怎么用计策挽回婚姻

　　zenmeyongjicewanhuihunyin，hunyinshenghuo，zheiyibeichengzuoganqingzuizhongxuanzedeshengdian，youshihouyehuizaoshoufengchuiyuda，naizhilaidaopoliedebianyan。danbiezheji，zheiciwozheiyizimeitipingtaiqinggandashijiulaibangnizhizhizhao，shoubashoujiaoniyingyong5gehaoyongduice，wanliunimendehunyin，zhongxindianranneiyifenyiqianchiredeaihuo!

　　一、前言：婚姻问题，实际上是爱的转折

　　zaikaishijinruwanliuduiceyiqian，womenxianliaoyiliaoyigeguannian：hunyinwenti，qishibushiquanqiumori，fanershidajiaaideyicizhuanzhe。meiyiduanzhangjiudehunyin，zongyaojingligezhongtiaozhanhekaoyan，erkunjingqiahaoshibaoluwenti、cujinchengzhangdejihui。yinci，ruguonizaoyuhunyinshenghuokunjingshi，hebujiangtakanzuoyicirangaiqingshenghuadehaojihui。

　　二、自我反省：找到问题的本质

　　wanjiuhunyindediyibu，shizuohaoshenkeziwofansheng。jilao，hunyinzhongdewentibingbuyidingshidanfangmian，fanershibicigongtongzuoyongdejieguo。yinci，womenxuyaojingxialai，shensishulvyixiajigewenti：

　　wozaihunyinshenghuozhongbanyanzheshenmeyangderenwu?

　　shifouguoyuqiangshi，hushilebierendeganshou?

　　shifouqueshaogoutong，rangwuhuihejiedizhujianjiashen?

　　shifouduiganqingshiquchuzhong，yuelaiyuefuyanleshihelengmo?

　　zheiduanhunyinchuxianshenmeyangdewenti?

　　shigoutongbudaowei，huoshijiazhiguannianbufuhe?

　　shishenghuosuosuijileixialaidefenqi，huoshiwaibuyalisuodaozhideliefeng?

　　shiyulunyali，huoshisanguanbuhe?

　　genjuziwofansheng，ninenggengqingxidiyishidaozijizaihunyinzhongdewenti，jiqihunyinshenghuochuxianliehendegenbenyuanyin。zheiyeshiwanjiuhunyindezhongyaobaozhang，youyuzhiyouzhaodaonanti，cainengshibangongbei。

　　三、对策一：复建沟通的桥梁，敞开心扉

　　zenmeyongjicewanhuihunyin，hezuoshiwanjiuhunyindeguanjiansuozai。xuduohunyinshenghuowangwanglaidaopoliedebianyan，shiyinweibicishiquyouxiaogoutong。yinci，womenyaozuodediyijianshijiushifujiangoutongdeqiaoliang，kaiqibicizhijiandexinfei。

　　tiaoxuanheshideshijianyuhuanjing

　　zhaoyigeshuangfangjiaoweifangsongshishikeke，liruwanfanguohou、sanbuhuolibaitiandewuhou。

　　tiaoxuanyigeanjing、sirendeziranhuanjing，fangzhiwaijieganrao。

　　聆听比说更为重要

　　zaigoutongdeshihou，yaoqingtingduifangxiangfaheganshou，buyaojizhebiaodazijideguandian。

　　yongyanshen、shentiyuyanhekoutoushangyijianfankui(ru“ng”、“wodongdele”)laibiaodanideguanzhuyulejie。

　　表述真实体验

　　yong“wo”kaishilaibiaodazijideganshou，liru“wojuededajiajinqigoutongjiaoliujianshaole，wozhendehengudan。”

　　fangzhipipinghejingong，weichipingjingdekouqi。

　　寻找一同解决方法

　　yiqitantaozenyanggaishanhunyinqingkuang，tanxunbicidounengjieshoudejiejuefangfa。

　　zhidingjutidejihua，binggongtongjianduluoshi。