婚姻出现怎么挽回

　　hunyinchuxianzenmewanhui，woxiangzheishixuduolaopozuosiyouxiangwenti，youyunanshengdoubuxiangjieshuhunneichuguiaiqing，ruguojitahesanerfenkai，biranyoushiyichangqiangliefanxiang，rangfufulianggerendeguanxihuoshangjiaoyou。

　　neiyounaxieshiquanshimeifangfani?you，danbingbuyiweizhelianggerenzhijianbuchuxianfenqi，xianghepingtanpanhunneichuguiaiqinggenbenbukeneng。

　　第一步：重构对夫妻关系的认知能力。

　　“niyueshihaipashenme，jiuhuiyuehuiyoushenme”，zheihuazhanxianchuhunyinwentilidefuqixiangchuzhidao。

　　ruguonijupasunhaifuqiguanxi，niqiannenghuirenbuzhujianshao，nizhangfukanjianzijijiaotaliangtiaochuanhaiyouxiwangshi，tahuixiangfangshefawancheng，nibufankang，jiuhuidajideyueyanzhong。

　　qizimenyaorenqinghunneichuguiaiqingyijingfashengle，zhangfuzaoyiyiqingbielian，zheishiaiqingzaoyishoudaosunhuai。

　　nimendeguanxiyouhaodu、xinlai、yilai，qingganshangdegoutongjiaoliu、richangzheizhongpingpingdandandeshenghuodouyishoudaoleshanghai。

　　nirujinyinggaizuodebingbushi“weihuaiqingbimianshanghai”，fanershi“yaoganyudezhengshiwenti，lejiehunneichuguiaiqing”。

　　nizenyangduidaizishen，zenyangduidaiganqing，zenyangduidaihunneichuguiaiqing，nizhangfuhaihuiyongtongyangdefangshiduidaiziji，kandainimenzhijiandeganqinghehunneichuguiaiqing。

　　第二步：确立完毕婚内出轨爱情的总体目标。

　　queliniyoushenmeyaoqiu，shibaoquancaichan，liyi?haishixiangyaoduanhunneichuguiaiqing，wanhuihunyin?

　　shezhihaozhumubiaohou，jiangdamubiaoqiechengyigegexiaomubiao，zhujiancujin。

　　henduorendoubuzhidaozenyanggenhunneichuguiaiqingxuanzhan，tahenbunengyikouqijirangzhangfuzhonggui，youshisanerliqu。

　　nengdashengaiqingbaoweizhandenvzi，douyougezidefangan，tazhidaoshenmeshihouhelaogongchuangjianlianjie，shenmeshijianduanfufushangtan，heshizhaosanergoutongjiaoliu，zenyanghelaogonghesanershangtan……

　　ruguonizhihuihaijilingyifangxingdong，nibianhuihenbeidongweizhi，feichangrongyibeisaneryunanrenbawo。

　　第三步，呈现婚内出轨爱情带来的损失的损失。

　　hunyinchuxianzenmewanhui，laopoyunanrengoutongdeshihou，yidingyaojianghunneichuguiaiqingzaochengdehouguo，renbunengzairouhedehuanjingligenggai，jinyourangtakandaozhenzhengyiyishangdeshanghaisunhai，tacaikaolvfenkai。

　　huanjiezhong，niyedequzhenglidajiahunyinshenghuoyoushenmepinfa，zhangfuzaihunyinshenghuozhongyoushenmewaishang，yibianzuohulirenyuanquzhiyuwaishang，yibianzuozhanshizhiyequboyi，quwanbihunneichuguiaiqing。

　　yaorangzhangfujiandao：nongfanhunneichuguiaiqing，qizishihaobuliuqingde。

　　rangtakandaonidenengliangheshouduan。

　　chudiaozhiqiande“buyuansunhaifuqiganqing”“xiangyaotongguotaohaota，jiashenganqingdefangshiquwanbihunneichuguiaiqing”yishi。

　　zheizhongfangfagaibianbulezhangfudegerenxingwei，jiaruwoconghunneichuguiganqinglichangtiantouhou，decunjinchidifanfuzheizhongxingwei。

　　niyaoyongganhezhangfuchuopohunneichuguiaiqing，quelixiangfenshou，goutongjiaoliusunhai，goutongjiaoliunanshenghunneichuguiaiqingdexinlizhuangtaidadaodian，zhiyuhunyinlicunzaiguodewaishang，jihunneichuguiaiqingshiya，cujinshucifufushangtan、qisanshangtan、sanfanghuitan，zhizhihunneichuguiaiqingwanbicaixing。