怎么理解婚姻？怎么挽回婚姻呢？

 ruhewanhuihunyin?hunyinyoushizhizhongdouburongyishihongyundangtoude，zheiyidianerbixujilao。jiusuanshizheixiezaoyilaidaorenshengjintoudetoufabianbaifufumen，yiqianjiaowangdeshiguanglihaowuyiwenyeshiqinshenjingliguokankankeke，zhiyoutamenmingbaicaokongzhumingjiaoganqingdechuanbo，nengjianchibuxiezaidafengdalanglimianweichizhebuhuigaibiandechuhangyundongguiji，zhaobudaodidangbuzhudezuzhinengzugeliangrendeqinggan。qingganwanhuizenmeban?

 zaihunyindequanqiuli，yuekeyishenrudinongdongtadecunyou，yueduokeyiqiadangdiweihubaoyanghaohunyin，chuangjianqipingwendeanquanfanghu，ranghunyindujuebuchenggong。

一、在婚姻里怎样降低离异的概率

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?nikeyixuehaoqiadangdequweihubaoyangzishendehunyinnenggoushiliangrendehunyinpingwen。erbingbushishuoquguidinglingyifanggenggaibianweizuixihuandenixiangxiangdemoyangjiushishuodajiazhenzhengdeaiqing。zhinengqiadangdeweihubaoyangnenggoujianshaoliyidegailv。

 chuangjianzishendejiagou。zaidajiahunyinli，xuduorenmeiyouzishendejiagou，zailingyifangganlesunhainihuoshijiushinitaoyandehenbijiaoyanzhongdeshieryihou，xuduorenyaotiaoxuanrennai，couhe，zaiyebuhuidongdeyongjiangfatizhilaijiejue，yincizainilingyifanglaikanbuguanganlenaxieshiernizuizhongdoushitiaoxuanyuanliang，tabingmeishenmesunhai，sunhainizhenduitaeryanbuyongnulichengbenfei，neimatazaizuoganjuezaiyebuhuiyuanyideshierdeneishihouburongyipeinishangyi，lijipeinishuojieguo，neimazainidehunyinlijiushizhongcunyouzhewaiyudefengxianxing。dajiazhongjiandeqingganyehuiyulaiyubupingwen。jianjiandideniyehuijiangzishenfangdao 1geshouhairendezhenshishenfen，jianjiandidehuichixudemaiyuannidehunyin，maiyuandiqudajiazhongjiandeqingganyehuijianjiandidechuxiannanti。yincibixuyaochuangjianzishendejiagou。

 ruhewanhuihunyin?chuangjiangongtongxing。zaifuqiganqingzhongxianghutongxinghenguanjian，gongtongxingshaoyizhiyudajiadewuyishimeiyouduijiedao，tashifufuzhangqixingguanlianlishifenguanjiande。youyujiarudajiadewuyishinenggouhuodelianjie，neimalingyifangjiuhuiduinizaochengzheizhongnijiushishuotadelanyanzhiji，zaixuduoshierkeyidajinxiangtong，neimatajiuhuijuedekuanrongni，aizhenishitaliyingzuodeshier，jiuburongyizaiqutiaonixiaomaobing。yincinikeyihuizaigoutongdejiqiao，jiqipingchangyishizhuxingyisuomendefangshishenghuoshangyebaoxianfangfatigaodajiazhongjiandeqinggan，tishengdajiazhongjiandegongtongxing。

二、怎样维护保养婚姻的长期性平稳

 wojuede，hunyinshimeiduanjiongranbutongyulianqingdeguanlian，huizaochengtamenliyiyeyouyutamenzaiwanhunyihouxiedaileliangrenxianghuguanxiweihubaoyang。neima，zenyangzuonenggougengqiangdeweihubaoyanghunyindezhangqixingpingwen?

 qingganwanhuizenmeban?zaihunyinderichangshenghuotishengmouxiequweixing。hunhou，liangrenshicongtianmanlanmandelianqingxianjiedaoqieqieshishidehunyinli，dangliangrenshizhongquanshifaweidechaoxixiangchu，jianjiandide，jiuhuiganjueguodukuzao。renquanshiyouqiuzhiyude，douxiaijiandaoxinxiandewupin、youyisideshi，yinciyaobaochifuqijianshenhoudeqinggan，tishengyishizhuxingxingfugan，haiyaomingbaizenquweirichangshenghuo tishengquweixing。dajianenggouyoushihouchulaixiangyouyixiaxialanmandeliangrenshijie，jigouyixiaxiaqinzihudonghuojiazhongchuxing，youhuoshiyikuaierweijiazhongpinzhuangmouxiequweidewupin，gesanchawudegaomouxiepingchangpianshaozuodeshierjiuhuitishengdajiahunhoushenghuodequweixing。

 bicibixuyouzijintouru。zaizheiyiquanshijie，peizhenizuizhangdeneirenshinideduifang。yiner，fuqiganqingnenggoushuochengshijiezuiqinmiwujiandeguanlianle。zhimingganqingzhuanjiakangnacengshuo：“aideganshou，jiuqujueyuzijintourudeshiduoshao。nizijintourudeyueda，nidexinganshouyueduoqiang。renmenbukeyineimazisizili，bukeyizaiquanguochengzhizhong，zhinengzishenzijintouruerbuxutaquweizheixieguanlianzijintouru。”zaihunhoushenghuozhong，dajiazaixianghuyishizhuxingdeneishihou，nikeyimingbaizenyangweilingyifangnuli，qiemingbaizenyangquzhengqueyindaolingyifangjizijinuli，youzijintouru，zhenduiganqingdeganshoucaihuigengweimingxian。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?tuoshanchuliqinziguanxi。qinziguanxiyouxuduozhong，zaiqizhongbierenshuodeshuzuiduode，chukaifuqiganqinghuoxujiushishuopoxizhijianle。1gejiazhongzhizhong，poxizhijianbuheshihenduorendoumeifachulidenanti，chengweiqianguanandian。keshi，poxizhijianqueshishimeifadiaohedema?wojuedebingfeide，youyujiapodoushiyigenvhaibale，bingqiegenxifuerxiangtongquanshishiquwangxiangtongnansheng，dajiazhongjianshiyouxiangtongdiande，nikeyigaoqingchuzheiyidianererqielejiejiapo，jianxinpoxizhijiandoushikeyihemujiaowangde。

三、婚姻中夫妇的几种交往技巧

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?xuduorenhuihenxianmujiduneileifeichangshaozhengzhi、fuqijianhuanhuanxixideyishizhuxing，xianmujidutamenkeyixianghuxinrenxianghu，bizhaozishensuochuyudehunhoushenghuoqingkuang，chanshengzheizhonghendadeqifugan。ruguoxiaojidexinxuzhanyounaohaizhong，jiuhuijifufulianggerendejiaowangdaozhikunhuo，bulizhihoudeqingganfazhanqushi。danwojuede，fuqijiandeyishizhuxingbixuweichizheizhongjunhengdeqingkuang，genjuyoushandejiaowangjiangdixianghudefenqi，jikehuanjieyishizhuxingchengdan。