婚姻咨询：伤了她的心怎么挽回

　　shangletadexinzenmewanhui，xiaominghexiaohong，zheihuiduiyijingjiehunhenduoniandefufu，zairichangfanmangdegongzuozhong，changchangyinsuoshierchanshengmaodun。danshi，zaiyiciourandejihuili，xiaomingquedingfangxiayiqie，shouhouxiaohongchumenshifangyali。tamenzaigongyuanlizhongchuanxing，yibianxinshangzhezhoubiandejingse，yibiantanqilerichangshenghuozhongdediandi。

　　tongguocicishenrujiaoliu，xiaomingfajuexiaohongyouyugongzuoershenxinpibei，jingchanghuiyinweisuoshiwufakongzhi;erxiaohongyelejiedaoxiaomingsuochengshoudeyaliyuangaoyutaxiangxiang。lianggerenzhangshijianjiaotanhou，bicizhijianzaijingshenshangyoulegengshendelijieyugongmingdian。

　　huijiayihou，tamenfaxianxuduocongqiandexiaomocadouhuibiandewuzuqingzhong。xiaomingdenaixinyutiexinrangxiaohongdefanmenxintaidedaolehuanjie，erxiaohongdelijiehezhichiyejianqinglexiaomingdexinliyali。tamenhaoxiangzhongshiledangshixiangzhixiangshoudeganjuele，yezhonglianlerichangshenghuobukequeshaodeqingganlianjie，hunyinshenghuoyinerbiandeyuelaiyuetianmei。

　　zairichangrichangshenghuo，fuqizhijiandejiaoliuhegoutongshishifenzhongyaode。weiyoutongguoyouxiaogoutong，dajiacainenglejiebicizhijiandesiweifangshiheqingxutiyan，jinerzaiganqingfangmianzuodaogengshencengcidelejie，jianshaobubiyaodezhengchaoyuwuhui。tigaolejie，shigaishanshengshuhunyinshenghuo、zhongliantianmideshenghuodeguanjiansuozaidiyibu。

　　方法二：提升互相调侃

　　laowanghelaocui，zheihuiduipingrilimangliuyugongzuozhongdefufu，henjiudoumeiyouxiangyouguoerrenshijiedemeihaoshiguangle。moulibaitian，laolijianyichumenxiuxiandujia，laocuixinrantongyi。tajingxinanpaileyichangweiqisantiandexiuxiandujiaxingchenganpai，mudedishiyanhaichengshi。

　　zaihaitanshang，lianggerenshouwanshouchuanxing，keyiganshoudaoqinglianghaifengdeqingfu，wubiqieyi。laocuixiaizaiqingchenyingzhechaoyangliantaiji，erlaowangzejingjingshouhouzaitashenpang;yiyang，laolixiaibuxing，laocuiyepeizhetatachun、pashan。tamenhaiyiqiqupaowenquan、pinweigezhonghaochide，jiqixinshangyanhuadeyejing。

　　tongguozheisantiandelangmanzhidi，lianggerenhaoxiangzhonghuichulianqingrensuiyue，xingyingbulidijinqingxiangshoubicizhijianpeiban。jiuweiqinjinbudanziyanglelianggerendeganqing，gengrangtamenzhongwenlezuikaishiouyushidelangmanyuqingyi。

　　xiuxiandujiawanchenghou，laowanghelaocuihaoxiangzhaohuizuikaishichuliandeganjue。laolizizhi，buguangongzuoliangdamang，doubixuyaodingqiweilianggerenfenpeiduchudeshiguang，zheishiweixihunyinshenghuodeguanjianqiaomen。genjugongtongdegerenaihaohelangmandeyuehui，tamenchenggongrangaiqingbengfachuxindeshengji，zhonghuozhinenyureqing。

　　zaimangliudeshenghuozhong，henduorendouhuihushiyulingyibanzengjinganqingdebiyaoxing。yiner，dajiayaodingqifenpeiguishuyuerrendeduchushiguang，toushendazirandemeijing，fangsongxinqing，yitongmanxiajiaobuquyongxinquganshoushenghuozhongdemeihao。neiyang，cainengzhenzhengderangshuyuandeneixinzaidujinmijiehe。

　　方法三：共同缔造美好记忆

　　shangletadexinzenmewanhui，xiaofangfajue，yulaolidehunyinshenghuohaoxiangjianjianshiqulewangriwendu。weilenengzhonglianzheiyifenzhenqing，xiaofangdeshengrijijianglailinshi，laoliquedingfuzhuxingdong。

　　tazhidaoxiaofangduiyinlejudexiai，yinciyongxinxuangoulexiaofangxihuandequmumenpiaofei。zaishengrineiyitian，laozhangshenmidibiaoshixiaofangyouyigetebiejingxi，jiezhetuidongtatarujuyuan。dangyoumeidexuanlvchuanlai，xiaofanggaoxingdeshanranleixia，yulaoliyitongyanchang，jinqingxiangshouzheibukeduodedeyitongshishikeke。

　　shengriyeli，lianggerenxieshougongwu，haoxiangzhonghuirelianshidelangmanshiguang。genjuzheiyitiandejingxincehua，xiaofangtihuidaolelaolideqingyi，yetianbuleliangrenjiandeshuyuan。laolicongerganwudao，ruoxiangjingyingaiqingxinxiandu，jiuyingdangchangchangweilingyibanzhizaolangman，zheibujinshiduilingyifangqinggandebiaoda，gengjiashiduilishikuaileshiguangdezhuiyi。