xiang wanhuiaiqing dehuazenmezuo?wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?zaiwanhuiganqingdelumianshang,youxierenjieliwanliuquesichuzaigentou,youxierenchengxinmanmandequenongdejiaotoulaner,naizhiyouxierenmituzishen,douweinenghuodehaojieguo,keshiyeyouxierenzaiqinshenjinglichenchendezuaihou,qudechenggongwanliu,zaiduganshouganqingdetianmeiheyuyue,zhonghuoxingfukuaile。erzhongbuyiyangdejieguo,douyouyuyonglebuyiyangdefangshierzaochengde,zaiwanliuquanguochengzhongzhinengyongduifangshihefangweinenggouyuanmanwanliuqudechenggong,keshipianyaozongyouxuduorenzhaobuzheqiadangdefangshiercuoguojiyu,luanyongwanliufangshierbazhuangkuangnongdegengweicaogao,huozhebawanhuiganqingxiangdefeichangjiandan,zigaozidabanshizheixie,wojuedewanliudefangshiyouxuduo,youdeheli,youdebujinmeishijixiaoguo,fandaohuiyoutingdadefanzuoyongli,youyumei1geshiliquanshibunengkaobeixing,yongdefangshiyejiubutongle。
xiangwanhuiaiqingdehuazenmezuo?xuduorenyingyong,keshizhongjiubuzouxiaodefangshi:
yi:sipilailian,gezhonggeyangsichan。neiyangzongshibalingyifangyuetuiyuelaiyueyuan,zhongjiubuzouxiao。(tishengfenqi)
er:kaikongbaizhipiao,shumianfuwuchengnuo。duilingyifanglishibidinghuigai,zhihoubidinghuihaohaodiduilingyifang,xiangyaoyibianta,zuoyiqieshier,quebaozhihouburongyizaifanfuneiyangdebuzhengque。(wanzhengxingbugou)
san:chixugenlingyifangbiaoshu。genlingyifangshuoneiyangdejieguobingfeizishendaozhide,zishenbingmeiyoucuo。(chuangjianfenqi)
si:genlingyifangshuomouxietianyanmiyudehua。biru“wojiushizhendehaoaini,wojiushiqueshihenxianggenniyizhizaiyikuaierdaotianhuangdilao”。(shiya)
zuoyoujizhongfangshiquanshiwulunyongde,erzhenshiwanliudeqiadangzuofashi:yuanyilingyifangdejiaofahejianjie,huoxuyuefagenlingyifangchangfandiao,lingyifangyuefabuyuangennitan,ruguonirenyishi,zhenxinchengyigenlingyifanggoutongjiaoliu, yuanyihehaowuyiwenlingyifangdejianjie,neimalingyifanghuisikaolikainideyuanyin。zaicizhihouhaiyaocaiyongqiadangdewanliufangshiquzuowanliu,neimashenmeshiwanliudeqiadangzuofani?
wanhuiganqingdeqiadangzuofayou:
一:态度端正
wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?wanhuiganqingdezhongzhongzhizhongjiushishuoduanzhengzishendexintai,yaoyouleguandexintai,nenggoubawanliudeshierzuoweishizheijianyouyiyideshiqinglaizuo,nenggouzaiwanliudequanguochengzhong,zhenshiguanniandaozishendeguoshihebugou,nenggoudaxinliliqugenggai。
二:自我反思本身
chuxiannantibingbushibayiwu doutuidaolingyifangshoushang,zhishizaicisikaoyixiaxiazishen,fanshengzijidebugou,xunzhaozishenshoushangquefadewupin,suihouzaiwanliudequanguochengzhong,jianjiandibuchongbenshendebugoudediqu,zhinengguanniandaobenshennantidesuoshu,nenggoujinkuaiqugenggai。
三:勤奋提高自己
chajuebugoudediqu,bingbushinizuichunshangshuozenqugai,bixuxiangqugai,bixugaihaozheileidehua,shuoduo,bibushangkaiduo,youyushijianhuodongshijiancezhenzhidepingpanbiaozhun。erzaiwanliudequanguochengzhonghaiyaochixuqutigaobenshendeshiyongjiazhi,baohanbenzhishiyongjiazhi,ewaishiyongjiazhi,lianaijingyanzheixie。yaobazishenbiandeyuelaiyuechuse,gengweixiyinzhuren。
四:再次创建新关联
ruguonibiandeyuelaiyuechuse,gengweixiyinzhurendeneishihou,zaiciyizheizhongxindezishichuxianzailingyifangdeshixianzhong,neimajiuhuizaochenglingyifangde1geqiuzhiyu,lingyifanghuihaoqixinnizheiyiduanshijiandaodiganlenaxie,qinshenjinglilenaxie,zenmehuiyouneiyangdegenggai,dangruguozaochenglingyifangdeliuyi,haiyaozhangwohaojiyuzaiciaijinlingyifang,chuangjianxindeguanlian。
wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?yuanyiyuanmanwanliulingyifang,haiyaozaiwanliudequanguochenglianyongduifangshi,“taidujuedingyiqie,ruguoniyierzaizaiersankuijiu、shuozishenzaoyigenggaishi……,nisuozhuyaobiaoxianderenheguanjiandian,nideweixiao、shipinyuyin、shentiyuyan,zaidaoneirong,doushisihaomeiyouliuqingdejiechuanni。 ”yincizaiwanliuquanguochengzhongguanjiandianhenguanjian,fangshihenguanjian,qiewuyouyu1gexiaoguanjiandianhuozhedongzuoluogeyizicuomanpanjieluosuodecankuang。
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