挽回男人的心攻心术

　　wanhuinanrendexingongxinshu，meimanhunyinxuyaoshuangfangchengnuohefengxian：junhenggongzuo、yangyuhaizi、guanlicaiwuyijichulidajiazuheqitaguanliansuodailaidejingshencengmiandeyali。dangganqingchuxianwentishi，ruguonixiangyaoyubanlvbaochijiankangdeguanlian，jishiyouxiaodichulizhishanggezhongwentizhiguanzhongyao。

　　chenggongguanlianbixunuli，suoyinixuyaojijibingtourushijian。congxiufulanmandaozhurugengduorichanghuihua，zheilihaiyou8tiaojingkangfushichengrendezhangqixinggaijindajiaguanliandeguanjiansuozai。ruguonizhengzaitanxunruhewanhuihunyindeyijian，qingjixuliulan。

　　nishibushizhengzaixunqiukeyiyouxiaoranghunyinhuiguizhengguideshijiduice?qingcanyuexialie8tiaojianyi，ninengzhijieshiyongzheixiejianyilaiwanjiunimendehunyin。

　　1.勤奋建立关系，创建浓厚的情绪与身体联络

　　ziran，womenderichangshenghuodouhenmangliu。dajiahenrongyixianrujiben，duiyugongzuozhuanzhuyu，yincidajiawangdiaoguanxinlingyibandeyaoqiu。danshi，yijingjiehunairenjiandehunyinguanxizhenduiweichijiankangzhijiandeguanxiyouweizhongyao。

　　wenwenzijinengzuodianshenmelaishinihebanlvdefuqishenghuogengyouyiyihegengjiajiankang。xingshenghuoshijianguerjiankangdehunyinshenghuobukehuoquedeyibufen，qudechenggongdefufuhuiyouyiqinfenrangzijidexingshenghuogengjingcai。

　　2.按时、合理、有计划地相互交流

　　hezuoshizhongyao，yaojizhuruhewanhuihunyin，zaihendachengdushangbixugoutongjiaoliu。zheiyeshibaochinonghouguanliandezhuyaoyinsuzhiyi，zheigeguanxinenggouranghunyintianhuangdilao。

　　xiangyaozhidaozenyangzaiqinglvguanxizhongyouxiaodegoutongma?henidelingyibantanchengxiangjianditaolunnidexingqu、lixiang、zongtimubiao、tihui……naizhirangniganjuedaojusangdeshier。biewangji，goutongjiaoliudeyibanqujueyulingting，rongxubingzhichinilingyibanfenxiangtamenbukengaozhiqitarenyiqie。

　　3.共度美好时光

　　wanhuihunyinbinghelingyibanbaochiwendingguanliandeyigezhiguanzhongyaoqiezuijiandandefangfashiyishidaolexuhuagaozhiliangshizhangzaiyiqi。bubixianrudaoshenghuozhongdesuosuizhongerwangjilezaiyiqi。yidingyaoyouxianxuanzeyuehuizhiyehegongtonghuodong。

　　jilao，dajiajiehunweilenenggongxiangnimendehunyin，gongtongshixiannidelixiang。jibiandajiadeshijianyouxian，bayuehuizhiyebaizaishouweiyehuiyousuobangzhu。tanenggoujinjinzaijialimiankanyichangdianyinghedingyifenbisa——tanenggouweinimendehunyinshixianmengxiang。

　　4.懂得宽容，学会放下憎恨

　　kuanrongshixiufushibaihunyinshenghuodehuidazhiyi。xinhuaiyuanhenhuiyinqizenghenhejinyibudemaodun。

　　ruguonijingchangduinidelingyibanjuedeqiaobuqi，erqieweizhaodaoyiqiejiejuefangan，zheikenenghuiduinimendehunyindailaiyanzhongdezhangqixingkaoyan。

　　kuanrongshichongmanliliang，youqishidangninengkuaisunengzuodaodeqingkuangxia。jilao，kuanrongshijinikuanrongderenyunidelipin。bubixinhuaiyuanhen，zheizhihuitunshinideqingganhexinlingkongjian。shijishang，xinhuaiyuanhenbujinhuiduinimendehunyinchanshengbuliyingxiang，yixiangdazhongxingyanjiufaxian，xincunshiwangheyaliyuxueyashangshenghexintiaofanyingxiangguan。

　　5.不要轻易操纵

　　shenxinjiankanghunyinlideairenxianghulijie，burongyiyizhiyaoqiutamenanzhaozijideyiyuanzuoshi。suoyouqudechenggongdehunyinshenghuodoujianlizaihuligongyingdeqiantixia。rangnidelingyibanyouzhetamensuoxuyaodeshineikongjian，chengweiwomenbenyingchengweideren。

　　6.重新点燃感情，让火苗再现

　　wanhuinanrendexingongxinshu，suizheshijiantuiyi，qinglvguanxizhongzuichureqingkenengzhujianxiaotui，chixusuzaohunyinlidelanmanyuansuyouweizhongyao。yongjixingbiaoyandeyouhuijinidelingyibanyigejingxi，jitazhanhuarecaoshu，huoshijiandandezhuiyinimenzaiyiqidechuqisuiyue。zheizhongxiaojudongnenggouranqiaiqingzhihuo，rangniliangdouxiangdaodangshixiangaideyuanyin。

　　7.为以后设置共同的目标

　　wengudehunyinshenghuoyuanyugongtongdelixiangyumengxiang。yulingyibanzuoxiatantaogerenhuogongtongmubiao，buguanzheigemubiaoyucaiwu、jiazhong、gongzuohuoshigerentishengxiangguan。genjuyitongshedinghenulichuangzaozheigemubiao，ninengtishengdajiazhijiandeguanxi，yiquebaonimenyexiangzhetongyigefangxiangqianxing。

　　8.考虑到根据医治得到技术专业协助

　　ruguonijuedezijizaoyifuchulehenduonuli，danyiranbuzu，bingkaishidanyouliyidegailv，neimeyexuxianzaishishihoukaolvdaoxianshangfufulianxile。

　　zishendefufukangfushinenggouweinihenilingyibantigongxunlian。youshihou，womennenggouzhongxindejiaoduhezhuanyejianyizhonghuoyi，tebieshizaizhangworuhewanhuihunyincengmian。