当发现老公有外遇后,这些事情千万不要做

 duiyunvrenlaishuo，dangfaxianlaogongyou waiyu hou，shitiantaxialaidedashi，zheishihounvrenwangwanghenfennu、henshangxin，chongdongzhixiahuizuochuyixieguojidexingwei，yizhizaochengbubiyaodemafan。dangbaiyangzuofaxianlaogongyouwaiyushi，yidingyaolengjing，yaokongzhihaozijideqingxu，wulunniduoweiqu、duojidong，xiamianjijianshiqianwanbunengquzuo：

一、 当发现老公有外遇了千万别到婆家人面前告状。

二、 当发现老公有外遇时千万别去老公单位闹。

 nanrendoushiyaomianzide，niqudanweinao，jiuhaoxiangbataboguanglezhanshizaizhongrenmianqianyiyang，tahuinaonuchengxiu，congerhuipoguanposhuai，dangtameiyoushenmekegujishi，nijiuhennanduifutale。yaojitaliuzhezunyan，ranhouzhuazhutadezheiyiruodian，hetatantiaojian，zheiyangnicainengzhangwozhudong；

三、 当发现老公有外遇了千万别去找“第三者”

 zhiqian，nizhisuoyimeiyoufaxianta，shiyinweinilaogongkeyizaiyinman，tayinmanni，shuomingtahaizaiyini，buxiangshiquni。nimaomaoshishiquzhao“disanzhe”，tashibabudede，chuanghuzhizhongyutongkai，takeyibubiduoshan，lizhiqizhuangdizoudaomuqianle，neimeniyejiumeiyoutuilukexuan，zhishenglihunle。

四、当发现老公有外遇后千万不要提离婚。

有的女人当发现老公有外遇时，二话不说就离婚，强装坚强，死要面子。在你激动时，先不要做决断，让自己静下来，好好思考一下。即使是真的要离婚，也不要说出来，而是找有关人员参考一下，孩子的抚养、财产的分割、债务的清偿等等问题都考虑成熟了，那个时候再离婚，你会胜算很多。早早提离婚只会打草惊蛇，让他和家人有所防备，使事情更加复杂。 >> chuguiwaiyu!hunyinweiji!ruhekuaisuzhengjiuhunyin?

五、当白羊座发现老公有外遇六大对策

1、遇事先冷静

 dangtingdaolaogongyouwaiyudexiaoxihou，shouxianwomenbuyaokaolvzheigeshiqingshikongxuelaifeng，haishiqueyouqishi。shouxian，yaozuodaodeshibazijideqingxulengjingxialai，ruguozaizhidaolezheijianshihou，qingxujidongdeqingkuangxia，mashanghelaogongdachaodanao，jieguozuihouquefaxianshiwulong，neikejiuzaogaole。

2、xiannongqingchushiqingzhenxiang

danglengjingxialaihou，guanyuzheijianshishiyaochuanhaishiqueyouqishi，yidingyaonongqingchu，bijingchongdongshimogui。

3、keyizhaolaogonghaohaotantan

 bijinghaishiyouganqingde，jingguolizhidesikaozhihoukeyihelaogonghaohaotantan，kaichengbugongdejiaotan，xiwangnenggoulejiedaoweishenmelaogonghuizaiwaimianyouwaiyu。ruguozhendeshizijideyuanyin，zijiyeyaolengjingdejieshou。

4、改变自己

 suiranzheiyangshuoyoudiancanku，danshilaogongyouwaiyuhuoduohuoshaohuihezijiyouguanxi，yaomeshizijipiqitaiguoyubaozao，yaomeshizijizongshizaimangliuhushilelaogongdeganshou，yaomeshizijichulibuhaojiatingmaodun，ranglaogongwusuoshicong，zhinengxuanzetaobi，yincicaihuichuxianwenti，yaoshizhegaibianziji。

5、buyaozhuazhuxiaobianzibufang

 ruguolaogongzhendefanlecuo，erqieyijingzhenxinhuigaile，neimejiuchangkainidexinhuaijienata，buyaojiuzhuxiaobianzibufang，deliburaoren，zheiyangdehua，kongpalaogonghaihuizaifantongyangdecuowude，baorongcaihuiyingdezhenxin。

6、lihunqiankaolvqingkaolvqingchu

 ruguonibunengjieshoulaogongchuguideshishi，qingzailihunqian，bazuochulihunzheijianshidedaijiakaolvqingchu。shouxian，liguohundenvrenjiazhilimahuixiadie，niyaomingbaizijizailihunhouyudaodelaogong，zaizongheshuipingshangkenengbixianzaizheigecha。bingqiehaiyoukaolvqingchuhaizi、yijicaichanfenpeidewenti。