前男友有了新欢，你该怎么挽回男友？

 wanhuiaiqing mijiyounaxie?meiduanganqingdetichufenshou，wojuedebingbuyidingshuoniliangjiuzhongjiubingbushiyiqile。jibianlingyifangshenpangrujinzaoyiyongyou1gebinihaokan，bininhaodexinhuannvpengyoule，ruoniyeyouwanliutadexin，hailianlianbushedajiadeqinggan，fenshoufuhehaihuiyoudeshi。xiangwanhuiaiqingdehuazenmezuo?

 dangran，wanliudefangfahenguanjian。jiaruoniyizhizaifenshouzhihouhaiyong1geqinglvdezhenshishenfenchuxianzaitayanqian，suihouyigezhonggeyangfangfalaixunhuidajiadangshideganqingshi，lingyifanghenjianghuihuifanjuedezhihouyebuyuanzaijianniyimian，naizhiduanjueyunidelianluo，youyu，zaitadexinli，jibiannihaiyao，dankeguanshishitanbai，dajiadeqingganyishiguoqu。neima，zaifenshoufuhedelumianshang，jiaruolingyifangshenpangxianyouxinhuannvpengyoule，nigairuhezuonenggoubatajiwanliu?

一、挽回男朋友的心态状态错误观念

 xiangwanhuiaiqingdehuazenmezuo?wanliushinideqingkuang，bulunshiwaizaihuanshixintai，doushilijiweihaidaowanliudechenggongyushibai。leguandexintainenggou xiezhuniyizhizaiwanliuxitongjinchengzhongyuanmanqianxing;fumianxinxidexintaizhuangtaibujinzainiwanliudelumianshangshengchanzhizaozuai，yehuijinizishenmitu。wanhuiganqingshibixuraokaishenmexintaizhuangtaishangdejinqu。

 zibeigan。zuoweijijiwanliudelingyifang，xuduorengerenganjuedijian。zhuyishixiangzaiqingganli，meiyousheizunsheibei，xiangduixingde，doumeiyoujueduisheiduisheicuo。qingganshengbianjuebushiyicuerjiuercheng，yebingbushidanfangjiunenggou cushide。wanhuiaiqingyebingbushirangxiangqudisanxiasideyangqiulingyifang、xingqiqinggan，jianxinyangqiuhuodedeqingganguanlianniyewufaxiangyouzaiqizhong。wanliuqianqi，yingduiwanliulingyibandehuijueshi，yewuxuyinerzixinxinbenkui，youyutashijiyoukenengchanshengdezhuangkuang;yewuxuyouyuzheiban，rangzishenshenxiandijian、bugaodeqingkuangzhong，zheiyincijiushinizishenjiangnizishendairudaozheiyiqingjingzhong，erbingbushilingyifangrangnide。baizhengxintaizhuangtai，bazheishizuoduocibicizaicitiaoxuandejiyu。

 baofuxintai。ruonicunduifuxintai，biaomingnibingfeizhenxinshiyiyuanyiwanliu。nijinjinganjuezishendenulimeiyouhuodeshouyiermeifasilexin，qiqiuwanliuhousunhailingyifangyidedaoxintaizhuangtaishangdejunheng，zheileixintaizhuangtaizongshidaozhitongguiyujindexiachang。daizhubaofuxintaidewanliu，niyaoqiansansierxing，zheizhongzuofachukaiduitarenchengdan，yeshinazishendexingfukuaileouqi。

 xiangwanhuiaiqingdehuazenmezuo?xinlaixintaizhuangtai。xinlaixintaizhuangtaishinvxingzaiwanhuiganqingzhongdezhimingxingxintaizhuangtai，quandouxiguanxingyiyiwubangpiaonansheng，haowuyiwenjitamenchanshengjidagongzuoyali。chukaizishendeyishizhuxing、shiye，tahaibixudanfunidexintai、maiyuan、suoyao，danggongzuoyalijidiandao1gedanfu，zhinengguanbiwangzhansuanshihuanjieyalideweiyifangshile。xinlaixintaizhuangtaiquanshiyinweiguogaodeyaoqiuganzaochengde，erjianshaoyaoqiuganjiubixufensanhuaniduitaxiazhudeguoduoshijian、huoli：duoqukanshu，duodujialvyou，duobaomingcanjiapengyoujucan，duozhuiqiuwanmeizishenlixianghua。fangzhijiangnideyishizhuxingzhongxindiansuoyoufangdaotashoushang。shidangdeyikaojianghuichanshengtianmei，yikaoguoduochanshengqueshigongzuoyali，yingduigongzuoyalitiaoxuanduobiquanshirendezifaxingtiaoxuan。

二、挽留的恰当心态状态

 wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?wanliubingbushizheijianfeichangrongyideshi，dangzijilikainishineimataxinliduinizaoyizaochengfourenxintaizhuangtai，yincizaiwanliuwoyebukeyizaizuobuzhengquedeshi，feichangshinvhaizaiwanliunanhaizideneishihou，gaiyiruhedexintaizhuangtailaijiejue?

 fancuowu。weihaifayanfangfazuilijidejiushishuoxintai，bingqiezheiweihaishierrumurande，youshihouniyebuzhiweishenmehuineimejiang，yinciyaoxiangenggainibenshendexintai。jibianniganjuenidebuzhengqueyaobilingyifangxiao，neimeniyederenkenitashidebuzhengque，neiyangnenggou xianhelidejianshaodajiazhongjiandefenqidianjinershitarengxiangyaoyunibaochilianluo。

 youxinxin。bubiganjueniyeshibeiyiqilingyifangwoyeganjuejiushinidebutaihao，suihoubuzixin，liangzhezhijianyitiandaowandanxinshibushinengfouwanliu，bibushangchulaifengfuduocainideyishizhuxing，tinideyouhuoli，tigaonidexinxinlaizaicixiyinzhuta，tahuihouhuimojilaiwanliuni，zhimingganqingzhuanjiacengjingshuoguo“tahuiganjue，tameiyounishenbianshi，douhuicuoguolemouxiexingfudewupin”zheijiushishuozuixiyinzhurendediqu。

 jianshaoyaoqiu。jianshaoyaoqiushigenggaixintaidelijifanying，lingyifanghuigenjuniyaoqiugandegaoailaifenbiannidebidexing，ernanshengduibunengdegaochaodeshiqingxiantianxingyouzhuiqiuxing，yincidangyiqianguishuyutadebiandechuseeryoubunengdedeneishihoujiuhuijiqitadezhuiqiuxintaizhuangtai。neimaruhetishengbunengdexingni?

三、从异性朋友学起

 fenshouzhihoudelianrengaiyiruhedefangfazaicichuangjianxiyinzhu，zanqiecongyixingpengyoudeguanlianxueqiba!neiyangjinengfangxialingyifangdejiebeixin，yekeyiweiercixiyinchanshengtupokou。neima，gaizenyangzuo?

 wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?shiranshifangchulai。zailingyifangguoduanshuozuo“yixingpengyou”shi，nahao，woyezunxunlingyifangyixiangba!ranglingyifangganjuezishenduinizaochengdaliangdeneijiugan，jinerweilingyifangjiexiaqudehouhuimojizuotiqianzhunbei。zongtitigaozijidesuyang。congzheishigangkaishi，woyenenggou erqiewubiyaogenyiwangranglingyifangtaoyandezishendaobiele，zaizheixielizhiqishiweizijifenpeihaoxingchenganpaiherichengbiao，zuoxieyouyiyideshiqing，tigaozijidebenzhisuzhihepinweideng。

 weizijigaohaojingzhundingwei。tongchangdajiazaifenshouzhihou，weizijizuodeshiqingjiushishuoyaogaohaojingzhundingwei。gaosutazishen，nisuirantingdadewanliuzhiji，danbixuyaoweichiyixingpengyoudeguanlian，bubiranglingyifangganjueniyiranduita/tahuaiyouyisisihuanxiangshijie，zaijiangdilingyifangduinidejiebeixindeyiqi，youweichibingji。xiangnenggou youshihouyuelingyifangchigefan，jiangeshen，huoshiliaoyiliaodianhuahaikeyi。danglingyifanghuijijidianhuanihuoshiyuenidehua，neimenijiumairuqudechenggongwanliulingyifangdeyibule。

 wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?yiner，nvhaizaiwanliunanhaiziqinggandelumianshang，bixudeyongduifangshi，jiaruozaiwanliushishizhongjinjinyizhaozishendeniantouquzuo，meiyouzhongshilingyifangdexintaizhuangtaixuqiu，meiyouzhaodaodajiatichufenshoudeyuangusuihouqugaibianxianzhuang，wanliuzuodezaihaodoushibuqizuoyongde。