怎么才能发现老婆有外遇，老公怎么做？

 zenmecainengfaxianlaopoyouwaiyu？qizichuguizhenduilaogongeryan，shiyicirangzishenzizunbijiaoyanzhongsunshangdeyanlidaji，zaijienabushangdezhuangkuangxiafeichangrongyizuochubulizhibulixingdegerenxingweilai，lirunuchi、baozoudisanzhe，zongshijiakuaihunyinshenghuodeliekai，bingbuhuijinichanshengyiqiebiedehaochu。beizhezhangfudewaiyuzhilvyoushenmebiaoxian？beijingdiaochawaiyuruhequzheng？

 zaihuozhiqizichuguihou，laogongyingdangzuodediyijianshishipingjingxialai，xiangyixiangxiamiangaizenyangzuo。queshijienabushangdenenggouliyi，erbuyuanyirangzishendehunyinshenghuojubuweijianzhongdezenenggoutiaoxuanwanliu。erwulunshisheqihuanshijianchibuxie，weilegenghaodifangzhiyicuozaicuo，laogongdouyingdangxiangyixiangchuguinvrendeyuangu。

 congyuantoushangeryan，qingganguanlianchuxiandeyiqienanti，quanshinanshengdaozhide，youyutameiyoujinhaolingzheyigenvrendeyiwu，caizaochengtazoupianzouwai，meifazuodaoyitongxinyoulingxi。congbenshendeshijiaoqusisuo，caikeyixiezhunizuochuqiadangdetiaoxuan。

一、出轨女人的缘故

 xingqubuhe。youdefufuzaiqingganshangyuanbenfeichanghao，danshijianzhangdanshifajuexianghumeiyouyitongdexingqu，lirulaopoxiaiwudao，laogongquezhixiaiwanpaideng。zheizhongxingquaihao、xihao、lixiangshangdechabieshilianggerenyulaiyumeiyougongtonghuati，bufayebijiaoyanzhongdebuyizhi。jiaruzheishihouzaiwaimianpengdao“zhiyi”，jiufeichangrongyirangrenshenxianwaiyuzhongqu。

 xinhanbufuhe。jiarujiehunhoudeshenghuolingrenjuedexinhanhebufuhe，henduorenbianhuizhaoxunbiededefangfahuozhecijixinglairangzishendexinlizhuangtaidedaokaolvhejunheng。liruhunhoushenghuolingrenjuedegudu、wuqu，fufubiciquefaqinmigan，bunenggoujilingyifangchanshengshenghuoqingqu，zheishihou，disanzhe、hunwailianjiuchenxuerrule。youqishineileizhangqixingliangdifenjulianggedifangdefufu，jiandaotarendefufudoushuangshuangduidui，xiangaitianmei，neixinzaisuonanmianzaochengmishihebupinghengdejuede，yinerfeichangrongyixunzhaoqita“wenrouxiang”。

 fuqishenghuobuhexie。tashizaochengwaiyuzaochengdeguanjianyuanguzhiyi。jiaruhunyinshenghuomeiyouhemudefuqishenghuo，shihenwufaweichide。jibian biciqingganzaihao，youyoujigekeyiyibeiziguo“bolatu”shideaiqingshini?zheishihouchanshengwaiyuzheijianshiqinghaoxiangzaoyimeifafangzhile。

二、怎样应对第三者

 duanbeizhezhangfudewaiyuzhilvyoushenmebiaoxian？qineikaizhanlengbaoli。ruguonixifusilexinshiyaowaiyu，cikenilairenkeniyiqianduitadebuzuguanzhuhehulve，tazaoyishiwufaxiangyiqianneibanaizheni，youyunicishijinjinzaihelixingtafangqinideyuangu。ercishinixuyaozuodeshirangshuangfangdoupingjingxialai，zaiduanqineineikaizhanlengbaoli，bubiquzhaota，gengbuguidingtahuijia，nineiyangzuojinjinyizhongdishiyongjiazhidegerenxingwei。shubuzhizenmecainengbianhuanweigaoshiyongjiazhi，xiamiankaizhandierbu。

 xuexipeixunjingzhengzheyoudian。jinguanniyingduiqizichuguizheiyijianshijuedezizunbijiaoyanzhongcuolie，keshinizaoyizhujiangaibianxianzhuangderichangshenghuo，keshinifangfohuanshitihuibushanglingyifangyouyiqiefanying，tadexinhaoxianghuanshigensuijingzhengzhe。cikenigaisisuodeshixifuerdeyaoqiushisha，weihetazhixiaihejingzhengzhezaiyiqi，erbutiaoxuangenggaihouchusedenizaiyiqi，ninengxuexipeixunjingzhengzhedeyoudian，quqijinghua，zuoyigegengdongnvrendenanren。

三、提高使用价值

 beijingdiaochawaiyuruhequzheng？zaizaishenghuoshang，nideshenghuozhuangtaizenyang?shichangchangmilianwangyou，huanshiyilansanweituocirenpingzishenrouroujiansheng?wanliuxuexiaodelaoshishuoguo：“shenghuopinzhishizhangqixingxiyinzhuzuizhongyaodeyigeyinsu，youyushenghuopinzhiyueyuegaoyuejingcaifencheng，jiuyuenengzhangqixingdexiyinzhudaoshenbianderengenniyiqishenghuo。”nixuyaopaoxiayiwangdexiaochenrichangshenghuo，duojiaopengyou、yaogantanxian、yundongjianshen、xiangshourensheng、zhuiqiumengxiang，zheizhongcaisuanshixiyinzhuyixingpengyoudeshenghuoxiguan。

 zaiyuyancengmian，yiban shanyugoutongjiaoliudenansheng，dounenghenqiadangdijiejuekunnan，youlianghaodegoutongfangfazishenbianshipindexiuyangdefanying，zaiqinggankeyihenvrenhaohaodigoutongjiaoliu，nengjiejuexuduofenqi，rangqingganwendingfazhanqushi，shinanshizhanxianfengcaidefangshi。danqiewugaotankuolun，ziwochuixu，neiyangzongshiyoufanshijixiaoguo，rangnvxingganjuenimeichenwen，bunengxinlai。

 danfuqishuyunideyiwu。ninengyougongzuoyali、youfudan，danbukeyixiangainiderenfaxie，rangtaxianggeyemeneryiyangqukuanweini。xiangfan，dangainiderenxinqingyumenxiangnidashenghanjiaoshi，niwubichongfenfahuinanrendezuoyong，jitayigejianbu，bangtazhenglixintai，jiejuekunnan。zaitajiejuerichangshenghuoguanjiandianshang，ninengjitayixietiyihecanzhao，jutizhidaotaruhezuo，erbushiyouyuxintongtatidaitawanchengletagaizuodeshi。nixuyaoyingzaoqinanshengdepinpaixingxiang，tabixudeshiyigechunyemen，bingbingbushihaojiemei。

四、更改相处模式

 tishengxiangchushijian。wanhunbianshiliangrenyiqiguorizi，jiarujiehunlehoufandaojiaowangdeshijianjiangdile，nanshengyijiaojideyuanyinzaiwaimianfangzong，nvxingzaijialigushouneimejiule，nvxingbianhuiganjueguduhekumen，bianhuimengfachulingzebierenkuanweideniantou。suoyishuo，nanrenyaoyufangnvrentouqing，zuixianbianshiyaoduogujiajiaju，duojinvxingkuanwei，yaorangzishenbeijinglixianghou，wennuanqueliudaojiali。neiyang，nvxingjiudangranjiangdilehunhouchuguidegailv。

 zengjiaqingqu。meiyigerenzhenduishenmiganquanshiyouchongjingde，erwanhunhenduonian，hainengjixifusongmeiguihuaderen，bingbuyidingshibenxinghenlanmanderen，danquezhiyoushimingbaizuiaideren。jibian nidefangfameiyouduoxinqile，danhuanshinengrangxifujuededaoniderenzhenheqingyibianshiqudechenggongde，xiangxin，duoheqizizengjinganqing，jiubuyongjiangfangshishangdelanman。jinyouqingganhaola，yecaishunlichengzhangdiyoulanmanlequketan。suoyishuo，ganqingsuzaoshizhuyaode。ruguoninengbaochizheqingyiheganqingdewendu，dajiadeqingganjiuyongyoukangyouxing，neimadajiadeqingganbianhuiyuelaogu。

 zenmecainengfaxianlaopoyouwaiyu？hunyinshenghuozhongchuxiannantishiyiqiezhengchangde，dangliangrendoubudangyunying、buyuanyizhangwolingyifangdeniantou，zhituzishendeyixiangdeqingkuangxia，jiufeichangrongyifashengzhengzhi，zaochengguanliandeebian。haodezhangqixingguanlian，bingbushijiandiaolemoheqi。zhangqixingguanlianzhongchuxianmaodunshiyiqiezhengchangde，meiyouchanshengguomaodundeganqing，nenggoushuochengyizhongbuwanzhengdeai。jiarunanshengdelianaidengjigaoguonvxing，binglejiezenyanglingzhetaxiangshourenshengdejingcaifenchenghekaixin，liangrenyongyou yitongdezongtimubiao，neimazheiyiduanguanlianyaoxiangzhangqipingwenjiuyibushishananti。