如何把握与前任久别重逢的机会

 fenshouzhihoujiubiezhongfengdedajia，bixushigankaiwanqianba。yiwangdefenqidajiayiwangdiao，nanwangdehuiyihaiyaoxinli。erxiangyudecishi，tadeshenpangdouhaimeinenggou xieshoubingjianderen，yexuyezhenghaodanshennannv，dangnidexinliduitayeyouxiexudejuannianhebushufu，youmuyouxiangguoyunyongcicijiubiezhongfengtuidongdajiafuhexingni?wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?xiang wanhuiaiqing dehuazenmezuo?

“jiandandexingfu，shifenshouzhihoudefuhexing。”

 xiangwanhuiaiqingdehuazenmezuo?niyexubutairenke，danzheihuayoubixudedadaoli。sangshihoucaimingbaiaixi，fenshouzhihoucaigaoqingchulingyifangyoushizaitaideguanjian，jiarunengfuhexing，yidinghuifeichangaixibicideqinggan。nengzhangwoyuqiannvyoujiubiezhongfengdejiyutuidongfuhexing，xiangxin，dajiahuigengweiaixixianghu。

neima，yingdangzenyangzhangwoyuqiannvyoujiubiezhongfengdejiyu，tuidongfuhexingni?

 xiangwanhuiaiqingdehuazenmezuo?weixiangfengchongfenzhunbei，zuixingxianghuaxunsudejiushishuowaizaijibenjianshe。jiubiezhongfengshi，dangniyiranbuxiubianfu、bushifendai、naizhiyouxinchongchong，tahuiyou“taruhehuanshigenzhiqianxiangtong”deniantou，jiusuanxintaizhuangtaihuiyouyidiudiudetongqing，danciwai，tayehuilianxiangqiyiwangdebuxingfu。keshijiarutajiandaonibianhaokanle，kailangaishuoxiaodeyangzi，tafandaohuibugan，“weihetataoliwo houfandaoguodehenhao?”

renquanshixiaimeihaoshiwu，erdaxinliduobilingrenxinfandewupin。

 “wanhuiganqingshi，meiyoushenmebibawojihuigengguanjian，zaibuyigongjianshiyaobiezhu，zaiheshigongjianshi，niwubiyiwangwuqian，ruguoniweitiqianzhunbeihao!”，“youshi，qian1miaocuoguo，yishunjianruhebudou wufajiangneijuedezaicibuhao!cuoguoduoci，zhinengdengdaoshihou，cuoyuedaxindejiyuyueduochilai。”yincitiqianzhunbeitiqianzhunbeishihenguanjiande。

 zaiciqudelianxi，daqiyidianer。jiubiezhongfeng，jianxindajiadoushiyouzhong“beiyunshifenpei”dejuede，yunyongzheiyijuede，ninengzaixiangfengshiranglingyifangjiayixiaxianidelianluo，nenggou shiqq、shoujiweixin、duanxiaoxi，tahuiganjuedajiazhongjiandeyuanfenhaimeiyoujindao。danwuxujizhehetapantan，jiusuanlingyifangjiji，xianzaiciqudelianxi。

 wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?congpenyouxueqi，wangshibuhaichongti。tashizuiguanjiandeyidianer。dajiarujinshijiejinlurenyupenyouxianghuguanxi，congpenyougangkaishixueqi，bianyongyou1gelianluolingyifangdejiyu。eryiwangdenantiyexuhaiyaolingyifangxinliliuyouhuizhibuqudeyinhen，bubijijitidao。jiarulingyifangtidao，ninengshuo，“neishihouzishenduosha，weishenmehuineimezuo.....”，yiziwodiaokandefangfajiejue。bubizhuyaobiaoxianchuzishenyuanyifuhexingdexintaizhuangtai，neiyanghuibaoluzijideyaoqiugan。

 dianranxindejuede，baochiercixiyin。jibenjianshenideweixinpengyouquan，zhanxiannidejijizhudong、yishizhuxingduozhongduoyang、jiaju，liuyiyaomudexingdezhanxian;renquanshifugudeweishengwu，dengganqingtiwenhou，naizhinenggou jiudizhongyou，buzhibujuetahuizhuiyiyiwangdexingfu，tadeneixinhaowuyiwenhuiweilenikaiqi1gehuokou，jitamenliuyou“jiarunengcongtoukaishi，youhuishiruhe”dexiasi;zaizheiliquanguochengzhong，jiarutapeinidelianluoyulaiyujingchang，duiniyulaiyuzaihu，xiasiyehuihenduo。

“neiyangganleyihou，fuhexingdegailvyoushiduoshaoni?”

 wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?“wanliudetongguolvduoshaoqian?gangkaishimeifajingquedirangnicesuantongguolv，zhiyouyijinzhanlaifenbianwanliudenanduxishu。wanliudequanguochenghuichuxianxuduojiyu，ercixiyindoushizaojiujiyu，jiarubawojihui，shixingjishidehua，wanliuqudechenggongdeqidaitingda;erruguobushibawojihui，wanliudeshijianzengjia，nanduxishuzengjia。”jiyushijiaojiyoutiqianzhunbeiderende，erganqingdoushi。