个事。时间建议不要在白天，白天人的情绪也比较跳跃，地点建议不要在家，因为家很容易触景生情，导致情绪化的沟通。是在晚上，在外面的茶室。告诉老公你的决定。如果你的决定是离婚，那就要走的就是法律程序了。如果你的决定是接受，希望继续这段婚姻关系。那这个问题就是“你们共同的问题”，需要共同去面对。 >> chuguiwaiyu!hunyinweiji!ruhekuaisuzhengjiuhunyin?

三、发现老公有外遇最明智的怎么办？

1、zaisangeyueneibuyaozuorenhedadejueding

 sangeyueshuyujixingxintaichuangshangqi，cijieduannizuoderenhejuedingdoukenengshiyizhongqingxuhuadejueding。zheigejuedingbushiyonglaichuliwenti，ershiyonglaichulixinqingde。zheigejieduan，nikeyizanshihuibiwenti，huiniangjiazhuyiduanshijian，huozhechuqulvyou。xianweizijideqingxuheneixintengchukongjianlai。

2、ranglaogongzijiquchulitayudisanzhedeguanxi

 zuiwendingdeguanxijiushisanjiaoguanxi。zhisuoyichuxianwaiyu，shiyinweinihelaogongdeguanxibupinghengle，weilebimiangengexingdejieguochuxian，biruchongdong、baolihuozhelihun，caixuanzelelingyigerenzuoweiguanxidepinghengdian。ruguocikeniyouzaijuanrulaogonghedisanzhedeguanxizhong，jiujiagulezheigesanjiaoguanxidewenguhua。suoyi，zheigeshihou，nimengongtongmianduideyisishi，nijilaogongxinren、zhichi、shijianquchulitayudisanzhedejiaose，erbushizhijiejieru，yuduifanglianxihuozheshitanpan。

四、总结

 faxianlaogongyouwaiyuzenmegenzongta？weishenmeyaogenzongta，chuguideshitanishishouhairen，guangmingzhengdahetatanpaijiuhao。danqianwanyaolengjingdeshuo，qiejikuangzao。