是否还能相信爱情，老公的外遇比他大十几岁

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一、老公的外遇

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二、老公的外遇，怎么办

1、妥善处理自己的情绪：一旦确认老公有外遇，正常人都会出现愤怒、羞辱、挫败、焦虑、委屈等负性情绪。这些情绪的出现和所发生的事件相对应，是正常的。所以，我们第一步要接纳自己这些情绪。在我的咨询经验中，很多妻子在这个时候为了继续斗争，而劝慰自己：“我不难过，我不生气，我是个理性的人”。结果导致更多的愤怒、羞辱、挫败、焦虑、委屈的累积，在面对老公和外遇事件时更缺乏理性和智慧。第二步需要有一个安全的情绪释放，比如可以和闺蜜倾诉自己此刻的这些坏心情，或者写日记控诉，或者摔打老公的枕头。 >> chuguiwaiyu!hunyinweiji!ruhekuaisuzhengjiuhunyin?

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三、老公的外遇比他大十几岁，我该怎么办

laogongdewaiyubitadashijisui，yaoshencaimeishencai，erqiehaizhangdeyiban。

 1、yunilaogonghaohaotanyitan，jinliwanjiuhunyinhexingfujiating，ruoqizhicuonenggaiyuanliangta。tongshifansizijishifouyouzuodebuhaodedifang，renxinshirouzhangde，zheihuabuhuicuo。

2、ruotongguogezhongnulibunengwanjiuhunyinhejiating，shuangfangyiwuganqinghehaodekeneng，zejianyiyifaweihuzijiquanyi