ruherangjueqingdenvrenhouhui,zaiaidejianghuzhong,renmenzongshinanmianhuichuxianyixiequzhe。youshi,benlaiaiguoyihou,queyinweigezhongyuanyin,rangneigetaduizijidesilexin,xuanzelelikai。cike,nihuoxuhuigandaowuli,danbiewangle,ganqingzongshichongmanlebianhua,zhiyaozhidaozhengquedefangshi,yexujiunengrangqihehaoruchu。xiamian,jiurangwomenyiqitanxun,zenyangyong5gejuejiwanliuyigesixindenvren。
一、看清现况,直面问题

1. 认错,不回避
zuixian,womenyaozuodediyijianshijiushichengrenzijidecuowu。xianbiejizhezhaoliyou,yebuyaoshitubayiwutuidaotadeshenshang。jilao,yigebazhangpaibuxiang,ganqingchuxianliehen,bicidouyouzeren。niyaozuodejiushi,lizhidipouxinimenzhijiandeganqing,zhaodaowentidebenzhi,suihoujiandingdichengrenzijibugou。
2. mianduixianshi,bujiujie
dabufennanrenzaifenshouzhihou,douhuixuanzebuyiburao,changshiyonggezhongfangshiwanliu。danzheiyangzuo,tongchangfanerhuirangtagengjiadichu。niyaozuodejiushimianduixianshi,renkedajiayijingfenshoulezheiyishishi,suihoujitayixieshijianyukongjian,rangtaqulengjingfenxi。jilao,jiuchanbuqingbingbushiwanliu,fanershijiangtatuigenggaogengyuan。
二、提升自己,重构风采
1. waibuduanbianhua,huanranyixin
foyaojinzhuanghaomapeihaoan,yigerendewaizaixingxiang,wangwangnenggoujirenliuxiashenkedeyinxiang。yinci,nixianghehaota,jiucongzishenxingxiangkaishigaibian。huangefaxing,maijitaoxinyifu,dongdezuhe,rangzijikanqilaigengweijingshenshizhi、kushuai。neiyang,ruguonituranchuxianzaitademianqian,caikeyijitayizhonghuanranyixindeganjue。
2. benzhitigao,fengfuziwo
ruherangjueqingdenvrenhouhui,waizaigenggaizhishidiyibu,gengweiguanjiandeshineizaitigao。niyaodongdefengfuduocaizijidesiwei,tigaozijidehanyang,rangzijibiandegengjiayoupinwei。ninengnianshu、lvyou、xuexijineng,zongeryanzhi,rangzijibiandegengjiayouyisi、youqizhi。neiyang,tacaihuizaicibeinidadong。
三、取得联系,逐渐提温

1. buzhangyangfasheng,bumaomei
ruguonijuedezijiyijingtiqiandechabuduoshi,jiukeyiqushizhehetaqudelianxile。danjizhu,yidingyaodidiao,bubirangtagandaonizhengzaiyouyijiuchanbuqing。yekeyixuanzezaipengyouquanzhongdiandianzan,huoshiyoushihoufayitiaowenhaodeshuju。jilao,bubitaipinfan,yebuyaoguoyujiqing,rangqijianjiandikanjiannidecunyoujiuxing。
2. gongtongyuyan,lajinguanxi
dangnimenzhijiandeguanxiyousuohuanheshi,jiukeyiquxunzhaoyixiegongtongyuyanle。zheiyangdehuatinenggoujiushinimencengjingyiqijinglideshi,haikeyishixianzaidetaganxingqudehuati。niyaozuodejiushi,genjuzheiyangdehuati,lajindajiajiandejuli,rangtaganshoudaodajiazhijiandemoqihegongmingdian。
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