婚姻咨询：怎么样挽回前男友

　　zenmeyangwanhuiqiannanyou，xiangzhidaozenmexiufushibaidehunyinguanlian，bixuyaoxiantuihouyibu、sikao，zhaodaowentidebenzhi。suihou，shizhexiamianzheixiefangshilairanqihunyinshenghuodehuomiao。

　　1.回想当年大家怎么会相恋

　　dangxiangqidajiayiqianqinmiwujiandelangman，chenglerujinyaoyaoyuzhuidehunyinshenghuoshi，niyidinggandaoshifenxinteng。neiyangzenmexiufushibaidehunyinni?

　　shouxianhuidaoyuandian，zhongxinzhaodaodangshidajiaxianglianaideganjue。zixixiangyixiangneishihoujiujingshishenmeshenshenxiyinnimenlianggeren，jiaruguoduo，ninengjixialai。zheimezuonijiuhuifaxian，taneixielingrenxindongdezhiliangrengrancunzai，zhishizijiyijingxiyiweichangdehulveletamen。

　　2.聆听对方的心声

　　dajiaxunzhaojihuizuoxia，haohaodishuoshuohua。naixinqingtingairendexuqiu，binggentabiaoshunixiangyaotayeqingting。lingtingduifangdexinsheng，nimennenggouzhongxinfaxianhunyinlizuichudemeihao。

　　3.思考夫妻感情破裂的主要原因

　　hunyinshenghuoweishenmecuowu?nantijiujingchuzainali?dajiazhijianshifouyouwujie?yeshiyinweishenghuozhongdeyali?zhaodaofuqiganqingpoliedezhuyaoyuanyinzhenduixiufuhunyinyouweizhongyao。wanliushibaidehunyinbingbushibutaikeneng，xiangyixiangaiqingcongheshikaishizouxiapo，zaixunqiujiejuefangan，laixiufupoliedeguanlian。ziran，yibanqingkuangxiazhikaozishennanyizhuibensuyuan，zheigeshihoujiuyaojishidixunzhaozhuanyerenshidexiezhu。

　　4.多一点耐心

　　zaichulihunyinzhongdewentishi，yaobicizhijianhenyounaixin。tishenggoutongjiaoliu，duojinxingshenrujiaoliunenggoufujianlianluo。zaizhengjiushibaidehunyinshi，yaorenzhendimianduikunnan。woganquexinduoyidiannaixin，zaizhaoduifangfa，neimenimenzhongjiuhuimairumeimanhunyinrichangshenghuo。

　　5.不要让生活琐碎危害关联

　　nimianduizhehaizi、gongzuoshenghuozhongdeyouyanjiangcu，rangtamenmangliudemeishijianweihubaoyangbicizhijiandeganqing。yaoxunzhaojihuicongtoukaishiyouhui，duoxianliao，langmanerrenshijiehuizhongxinranqiaiqingdezhongzi，rangtamenzhongxinhuidaorelianshidemeimiao。fenpeiyuehuideshihou，haikeyirangbicizhijianjiandaobierenshenshangnengliyudanren。

　　6.想尽办法再次增进你们之间的感情

　　niliangnenggouanpaiyicidujialvxing、meitianwanshangchouchulaiyixieshijianheduifangchangtanrenshengxinsi、huoshixiabanleyiqichikoufanzaikankandianying，rangshuangfangbianchengshenghuodezhongxin。dangjuedeyuairenzaochengjianjushi，yidingyaoyongzhengquedefangfalaizhongxinzengjinlianggerendeguanxi。

　　7.信守诺言

　　xiubushibaidehunyinjuefeiyishi。chukaiqinfenyiwai，haiyaobicichengnuo。dabufenshihou，qingkuangjiuyouzaifuwuchengnuoshang。youyixiederendoubuxihuanfuwuchengnuo，jiuhuizaochengairenkanbujiannideshenqinghexingwei。eryouderenxihuanxuxianuoyan，dancongweizhenzhenzhengzhengzhixingtamen，zhangciyiwangzheijiuhuishiairensangshiguishugan。yincibudanyaoxuefuwuchengnuo，gengyingyongshijianhuodongduixianchengnuo。

　　8.从个人更改逐渐

　　ruoxiangxiufuhunyinpoliedechuangkou，keyicongwomenzishenzhujian。chizeairensuiranqingqingsongsong，danshiyaoxiangxiufuhunyinlideliefeng，shouxianfansiziji，wanchengziwotisheng。renfeishengxian，danzhiyaodajiabicixiangyaoxiantigaoziji，ranhouyiqiweifuqiguanxidexiubuqufendou，neiyiqiedouhuihaoqilaide。jilao，nixuyaoxianduli，neiyangnidelingyibancaibuxuyaodanfuguoduoyali，henixiangchudeshihouyehuiganjueqingsongyukuai。

　　9.赏析爱人的优势

　　zenmeyangwanhuiqiannanyou，“wojuedewanhuihunyin，dantazonghuifancuowu!”zheishihou，yekeyichangshizheizhongbanfa：liejutadeyoudian。biru，jinguannidelingyibanyoushihouhuiwangdiaorangnifazaoanxinxineirong，ketaquezongshinengzainishengbingdeshihousihouni、jiniaotang。renmenchangchangzhikandaolequexian，erhulveleyoushi。xuehuishangshilingyibandeliangdian，manmandinijiuhuifaxiannimendehunyinzhongquanshijijimeihaodeyimian，zheiyangdeganqingzennengbuxingfubuhemuni?

　　10.重新了解彼此之间

　　zhiqian，niyexuxiaiyiqiqukandianying、chimeishi，danshisuizheshijiandetuiyi，youyufanmangdegongzuo、haizigenshenghuodeyali，dajiayijinghenjiumeiyouyiqizuozijixihuandezhutihuodong。suoyidajiabixuzhongxinlejiebicizhijian，lejiebiciyigexindegerenaihao，yiqichangshixindezhutihuodong，liruyiqiquwudaohuoxuexiyujia。neiyang，dajiayehuigengjialejieduifang，yejiuzhidaozenyangquweihubaoyangzheiduanganqing。