他说我变得不像从前了，这样还能挽回男友吗？

 wanhuiaiqing mijiyounaxie?zaijingyingyiduanzhangqidelianaiguanxishi，henduorendouhuitingdaoduizijishuo：“nibianle，nigenyiqianbuyiyangle。”yushimaodunjiuhuibujianduandifasheng，rangganqingshoudaoyingxiang。danshi，mingmingzijixinlihaishiyirujiwangdiaizheduifang，weishenmeduifanghuishuozijibianleni?xiangwanhuiaiqingdehuazenmezuo?

一、没有在爱情开始后继续提升自我

 aiqingdoushicongxiyinkaishide，duifanghuixuanzegennizaiyiqi，shuomingnideshenshangjuyounenggouxiyinduifangdedutemeili。danshi，zaijingyingzhangjiuguanxishi，zheizhongxiyinliwangwanghuisuizheshijiandeliushierzhujiantunse，niduiduifangdexiyinlijiuhuizhujianjiangdi。yinweinimeiyouyiqianyouxiyinlile，suoyiduifanghuiduinishuo：“nibianle”。neimeyaozenmezuocainengrangduifangshikeweizijizhemi，shikexiyinduifangni?

 suoyizaiaiqingzhong，buyaojuedetashinideaiqingbanlvjiuyinggaiwutiaojiandeweinifuchu。zaiduifangweinifuchudeshihou，biaoxianchuzijidegandong，dongdeshidangdeganjicaihuirangduifangxinganqingyuandiweinifuchugengduo。tongshi，buyaoyaoqiuduifangbayiqiedouzuodewanmei，shijieshangmeiyouwanmeiderenshengbanlv。

 “yuqiyuegao，zaimianduixiacihemaodunshijiuyuewufarongren，guanxiweichiwufazhangjiu。”suoyi，yaoshidangjieshouduifangdexiaci，cainengrangganqinggengzhangjiu。fouze，duifangjiuhuijuedenizhihuiyiweisuoquhewuliqunao，ganqingzhongdemaodunjiuhuiyuelaiyueduo。

 wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?zaizhangjiudelianaiguanxizhong，yaoxuehuibuduanditisheng，cainengrangyuelaiyueyouxiudezijishikexiyinzheduifang，tacaihuijuedenishiyirujiwangdeyoumeili;tongshi，buyaozaiaiqingzhongyaoqiuduifangshishizuodaowanmei，yaoxuehuishidangdijieshoutadequehan，zhiyouzheiyangganqingcaibuhuibianzhi，aiqingcaigengyoukenengkaihuajieguo。