那些就是想离婚没外遇没出轨的人是为了什么

 youxierenjiushixianglihunmei waiyu yemeizuocuoshi，shiweileshenmeni?ziyouma?junguanwaiyuhuaiyunlihunduiqizizaochengdeshanghaiyouduodani?junrenpeiyouwaiyudaozhilihunpohuaijunhunhuishoudaoshenmechengfa?

一、军官外遇怀孕离婚

junrenpeiouwaiyudaozhilihunpohuaijunhundehouguoyouduoyanzhong?junhunyounaxieguidingni?

 suizheshehuidefazhan，renmendeshenghuoguannian、jiazhizhuiqiuchengxianchuduoyanghua、kaifangxingdetedian，woguodelihunlvjinnianlaichuxianzengzhangqushi。

 woguo《hunyinfa》guiding，gongminyouzhengchangdejiehunhelihundequanli。lianaihunyinsuiranshuyugerenshenghuofanchou，danyouyubuduizhinengshimingdeteshuxing，guanbinghunlianwentiguanxijunxinshiqi。

“与其他职业相比，军人职业具有艰苦性、危险性、牺牲性和奉献性……国家应当使军人在比一般公民履行更多义务的同时，享有相应的权益，并且充分地保护其依法享有的权益。”戎装在身，使命在肩，军人难以拥有属于自己的“风花雪月”，夫妻之间发生矛盾纠纷在所难免。当军人婚姻遭遇危机，各级都应伸出援手，帮助他们早日走出感情上的“沼泽地”。 >> chuguiwaiyu!hunyinweiji!ruhekuaisuzhengjiuhunyin?

 “liangqingruoshizhangjiushi，youqizaichaochaomumu。”aiqingmianyanzhangjiu，bidingxuyaolianggelinghunhuxiangtiliangbaorong。xiaobianzhuyuansuoyoujunrenjiatinghehemeimei，xiangqinxiangai;zhuyuanzhanyoumendounengzaifazhiyangguangzhaoyaoxia，yonghexiedeganlinjiaokaifenfangdehuaduo，yongzhenchengdeshouwangquzourenshengdeyinmai，yongyougengjianingjingwenxinde“xingfugangwan”。

 junrenshimingzaishen，xuyaojiating、hunyindewending。weici，gaituanchongfenyunyonghaofalvduijunrenhunyinyuyidetebiebaohu，xianduweihushubianguanbinghefaquanyi。

 jiaoyuguanbingzunfashoufaxuefayongfa。dingqizaiguanbingzhongkaizhanzeouguan、hunlianguanhejiatingguanjiaoyu，duiguanbinghunlianwentijinxingkexuezhidaoheyouxiaojiandu，jiaohuitamenzhengquechulihaoaiqingyushiye、chengjiayuliyedeguanxi;pinqingzhudilvshidanrenfalvzixunguwen，zaizhenggongwangshangkaishe24xiaoshifalvzaixianzixunfuwubankuai，mianduimianjiedaguanbingshefaweiquanwenti;caiquyirenyidang、zhuanxiangfuze、quanchengbaomidengfangshi，jijiwentuodizaibaohuguanbingyinsijichushang，weiqitigongfalvyuanzhu。

 shishinuanxingongchengtixianrenwenguanhuai。yangeluoshiguanbinglianaibaogao、xingshifenxidengzhidu，quanmianzhangwoguanbinghunlianzhuangkuang;anjihuaanpaiguanbingtanqinxiujia，gaishanjiashulaiduizhusutiaojian，shishilinshilaiduijiashuweiwenzhidu，zengjiafuqituanjujihui;bangzhujiejuejiashujiuyedengshijikunnan，liyongjiejiarizhaokaijiashulianyihui、chahuahuideng，zhengqujunshuduiguanbinggongzuodelijiehezhichi，zengqiangqizihaoganherongyugan。

二、那些就是想离婚没外遇没出轨的人是为了什么?

youyizhonghunyin，bidanshengengrangrenxinlei。youyiweiwangyoufenxiangtadegushi。lailejieyixia：

yinweiyijuhua，guimiyaohelaogonglihun。

tahelaogongxihuanzaishafashangbingpaiaizhezuo，takandianshi，takanshu。

 qianjitian，liangrenzhengzaishafashangzuozheshi，nanfangturanduinvfangshuo：“niliwoyuanyidianba!”lengbudingdelaishangzheimeyijuhua，qietaidupoyoujifenbunaifan。

guimiyishijianmeifanyingguolai，shunzuihuileyiju：xianwoniwaile，lihungouyuanma?

suijiliangrenpilipalachaoleyijia，queqiedishuo，nvfangzaichao，talaogongyiyanbufa。

wocengshangguoyimenzhujianggoutongdekecheng，limianyouyigehenzhongyaodeguandian：buyaogangjingfuti，fanshixianxinpingqihewenqingchu。

 guimihuijiahou，lazhelianzhudongwenlaogong，zuowanshuodehuashishenmeyisi。jieguohuidajingranrangrenkuxiaobude。shide，talaogonghengleyisheng：“kongdiaohuaile，taire。”

jiehunqianyiweiaibuaizuizhongyao，jieguohuncaizhidao，hunyinkaoyandeqishishigoutongnengli。

 koushixinfei、chukoushangren、daozizui、buxiejieshi、buhuihaohaoshuohua……zheixiekansibuqiyandegoutongfangshi，caishicuihuiyiduanganqingdeshashou。

 yijuhuachadiannaodaoyaolihun，zheijianshirangwoxiangqileersaoheerge。tamenfuqijiehunshiduonian，bujinmeiyoujingguosuoweideqinianzhiyang，faneryueguoyuetianmi。

 zaichufangmangshangmangxiadeersao，zhishishuoleju：“laogong，woyoudianke。” ketinglideergelimajiudaoleyibeiwenshuisongdaochufang：“laopoxinkule.....”

wotoutougentaqujing：“ergeduinizhenhao，youshajueqiao?shibushiergebijiaopani。”

ersaoxiaozheshuo：nayoushenmejueqiao，diaozhengxiashuohuafangshijiuxingle。

 tazaiqiuzhuergebangmangshi，congbuhuizhizhidiandian，ershishuochuzijidekunnan，biruyong“laogong，woyoudianke”laidaiti“laogong，bangwodaobeishui”。

biqizhijieminglingta，zheiyangshiruoshidebiaodafangshi，gengnengdadaogoutongdemude。

 buhuihaohaoshuohua，shihunyinlideyinhuan，meizhunnayijuhuajiuchengleyakuaganqingdedaocao;tongyang，nenggouzhangjiubaoxiandehunyin，kaodejiushifuqizhijiandegoutongnengli。

buhuijujuederen，huodedouhenlei。

guimixiaoxiao，shipengyouquanzhongdianxingde“laohaoren”。

shenghuozhongxiaoxinyiyi，duisheidoubuhuijujue，duisheidouyouqiubiying，napaxinlimianzaibuqingyuan，shuochuqudehuazongshiweixin。

fumushuonagezhuanyehao，tajiutinghuaxuannagezhuanye，jinguanzijiyidiandoubuxihuan;

pengyoushuoyaojieqian，tajiushengchijianyongjiejipengyou，guolehenjiuyebuhaoyisicuirenhai;

tongshishuojintianyougeyuehui，tajiulanxiasuoyoudejiabanrenwu，jieguobazijigaodejingpilijin;

beirenjujuedeshihouqingmiaodanxie;erjujuebierendeshihou，ganjuezijifanletiandadecuo。

qianduanshijiantagenwobaoyuan，weileshangbanfangbian，tashengchijianyongmaileyiliangche。

 yigebingbushunludetongshi，tichuxiangdatadecheyiqihuijia，suiranbatongshisonghuijiahoutahaiyaokai20fenzhongcainengdaojia，guimihaishibuhaoyisijujue，yushidayingletongshideqingqiu，jieguozheishunfengcheyilajiushibannian。

zuijin，xiaoxiaohuanlezhuchu，julineigetongshijiagengyuanle，tabixumeitiantiqianbanxiaoshichumen，cainengbaozhengbuchidao。

tabuzhiyicigandaoweiqu，taxiangjujuetongshidashunfengchedeqingqiu，danyoubuzhidaozenmekaikou。

zheiyangdeshiqingjihuchongchizaixiaoxiaoshenghuohegongzuodemeigejiaoluo。

 shuoyiju“bu”youneimenanma?dequeyou，xiaoxiaoyouzijideliyou：patongshinankan、palingdaobuman、pajitarenliuxiabuhaoyinxiang……suoyimeicidoushichengquanbieren，weiquziji，daozuihouliangbiandoubutaohao。

 buguo，duiyugoutonggaoshoulaishuo，“xuehuishuobu”bujinnenggoujizijijianshaomafan，hainengdedaoduifangchengdudetiliang。zheixierenfeichangshanyongbiaodajiqiao。

 jiuxianghongloumengdisanhuili，daiyuwanjuxingfurendeyaoqing：“jiumuaixucifan，yuanbuyingci，zhishihaiyaoguoqubaijianerjiujiu，konglingciqubugong，yirizailing，weiweibuke。wangjiumurongliang。”

zheijuhuajiushiyigewanjuduifangdewannenggongshi：xiankending+fouding+kending。

 xiankendingjiumudetixu，ranhouzaiheqinghelideshuomingzijibunengqudeyuanyin，zuihouzaikendingduifang，shuoyirizaiqubaifangjiumu，xiwangduifangnengtiliang。

suoyixingfurentingleyihouziranyebiaoshilijie，xiaozheshuo：“zheidaoshile。”

qishijujue，yekeyihenyouya;shuobu，yekeyihennuanxin。guanjianshikannidongbudongzheixiegoutongshangde“taolu”。

meiyourenshiyizuogudao，keyiziquan。meigerendoushidaludeyipian， zhengtideyibufen。

zuoweishehuideyifenzi，meigerendoubanyanzhebutongdejiaose。

womenshiernv，yaozhaogufumu;shiairen，yaoweihuyulingyibandeganqing;gengshijiazhang，yaomianduihaizidetaoqiyuchengzhangwenti。

womenzaiwaidapin，gongzuozhuanqianyangjiahukou。

qizhongshouguoduoshaoweiqu，shengguoduoshaoqi，liuguoduoshaolei，zhiyouwomenzijizhidao。

renhuozheyijingbuqingsongle，weishenmehaiyaozijijizijitianduni?

 shanyugoutongderen，biruwodeergeersao，bahunyinshenghuoguodeyuelaiyuehexie;bushanyugoutongderen，wentizhihuiyuetuoyueyanzhong，xiangwodeguimixiaoxiaoyiyang，zuihoubeiyaligaodaojingshenbengkui。

 meiguoxuezhetongguo20duoniandeyanjiuhedui10wanduorendegenzongdiaochafaxian，zaishenghuo、shiyeshangguodexingfuderendouyouyigegongtongdian：tamennenggouzaiguanjianshiketanchenggoutong，holdzhuzhongyaoduihua。

yaobawo“shidang”，yaoshenshishidu，yaochayanguanse，yaosuijiyingbian，zheixiegoutongjinengdoushixuyaoqieshiqumoliande。

 sansuixueshuohua，yishengxuegoutong。dongdehaohaoshuohuaderen，bujinnengchulihaojiatingguanxi，hainengqingsongyingduishenghuohegongzuozhongdegezhongguanxi。

 danshizaishenghuozhong，henduofuqi、qinren、pengyou、tongshizhijian，guanxidepolie，wangwangjiufashengzai“buhuihaohaoshuohua”zheiyidianshang。

youxiaojiaoliurangrenrumuchunfeng，jitongyajiangrangrenrugengzaihou。nishuohuadezhiliangzhijiejuedinglenidexingfugan。