好的婚姻关系是怎么维持的？

 ruhewanhuihunyin?henduorendouchongjingzhehunyin，ganjuehunyinkeyijianglindaoshenpangjiuhuiganshouxingfudeyishizhuxing。zhibuguoshizaizhenshiyuduifangguozhefuqixingshenghuodeneishihou，jianghuihuiyouyumouxiexiaoshier、xiaowentiergangkaishizhengchao;youhuoshizaiyixieshiershangzuodebuwentuo、bukexuezaochenglianrendedichuerchanshengmaodun。zhuduozhinengzaijiazhongganqingjulichuxiandejuqingdoushichuxianzaidajiadejiazhongzhizhong，rangdajiagangkaishizaiweihunhoushenghuojuedemihuobujie，weiheyebukeyibianweiliangzhimeijiameihudouxianmujidudeenaifuqini?shishenmegerenxingweizaochengledajiadeqinggangangkaishiyibuyoushanle?qingganwanhuizenmeban?

一、老婆在日常生活中不应当做另一方的差评师

 youxuduofufusuizhihunlingdetigao，balingyifangdequedianhebukanrumudeyibiansuoyoudouyilanwuyu，changchangwuyuanwugudijiunachuqucijixinglingyifang，ranglingyifanggangazuoweizheizhongjiaowangfangfa。youhuoshibushizhongshita，zaitarenyanqianyechangchangsunta、mata，zaitarendeyanlilaikantazainixinzhongzhonghaowuyongchu。neiyangdehunyinhuixingfukuailema?

 meiyouchuangjianshidudejiagou。jiagoudeyingyongxing，qujueyuniyoumuyouyuanyiweizheixiehunyinchuangjianqizhangqixingdeguizhangzhiduxieyishu。jiazhongdeshenghuoxiguanyingdangshiruhede，duijianglaidefenpeiyouyoumuyouguishuyuzishendeniantou，yipiankongbai，neizhibuguozaidanchunxingdesuibianguoshenghuobale。youyuwanhunjiuyiweizheleduilianggerenyishizhuxingdechengdanyupanwang，laopoyuanyiyougefangweiquzoudong，burantazairichangshenghuozhongfeichangrongyizhaobudaofangxiang，jilingyifangdaozhibixudeweihai。jiaruyoujiagou，jiunenggouranglaopolejieshenmeshiershiyingdangzuo，shenmeshiershiyanjinzuo，nenggouyougequelidegousi。meiyoujiagoudenansheng，jianjiandide，nidezhenshishenfenhuijijuxiajiang，yulaiyushiquzhongshi。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?meiyoujiaogaodelianqingdengji。meiyoujiaogaodelianqingdengji，bujuyouxinidesixu。neimalaopodaodiyongyounaxiedeyaoqiudouburongyinengkandong，shibushinengtaohaolaopobianweile1geweizhishu，zhangqixingguanliandebaochiyeshi1gedanandianle。laopoyouyunaxieshiererkaixinhuofahuo，tajinqideqingxuweishenmezheimebuduan，zhuduodebiaozhun，nanshengruguobushijiaogaodelianqingdengji，shiwufafajuechuqude。bujuyoulingzhenvxingdegongzuonengli，laopoweiheyaopeinixiangchuyiqi，weihebuguoduanxuehuifangxiazheixieguanlianxunzhaoxindeqidian?liqudeniantoucihouzaochengle。

三、夫妇的这种个人行为会危害交往品质

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?suyushuodehao：“fufubenshitonglinniao，dananlintoufenbiefei”，danglianrenguanlianbianhuanweifuqiganqingshi，yixinzhedajiadeganqinghuimanmanbianhuanweimeiyouqinshuguanxidejiaren，zairichangshenghuozhonghaikuotiankongderichangshenghuoninengdaliangkaolvdaolingyifangdetihui，dangfuqiganqingzhongchuxiannantishi，ninengshiruhetiaoxuanni?bawozhulingyifangdeshoushizhongbufangkuan，huanshidaliangdejizijizhihouguanxin，zheiyiqiehuxiangzaifuqixiangchuzhizhong，nishibushidangtajiushinixingmingzhongzuiguanjianderen，shikefangdaoxinjianshang，pingchangzhongdeyidianyididejiaowang，queshiweijiguantouxiangbandaolaoderen。