一招让绝情的女人主动回头

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　　一、看清现况，直面问题

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　　biechangshiduobihuoshizhegainanti，neifanerhuirangtagengjiadichu。niyaoyonggandijienazijideguoshi，chengrenzijibugou。liru，nishifouchangchanghushiduifangdeganshou，shifouyizhigongzuomangliuerhushileduiyutadeshouhou，shifouzaitaxuyaodeshihounizongbuzaiyiqi?gezhongwenti，doushidaozhitasilexindezhijieyuanyin。

　　dangnizhenzhengzhenzhenzhengzhengyishidaozijidenanti，bingyuanyiweicigaibianshi，tacaikenengzaicijiniyicijihui。

　　二、冷战一段时间，给他室内空间

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　　三、提高自己，变得越来越好

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　　neiniquxuexiyixiexindejineng，lirupengzhi、paishe、huihuadeng。zheixienenglibudannengrangnideshenghuogengjiajingcai，haikeyicongniwanliutashi，chengweizijidejiafen。nikeyixiangxiang，ruguonituranchuxianzaitademianqian，womenbujinbiandegengjiazixin、wanshan，haiyaoduoleyixiangrangqiguamuxiangkandezhuanyejineng，taweishenmehuixindonga?

　　chukaixuejineng，nihaiyaozhuzhongzishendewaizaixingxiang。foyaojinzhuang，yigeganjingzhengjie、dafangdetipinpaixingxiang，nengjirenliuxiashenkedeyinxiang。yinci，niyaodongdedaban，zhaodaoshihezijidechuanyifengge。ruguoniyiyigequanxindexingxiangchuxianzaitademianqian，tayidinghuiyanqianyiliang。

　　四、重新建立联络，慢慢的靠近

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　　nikeyitongguoyixiegongtongdepengyouhuoshishejiaowangluolailejietadexiankuang。liru，ninengzaipengyouquanzhongkanjiantafenxiangleyixiexiangpianhuoshiqingkuang，ninengqiadangdidiandianzanhuoshipinglunyixia。keshi，pingjiadeneirongfenfaxiangshang，bubitanjicongqiandelianaiwenti。

　　ruguonijuedetiaojianchengshushi，yekeyichangshiyuetachuqujianyimian。dizhikeyixuanzeyixiexiangduiqingsong、qingsongyukuaidediqu，lirukafeiguan、gongyuandeng。zaijianmianshi，nishizhongbaochidangran、qingsongyukuaideqingkuang，bubirangtajuededaogongzuoyali。ninengliaoyixiezuijinchanshengdeyouqushier，huoshifenxiangyixienidexinxihao。