老公对我好但是有外遇，这样的婚姻该不该继续

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一、老公对我好但是有外遇，我该如何做

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5、不要采用强制手段或报复手段 如果你老公准备放弃情人，那么给他一段冷却感情的过渡时期，这一点尤其重要。试图通过强制手段割断他与情人的感情联系，只会使他更加痛苦，而且很可能“野火烧不尽，春风吹又生”。 不要在老公面前诋毁和谩骂老公的情人，否则只能使老公感到难堪、屈辱，进而使他觉得你的心胸狭隘，更不要去找老公的情人算账，否则只能把事态扩大化，反而弄巧成拙，因为报复是最不可取的愚蠢做法。也许你报复成功了，看到了背叛你的人受到了处罚，你心里能暂时获得快慰感。可是不久你就会陷入失落，陷入更深的痛苦中，这种做法就像在蜗牛壳上再加上一层负担，对你对他对她都没有好处。 >> chuguiwaiyu!hunyinweiji!ruhekuaisuzhengjiuhunyin?

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二、老公对我好却外遇，要不要继续下去呢

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