前男友复合攻略：如何把控男人心态

 xiang wanhuiaiqing dehuazenmezuo?dangwojiuhuibulailianqingneishihoudetianmeihuanjie，yeshinihenanpengyouzhongjianyouyutichufenshouershiquqinglvguanlianshi，yuanyiwanliudexiangfahuidacongxinlilimengfa。zaimeiyoutadeshirili，guoqudekuaileshiri，jiqinanpengyouduizishendehaohuiwubiqipan，henyuanyikuaidianerjiuyunanpengyoufuhexing。dannvxingbingmeiyouxiangguo，weihejiju“renmenfuhexinghaome”tajiuhuimashangyuanyi，tachangshuodetichufenshoushilijingshenzhongkaolvde，xinxinbingburongyiyouyuyiduanhuaerjiandingbuyi。wanliudelubixuzoujishimi，erluchengdeshibushimanzhangdekannvrendongbudongdewanhuinanpengyou。wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?

一、愿意挽回男朋友却发觉：回过头却并不是过去

 zaiqingganshenghuozhong，dajialianqingneishihouenenaiai，youzhexuduoxianghudekuaileshiguang，keshineiyangdeshirizaoyiguoqu，niduitazaiyebuhuiyouhuoli，yiqianaizhenidetaxiangnimingquetichuletichufenshou。niyuanyiwanliulingyifang，quefajuezhiqiankeyixiyinzhutadediqu，rujinzaiyemeineimerongyizaochenglingyifangdeliuyile。

二、挽回男朋友前问一问自身给你相互理解吗

 wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?henanyoufenshouzhihou，xuduonvhaidoushifeichangnanguoheshangxin，youyutamenzaoyixiguanyigerenlingyifangduizishendeguanzhu，dangzheileiguanxintitiedezhaoliaoruguomeile，jiuhuiganjuehenbuxiguanxing，henkumen，yehenjimo，nimeifajienatade“yiqingbielian”he“lengdan”。cike，zainizheileijuedechuxianshi，woyegaihaohaodixiangzhe，nishibushiqueshiaita，nishibushiqueshixiangwanliu?jiaruonidequeshiaita，niyaowanliu，neimamianduixianshi、gaibianxianzhuangzhiqianyiguanzhilejiejienalingyifangnulierbuqingchuzenyangquganxiedeniantoushizuijichude，tashiqudechenggongwanhuinanpengyoudeqiantitiaojian。

xianghulijiebingbushimeigerennengbaozheng，danqueshibaochiqinggansuowubiyaoyoude。

 nanren，zainigentafenshouzhihou，zhinengruguoniganjuetazuigainiai，zuigainigentashanmenghaishi，nicaihuihouhuimojizishendejuece，yaolejie，zaizheiyiquanshijie，xunzhaozishenaiderenjianghuifeichangrongyi，dannengxunzhaoshandaiziji，guanzhuzishen，bazishendangzuoshilingyifangxingmingzhongdebufenderenquemeibanfa。yiner，ruoniyizhizaifenshouzhihoujiweihouhuimoji，henxiangwanliuzheixieqinggandehua，jiuyingdangnuligongjian，mingbaixianghulijie，yongzishendegenggaiqudadongtaba!shijigaizenmezuo?

 shouwei，keguandikandaitadetichufenshoujuece。dangtaxiangfenshouhou，niderenhezuofaduitaeryanquanshibuqizuoyongde，zheishi，bubiyouyuzishenshebudedexintaizhuangtaiqujiuchanbuxiu，yebubiweizhegentabiaoshu，bubigentafanbo。youyu，jiangchutichufenshouliangzishi，budanshininengnanguoshangxin，wojuedeniyongyuanbuzhidaotadoushilijingsixiangguanniandeqianbaicizhengtuocaibeitongzuochudejuece，bieyiweitaxiangyaonideyangqiu，biaoshu，wojuedetagengbixushijianqulizhihexiexi。yiner，liangzhezhijianneiyangfengkuangdisichan，disanxiasidiyangqiu，haibibushangshiranjienalingyifangdejuece，suihouhaohaogaibianxianzhuang，ercixiyinlingyifang。

 wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?qici，quexindajiadeganqing。yiqiantaduinititieruweideguanai，guanxintitiedezhaoliao，jinguantichufenshouyicishitazuizhongmingquetichulaide，neiyezhengshitayiqianzhendehaoaini，duinihenrenzhen，jinjinnibenrendemouxiegerenxingweihezuofatahuiyulaiyujuedexindanheyanfan，yinercaijueqingzuochuzheiyijuece。yinci，zhenduizheileiweizijizhenxinshiyiguanaideren，zishenyoushixihuanzhede，jiugengyingdangquqinfenwanliu。“wanliudequanguochengyiqidoushiduizishenxixinhehengxindemolian，youyuwanliuyincishiyipengdingzigangkaishide。”yiner，yingduizhenqing，yingduizhenshiguanzhuhezhenzhengainideren，bubiweisuo，yebubicaiyidajiazhongjiandeqinggan，yingyongquzhengdexingfukuailecaihuibuqierzhi。

 zuihou，xianghulijie，zengjiazishende“zijintouru”。yexunizhiqianshigehenrenxing，henzisizili，yehenbuguanbugutarentihuideren。youqiganqingdelumianshang，nanyouduinideguanaizongbeinidangzuolezheizhonglisuoyingdangdenuli，wojuede，zheileizisizilideniantouzaiganqingdequanqiulishizuibukeyong，doushilingrendichude。ganqingwufenbici，yeburongyiyounuliheshouyizhengbidejichulilun，zhinengsheibuaixishei!yiner，ruonizheishihaixiangwanhuidehua，jiuyingdanggaibianxianzhuangzhiqianneileizisizilideniantou，jiaozongdegerenxingwei。xuehaoxianghulijie，zhinengruguonimingbaizenyangqukaolvdaotarentihui，guanzhutarenshi，lingyifangcaihuihaowuyiwenni，chengzanni!zheigengshiniweiwanliudajiadeganqing，nuliheqinfendefangwei。

三、愿意挽留丧失的情感最最该做的事

 liangrencongxiangfeng、xiangyu、xiangshidaoenai，huaxiaoshijianhuolishi，yizhiwanghusuoyidexiaozhe。danshimeitian，jiqingtunquhou，shengyudejinjinwukenaiheheyanjuanshi，mairudeyejianghuishizheichangyouzheichangdezhengzhi。youxieren，enaishitianmei、enaishimoheqi、enaidoushizhengzhi，meiyoumeiduanqinggannengshizhongtianmeiruchujian，doumeiyoumeiduanqingganhuishizhongyanjuanzhengchao。dangdajiazaoyufenshoushi，huoxunibukeyilejieweihedangshizheibanenaideliangrenhuibianweizheibanchoushi，zaiyingduitadelengdanshi，nishibushiganjuexinrusihui，buzhisuocuo，danyehuanshiyuanyiwanliuzheiyizishenjuedeshidongnideren。ruhewanhuinanyou?zenyangwanhuimeiduanqinggan?xialiedefangshihuoxunengbangshangni。

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