情感危机如何才能挽回？

 xuduorenbuzhiweishenmehuilaidaojinri，xintaixianxiangfangshiwujuezhi，rutongzidonghuajishutiaojianfanshe。zhenduiganqingweijizenyangwanliu，ganqingruhecainengwanliuni？wangbianlaiduinishuoruhecainengwanliuqingganba!

一、何不先问自己是怎样导致婚姻破裂的

 niyiwangjileidejieguo，jiushishuodajiaguanliandexiankuang。ganqingweijizenyangwanliu,xuduorenbuzhiweishenmehuilaidaojinri，wojuedeyouyuduizishenzuochudeguanxinglisisuofangfa，xintaixianxiangfangshiwujuezhi，rutongzidonghuajishutiaojianfanshe。

yinciruguoniwenzenmecainengwanliu，hebuxianwenzijishizenyangdaozhijinrideweijide。

 youyuniqueshibixurenshiziji，niyeshigenaxiederen，niyizhizaiguanlianzhongderengetezhifangmianheheiyingfangmiangenlingyifangyoushenmemaodunyuchabie。nibixujiandaoairenxiangyushijingzixiangtongzhanxianlenibuyiyangderengetezhifangmian。

二、诚信的应对自身，为关联负全责

 chajuezaizishenshixiadefumianxinxitihuideshenhou，younaxiedexiwang。zishenbenzhinengliangbuzu，huanshishiyongjiazhigandi，younaxiedepinfaqidailingyifangbuchongzishendeliefeng。

 ganqingruhecainengwanliu,qujiandaoniduilingyifangdexinhan，neijiu，naonu，biequchangyounaxiexiwang，nizenmehuiyouneiyang1gexiwang，youyunimeifazuodao。neimanijiuyaoxunzhaoyundongganchengcaidefangwei，jizijidechengcaichengdan，erbingbushixiwanglingyifangannideguidingqugenggai。

 dangnizhiqidaishenpangderenweiyinsunichengdan，huoshidenghoulingyifangzuochu123，nicaizuo456，neimawoyehuibeikasi。youyuniyizhizaiguzhiyulingyifangdeyongzishenyuanyidefangfashouyini，woyemeifaganshoudaomeiyouliyouai。

 airuguoyongyoumaimai，woyeganshoudaobushangzhenshidexianghu，jiuhuibaguanlianyoujihuaxue，liruyouyu：wofuyou，wohaokan，shiwozhipeiquan……

 lingyifangcaishuoaiwo，xianghudoushijuedegongzuoyali,neimaguanliandehudongjiaoliuzhongshibiranshijiquanbuning。youyuruguonibukeyikaolvwo，aijiuzhaobudaole。neimazaiguanlianlijiuhuihenbuanquanxing。

三、顺向的成熟期不是带攻击能力的去跟另一方连接

 ruhecainengwanliuganqing,zaiguanliandegoutongjiaoliuzhong90%shigenjuyuyanjinxing，yincizenyangzaiguanlianzhongjichengxin，qingchudebiaoshuzishen，youzhongshiqielingtingbierenjiuyuelaiyueyouweizhongyaole。zeguaiheqianze，renmenzaibiaoshuxiwang，renmenzaishuozheizhonghuadeneishihou，youhenduogongjinenglidedongnengzailibian。

 zainifayandequanguochengzhong，buguannidedadaoliyoushizaitaiqiadang，yaoshitayougongjinenglibidinghuiyinqiziwofangyujizhi，lingyifangjiuhuijindaobianbohebiaoshu。yejianghuilingyifangyouxuduoyuanyin，yaobulijibianbo、yaobufanghu，jianmo，duobi，neimaguanlianjiuhuishuyuanbici。

 zenyangyonggengyouaideyuyanliudaoxianghuqingganhehunyinshenghuozhongshirenmenyishizhuxingdekecheng。zaigoutongjiaoliuzhong，qingzhuyichanshengdeshier，biaoshunidetihui：zheiciweijiexingshijianzhong，niganjuedanxin，gudanhuanshinaonu，huanshihouhuimoji？suihoujiangchunidebixu，lingyifangdenaxiejinichibuxiao，bicibixugaishanshenme。

 renmenyizhixiguanyanzangrenmenzhenshidebixu，suihouwujiezhidegangweizhizelingyifang，zuizhongjiangchunidekenqiu！zenmehuiyoumaodun，biaoshuzishendexiwang，lingwaiqingtinglingyifangdexiwang，yongnazhongtongyixingdongkaolvxianghu，jilao，jinjinbiaoshuzishendeyaoqiu，lingwaijiandaozishenxiwangbeikaolvqiantitiaojian：

shouwei：lingyifangyoumuyouchongzudedongneng？lingyifangyoumuyouchongzudegongzuonengli？

qici：youmuyouchongzudeyixiang，batafangdaobeijingtuzhong。

 niqidailingyifangduizishenhexiaohaibaorong，danshilingyifangjihumeiyouhuodefuyangzhejilingyifangxixin，yinciwoyexianjilingyifang，nibixuxianjiyulingyifangniyuanyidexixin，baorong。

erbingbushiyong“weihewoxiangzuozheizhong，youzheibushiwo”dexiangfajinguzhuguanliandehudongjiaoliu，bazishenkasi。

四、最终，在关联中得出服务承诺

 yaoshirenmenmeiquyingduizishenzaiguanlianzhongmangqu，jibianguanbiwangzhanbaituozheiyiduanguanlian，renmenzishendeguanxinglidegerenxingweifangshi，tiaojianfansheshidexintaixianxiang，qianyishidesiweixiguan，renzhinenglishijiaojijiagoubingmeiyouzhuanbian。

neimazhihoudeguanlian，renmenhaihuipengdaoyiyangdenanti，gaizuodekechengzishizhizhongquanshiyaozishenquzuode。

 fuwuchengnuojiushishuozhenzhengdepingdingzishen，wulunguanlianzhongchanshengyiqiejiannanzishendouqujiena，juecehaohaodilaiyingduizishen，yingduizhenzhengdezishen，nengbunengquaiduimendeneiren，jibiantaduinihenxinhan？

 nikebukeyiai1gerangtaxinhandenizishen？ninengbunengbaozhengjibianlingyifangdefanyingjinixinhanniyejinliangbuyaosheqi…..

 youyunibingbushiguanliandepugongzhe，niyeshiguanliandechuangshizhe，niyuanyinaxiedeguanlian，jiuyaojianxin，jilingyifangxinlai，gongping。erbingbushiqucaozong。

 jiaruzishendexinrenganbuzu，yundongganbuzu，jiuyaojieshouzishendemeifazuodao，erbingbushizishenfouding，zishenbianbo，huoshichizelingyifangmeiyoufeichanghaodexianghupeiheni。

 yingduizheiyiweiji，zhongzhisunhaideyuyan，tongyixingdong，quzhenshidegoutongjiaoliu，quzhaohunyinzixunshi，ganqingjiaolianyuandeshiyong，zhiqian，biaoshu，xianghuchangkai，bingweizijiyulingyifangdaliangdexixinquchengcai。

 dangniqipanlingyifangrangnidelejie，gaoduzhongshi，shouhou，zhongshi…..linshiconglingyifangshoushangshiqu，nijiuxianzishenkaolv。youyuquanbuniyaoconglingyifangganshoudaode，jiushinizishen zaoyiyoujuedetouyingchulaide，genjulingyifangdefanyingganshoudaodeeryi。