有外遇的妻子怎么面对？丈夫应该怎么做

 hunyinwaiyudiaochazenmezuo？qiziwaiyuzenmeban？bansuizheshehuifengshangderiyiduiwaikaifang，renmendeganqingyeyuelaiyueyulaiyufenfanfuza。budanyuelaiyuenanshengfengmizaiwaimianzhaodisanzhe，bumoshouchenguidenvxingyezhujianganjue，jiranxianjieduandeshenghuozhuangtaibingbushizishenyaoxiangde，neimanvxinghaikeyizaiwaimianxunzhaozishensuoqueshaode，yinci jiuyongyouchuguinvren。youwaiyudeqizizenmemiandui？

 zhengsuowei“yiqiecunyoujiebiding”，chuguinanrenyoufeichangdayibufenyuangushiyinweizishendexifuguanbutaihaota，erchuguinvrenyeshiyiyangdedadaoli。yingduichuguidelaopo，nanshengchukaizema、zhizezishendexifu，naizhizhaowaiyunandajiadououpaiqi，nanrenmenshibushigengyingdangsikaoyixiazishendexifuweishenmehuiwaiyuni?jiaruyiqianzijizuodechongzuhao，neimatahaihuijixuzuochupanbianzishendeshierma?yiqianjianglenanshenggairuhefangzhiqizichuguide“sanbubi”，neimazheierranhouzailiaoshuoxiangbimian qizichugui，nanrenyaobaozhengxialiede“sangeyao”。

一、要好好爱她，重视她的体会，给与她大量的关注和守候。

 qiziwaiyu，xuduohunyinshenghuozailijingshijiandebianhuayihou，2gerendeqingganyouzuikaishideganqingjianjiandidebianhuaweizhenqing，daozuizhongnvxingzhenduinanshengeryan，huoxugenghaoxiangzishendejiarenyibandecunyou。zhengyouyuzheiban，xuduonanshengzuobudaokandaizishendexifuxiangzuikaishishineiban。tamenzaiyebuhuihaohaodideshandaizijidexifu，shijijiufanyingzaiyibuzhongshitadetihui，ganjuenvxingbianshiyingdangdanfujiazhongquanbudejiawuhuosuosuide，nanshengxiabanlehuidaojiajiuyinggaishihaohaodishifangyalide。yinci tamenzijiaiganshenmejiuganshenme，taileilejiuwulunyiqieshier，chiguofandaochuangjiushui。youjingtoudehuajiuzuohaozijixiaideshier，liruwangshang、dayouxi、chulaihepenyouyinjiuyongcan。

 tamencongbuhuixiangyixiangzishendexifuyeshiren，jishitamenshijiatingzhufuwuxugongzuo，yingduishenghuosuoshiyehuichuxianleideyitian。nvxingyushengjulaishiweiqingganweizhide，weilegenghaodizishendelianrenhexiaohai，zaileizaikuderichangshenghuotamenyekeyichengshou，weiyouyouyijianshiqingtamenshinanyirenshoude。neibianshiganjuezishendezhangfubuzuzaihuta，meiyouzhiqianneimaaitale，zhangfuzaijiehunhouduizishendeshouhoushaole，guanzhuyeshaole，neimatamenrichangshenghuodequdonglizaina?yinci ，nanshengyingdanghaohaoaita，duoquzhangwotaqingxudezhuanbian，jiyutadaliangdeguanzhuheshouhou。

二、尺寸事儿做决定前问一问她的建议，遇上难题要和他一起担负。

 youwaiyudeqizizenmemiandui？youyixienanshengdananrenzhuyixianzhu，zaijiehunhoujiazhongchedimeiyouxifujianghuadedi。shenmeshiqingquanshitazijilaiding，chedibuzaihutadeniantou，tamenjuedenvxingzhixugaohaoqinjianchijiazheiyijianshierjiuhaole，qitatakeyigaohao。keshitamenquehushilezishendexifuyeshibenren，yeshiyouzishendeguanniande。liruzaimaijiajushitayeshiyouzishendeaihao，tahuoxugengqidainikeyimaitaxiaideyangshi，hekuang，shijishangyeshitayongdaoduo，bingbushigengyingdangyitadeniantouweibenma?

 yudananzizhuyifanguolaidezeshiyouyixienanshengquebujuyouyigenanrengaiyoudetexing，shijijiuzhuyaobiaoxianzaizuoshijiusong，chedimeiyouyigenanrendedandang。zhangciyiwangnvxingbianhuiganjuezheigenanrenqueshihaomeiyouyong，chedijibushangzishenjiezhu。yinci ，meigerendoushuo：zainanmianqianyuzhenxin，yushangjiannanbianshizuikeyimolianyigerendeqingkuangxia，nijiarulianzheiyiguanyeguobushang，niyaozenmehetaguorizi?

三、要不断发展让她见到期待。

 haowuyiwenyouneimayixienvrenshijiaoweizisizilihuaxuewuzhide，huanjuhuashuozheiyileinvxingjiageiyigenanrenzhuzhongdehuoxujinjintutadeqian。keshi，juedabufennvrendoushiaiqingzuimeilide，tamenjiageiyigenanrendaliangdeshiyouyuai。zheiyinvxingdangshijiajinihuoxushiyouyuniduitachongzuhao，rangtaxiangyaobazijidezhongshengxinlaiyuni，taganjueyunirichangshenghuoshishimanhuaixiwangde。keshishijiquehencanrendegaozhinvxing，zuikaishidexingfuchedibianshitazishendexiangxiang，youyuxuduonanrenzaijiehunhouzhuyaobiaoxiandebuqiushangjin，yitiandaowanbushiwanyouxibianshiwusuozuowei。hejiehunqianchedidabuxiangtong，yingduibuqiushangjindezhangfu，nvxingbianhuijianjiandideduirichangshenghuosangshizixinxin。meinvmendoushihuiganjuenanshengnenggouqiong，keshitabunenglan，tazuishaoyaoyouyikejinquxin，yaorangtajiandaonimeiridoushizaifazhanyidiandian，neimazheiyijiacaihuichuxianpantou。

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