挽回婚姻：刚分手如何挽回最有效

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　　1、积极挑明自己的观点

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　　2、搞好情绪控制

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　　3、提高自身的魅力

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　　4、给彼此充足的认可

　　nvrenxinshifeichangmingande，yexiwangnanshengkeyibaohuzishen，xiwangyihounanshengkeyidongdezunzhong，weizijichongzuderenke，zheiyangtacaihuizhidaonishibushizaiguanxinta。womenxuyaorangzijibiandegedizhanxianchuzijideshiyongjiazhi，yeyaojibicigengduodekenengxingyukongjian，cainenggouranglingyifanggengjiaaini。duinvrenlaishuoxinlaishihenzhongyaode。nvshengdouxihuanzaiganqingzhongdedaoanquanganbeizhongshigan，yinertahenxihuannanshengdaijitachongzudeqing。zaihunyinshenghuozhong，lianggerenhuxiangxinlaijiushifeichangzhongyaodeganqingdejichuyoulai，suoyidajiazhijianxuyaobicixinrencainenggenghao。