情感挽回有用吗？

 wanjiuhunyindehuayingdangzenmejiang？yaoqiulingyifangkuanrong、sipilailian、dishengxiaqizongshijiasulingyifangliqudejiaobu，gaizenyangzuonenggouwanjiuhunyin，ranglingyifangzaicifanhuizishenshenpang？zhenduiqingganwanhuikaopuma？qingganwanhuiyoushenmeyong？qingganwanhuishoufeibiaozhunma？neima，wangbianlaiduinishuo。

一、婚姻生活出現的危機

1、taiguoduzaiyitarendeyuyan

 pinpaixingxianghuoshixinyujiushishuorenhe，liangrenyuanyitaohaozhoubianderenheren。tamenhuiyibiantarendeguandianergaibianxianzhuang，huiyibianrangtarenjuedegaoxingerbiequzishenhuoshishizhixiqinshu。qingganwanhuiyoushenmeyong？qingzhongjiujilao，zheizhongrendoubukeyipeizhenigongtongduguorenshengdaoludezhanglumanman，zheiyiduandaoshangpeizhenideshinidezhixiqinshu，yincibubiyouyutarendeyuyanergufunidezhixiqinshu。

2、taizihao，bukeyijienalaopodejianyi

 youderenshifendezihao，tamenbujienazhixiqinshudejianyi，tamenbazishendeniantouzuoweijueduiguilv。zheizaochengzhixiqinshuzaixiaohai、hunyinshenghuo、qiancaidengzuoguanlijuecedeneishihoubukeyibiaoshuzishendejianyi。zheihuirangzhixiqinshujuedebeihulve、xintaizhuangtaishangyuelaiyuexinshenbuan。neiyangdezhuangkuanggangkaishiyanlidajidaotadexinxin，heweihaidaotaduigerenjiazhidepanduan。

3、gongzuozhongshenghuogongzuoyali

 zheizhonggongzuoyalizaihunyinshenghuozhongshihenpubiande，zaitongchangjiazhonglizhangfuheqizichangyouzishendegongzuozhong，lianggerenbixuyingduigongzuofangmiandegongzuoyali，suihoufanhuijiazhongyeyaoyingduixuduoyishizhuxingshangdesuosui，dangfufulianggerenchangchangnaizhimeiribixuyingduizheizhonggongzuoyalideneishihoujiuhuipulutianxingzhongdequedian，huiyuelaiyuefeichangrongyinaopiqi，zaochengfuqiganqingjiaolvbuan。

二、挽救婚姻不可以说得话

1、“shiduibuqi，xingbu？”

 zheijushibicichanshengfenqishi，nanhaizichangyongdehua，zishixishiningren，bugennizaihu。qingganwanhuikaopuma，shubuzhinvxingtingdaogengweiborandanu，zheileitingdaojiujirenyizhongnixintaifuyanleshidehuajiubieshuole，yaolejieniyeshizaiwanliulingyifang，bingbushihewojianglide，gengbingbushijinu。

2、“wobixugai......”

 jiangshanyigai，jiangshanyigai。jianxinlingyifangchengshounidequexianbingbushiyicuerjiule，ruonixiangyaobingxiajuexinnenggoujiuzheng，huanshiwanquangaihuilaizaihewojiangba，gengnengtuxiannidechengxinhexinxin。mozuokoutoushangdejurentupian，tongyixingdongshangdeaigezi。?

3、“nizaishuoshenmewohaitongyini”“nizaishuoshenmejiushishuonaxie”

 qingganwanhuishoufeibiaozhunma，tingdaojiuhenjiahenxuqingjiayi，zongshirangnidewanliukoufen。tongchangjiushiniquandoutongyile，kezhongjiuniyipiankongbaibaozheng，naizhiweidajiayihoudefenqizhongxiadaohuoxian。chanshengmaodunshinvhaichangshuodejiushishuo“nidangshidoutongyiguowoshenmeshenmeshenme...jinibaozhengma”

 “wofashi/fuwuchengnuo......”，dangnimeiyouxinxinhegongzuonenglibaozheng，buyaozaisuibianxuleshicihechengnuo，duifubushangdefuwuchengnuoshibianyide，zongshijilingyifanggoujiannixinkoucihuang、taobizerendepinpaixingxiang。

三、挽救婚姻能够说得话

1、wanjiuhunyindehuawubixianrenkezishendebuzhengque

 “xiaojiezishendenanti，tashiwanhuiganqingzhong，zuifeichangrongyifandebuzhengque。”zaitajiqifahuoshishinaxiehuadoulinshixianbubishuo，zhuyaobiaoxianchuyifuchengzhichengrencuowudexintaijiuhaola，dengtaqixiaole，zaizhiqianhehewojianjiandibiaoshu。

2、wanjiuhunyindehua，wubishizhenxinchengyide

 xiangwanliuzishenxifu，haiyaomingbai，tashuodemeiyiduanhuaquanshichengxinchengyide，bubicunyouyidianerxubao，bubijiangguomouxierangtagandongdehuayihou，renweizishendexifuhuikuanrongzishenle，jiuyouyicuozaicuozhiqiandehuaixiguanle，yizhidianhuabulishen，yizhichulaiyoujiaoji，yizhigenrenliaoshoujiweixin，wanxinlangweibozheixierangtakanjianbukanbuguandegerenxingwei，neijibiannilaopoyouzaidadechengshougongzuonengli，neidoushibeinixiaohao！

3、wanjiuhunyindehua，yiqianxianghudegerenaihao

 dajialaiguodegaoxingdediqu，shuomouxierangtaxiangqidajiayuanxianyouneimaduogongmingdian，neimaduoaiqinghuohua，erbingbushihewoshuomouxiehewoyebuzhanbiandehuatitaolun，neimatatingzhetingzhejiuhuifan，ganjuemeiyoutingxialaidebixule。yinci，tashuomouxiewanhuidehua，wubishirangtadaorudajiaxianghudouxiangxiangdaodechangjing，dahuoeryouyidingdegongmingdian，youyidingdeganshou！

四、作出更改

jiangguowanjiuhunyindehua，jiuyingdangyaneryouxin，zuochushentilixing，neiyangnenggouranglingyifangduinizaicizaochengzixinxin。

1、衣食住行

 “shenghuopinzhishizhangqixingxiyinzhuzuiguanjiande1geyinsu，youyushenghuopinzhiyuegaoyuejingcai，yueduonengzhangqixingdexiyinzhudaoshenpangderengenniyikuaieryishizhuxing。”jianchazishenzhiqiandeshenghuopinzhizenyang，zongshiyouxishangyinwanshua，yizhijizijidelansanzhaotuocima？jiaruoyixiaxiachusedenanshenghuishizheileiyishizhuxingqingkuangma，xianzaikaishizuochugenggaile。yingyongdangdan、jiaopengyoukuankuo、xiangshourensheng、zhuiqiumengxiang，niyingdangshizhezheileiduinvshijuyouyouhuolideyishizhuxing，caijianghuifanyingnidegaoshiyongjiazhi。

2、語言

 nvxingxiantianxingbinanshenggengshanyuheshanyugoutongjiaoliu，dajiayouliangdegoutongjiaoliuhuihua，jiushinifanyingtibenshenjiazhiquxiang、jianshi、renshengdaolujingyan、xintaiquxiang，chengxianfengcaideshifangshi。danzheibingfeijinifeichanghaodiziwochuixu，taolaoduoyanyebingbushinikeyizhuiqiuwanmeidegaoshiyongjiazhi。zaipingshiyuyanzhongzhuyaobiaoxiannishidangdetiexinguanai，nvxingduoshixiai“huayanqiaoyu”dechujuexiaodongwu。

3、情商智商

 ganqingguanlianzhongdeqingshanggao，shinikeyilejierenzhilingyifangdexintai，bingjiyuxiangpipeideyijianfankui。zaijiaowangshiyaoshanyubuhuolingyifangdexiaobiaoqing、zhangwotadetihui，jinerqiadangrenzhitadexintai。bierenweitachangshuode“suiyi”、“meishier”、“buyong”queshishizimiandehanyi。zheishihouhaiyaoguanchalingyifangdexiaobiaoqing，zhangwotadezhenshitihuihebixu，xuduoneishihoulingyifangjianghuishikaolvnidetihuiyinzangzishendezhenzhengxintai。qingshanggaozhenduizhangqixingguanlianzhongdehemujiaowangtaiguanjianle。

 qingganwanhuishoufeibiaozhunma，zhangqixingguanlian，wojuedejianyanzhi，jiushishuoranglingyifangduijianglaiyouzhewuxianxiangxiangshineikongjian，bingqieganjuegenniyizhizaiyikuaierhuishifenxingfukuaile、shifenjingcai、shifengengyouyiyi。dangdajiazaicichuangjianqilianluohou，niyingqinfenranglingyifangtihuidaowomenzaiyiqishidejingcaihekaixin，lingyifangcaihuixiwangyunizaiciyiqishidechangjing。dangwanliuqudechenggonghoutishenggoutongjiaoliu，zhangwolingyifangdeyaoqiu，ranglingyifangtihuidaonidezhenxinshiyi，dajiadehunyinshenghuonenggouzhangqipingwen。