女友挽回攻略：如何测试联系才能增加成功率

 fenshouzhihouhenxiangpangbianrenlianluo，henxiangfaxiaoxiqiufuhexingerqiehuodehaowuyiwendehuiying。keshifenshouzhihouniduitadexinxidechuandijiurutongniniuruhai，meiyoufenhaoyijianfankui。zheijinidewanliujuedetongxin，huoxuhenxiangjiandaolingyifangnengduinihuixinxineirong。kezidazaifenshouzhihoudajiazhongjiandehuatitaolunyibuqingchuyeyoumeiyouxiangtongdianle，huoxunimaomaoranquzhaolingyifangyehuirangchangjinghaoganga，yaoshilingyifangyidianeryebulicaizishengengweiweihaiyihoudewanliu。yuanyixiufulianggerendelianluozaban?wanhuinvyoudehuazenmezuo?ruhe wanhuinvyou ?

一、检测联络要留意什么地方

 zaiwanhuiganqingdequanguochengzhong，xuduorendewanliukaizhandaobixudeshuipingjiuhuishenxian1geduanban：wanliudetiqianzhunbeigongzuozhongzaoyigaohaole，keshiqueyoubuqingchugaiheshizuoshenhuadegongjian。zaizheileineishihou，jianceyuqiannvyoulianluojiunengbangnigengqiangdezhangwowanliudejihui，jiniyijulingyifangdefanyinglaifenbianlingyifangrujindexintaizhuangtaiheduinidexintai，bianyugengqiangdequkaizhanwanliu。

 xiufujiancedeqiantitiaojian。zaiwanhuiganqingdequanguochengzhong，yuanyidadaolianluodoushiyoubiyaotiaojiande。“jiarulianluobukeyidadaohaodetuidong，neizheibidingshihuaidetuidong，huanjuhuashuoluanshizhehuoshiluanlianluo，zongshitishengwanliudezhouqishijianhenanduxishubale”。yinci，yuanyilianluokeyihelidekaizhan，haiyaobaozhengxialie2geqiantitiaojian。

 wanhuinvyoudehuazenmezuo?xintaizhuangtai，zaikaizhanjiancedeneishihou，wulunjieguoshihaohuanshihuai，bixuweichijijizhudongkailang、neiyang，nicaiburongyiyouyuzishenmingxiandeyaoqiuganerbawanliudejieguowanghuaidefangweituidong。

 jihui，fenshouzhihoulingyifangduinidedichuganshichuzaishifengaodeqingkuang，zheishihoushizhelianluolianluojianghuihuijiazhonglingyifangduinidefourenxintaizhuangtai，duinigengweidedichu，zhinengruguonibabicidefenqidianjiangxiaqu、baganqinglengzang，yongyouchongzuhaodepinpaixingxianggenggaiyihou，zaishizhegoutongjiaoliu，qudechenggongdegailvcaihuigenggao。

 yaojilao，nidexianganbukeyitaiguoyouyi，bixuyingyishunlichengzhangdefangfaqukaizhan，buranjiuhuijilingyifangzheizhongjinihenqianggonglixingdejuede。ninengzaimouxiedutedeshiri，liruguojiafadingjiari、jierizheixie，jilingyifangfamouxiewenhaohuoshizhufuduanxin，suihoukanyixialingyifangduinidexintai。

 wanhuinvyoudehuazenmezuo?jiarulingyifangyoudafule，zheijiubiaominglingyifanghuanshizaihunide，duinidexintaibudichu，woyenenggou fanganxiayijieduandewanliushijicaozuo，dandangnijilingyifangfaxinxihuoshitongdianhualingyifangzhuyaobiaoxiandeyehenlengmonaizhibuhuiyingnidehua，woyebubigengjinyibuposhilingyifangdafule，huoxulingyifanghaiduiniyongyoubudahaodejuede，zheileineishihouwoyebukeyibiaoluchuduitadeyaoqiugan，yeqianwanbiezheji，jishilinshidabushangniyuanyidejieguoyebubiguoduzaihu，pengdaoneiyangdezhuangkuangninengzhuyaobiaoxiandelengmodian，jinkenengyongjianjiemingledehuawanbizheiyihuatitaolun。suihouzaidenghoudaoshihougengqiangdejihuizaikaizhanjiance。

二、怎样在挽留中慢慢修复联络

 shiduzhanxiangaoshiyongjiazhi，zaicixiyinzhulingyifang。yixierenweilingyifangmeiyouweixinfapengyouquan，neizishendoubufayiqiedeweixinpengyouquan，neiyangjianjiandijiuzailingyifangdeweixinpengyouquanzhongxiaotui，zuihouzailingyifangdeneixinxiaotui。yuanyiwanliulingyifang，haiyaozhangwodajiatichufenshoudezhenshiyuangu，jiuzhengbenshendequexian。yiqibuduantigaobenshendeshiyongjiazhi，fengfuduocaizishendeweixinpengyouquan，paidaojubeiyouhuolidexiangpian，danglingyifangjiandaoniganjingzhengjiedepinpaixingxiang，feichangrongyijiuhuibeiyuelaiyuegengyoufengcaidenixiyinzhudao，zaiciyuanyizhangwonidexiankuang。

 ruhewanhuinvyou?genjuxianghudeweixinpengyouquan，wuyaoqiulianluolingyifang。zaiwanliuquanguochengzhong，mingbaiguanlizijideyaoqiugan，youderenqueshitigaolezishendeshiyongjiazhi，rangzishenyuelaiyuegengyouyouhuolile，keshilianluolingyifanghuoshihelingyifangpengmianyihoupubiancunzaizishenmingxiandeyaoqiugan，ranglingyifangganjueniyeshishunshoubidede，jiuruwanjiuaiqingkangnachangshuo：“rendebenxingbenjian。shunshoubidedewupindajiayinciburongyiaixi。”yuanyiwanliulingyifangdexin，mingbaiwuyaoqiudilianluolingyifang，huoshitonghuoxianghudepengyoujucanshengchanzhizaoqiaoyudejiyu，zailingyifangyanqianshiduchengxiangaoshiyongjiazhi，shengchanzhizaoyuqingguzongdejuede，neiyangnenggoutahuiduinigengweiyouxingquaihao，youliyuniwanliulingyifangdexin。

san、jiancelianluozhifuchouzhelianmengshiyingdangliuyinaxie

 ganqingfuhedashikangnashuoguo“jiarufenshouzhihoudezheiyilianluoshimeiyoujieguode，duiwanliushimeiyouxiezhudehua，nijiuxiangdangyu1gefumianxinxidetuidong。”jiaruzaimouyiduanhuahuomouyigerenxingweizuobuduichangyoujianghuishiniyiqiansuonulideqinfendoufuzhidongliu，yincizaifuchouzhelianmengdeneishihoubixuliuyiyixianeirong：

 yiyixingpengyoudexintaizhuangtaiqugoutongjiaoliu。zaiqudechenggongyulingyifangjianlilianxideneishihou，renmendoushijuedejidongyiwaijingxi，zheileiqingxunenggou lejie，danbixubukeyijibukenaidijiujiangniqianbujiudekushuidouxianglingyifangtuchulai，tashiqianwanbukequdegerenxingwei。xuduorendaofenshouzhihou、zaiwanliuzhongdoushibuzhengquedeyiranbalingyifangdangzuoqinglvkandai，yincizaifuchouzhelianmenghoudegoutongjiaoliushangyiranbaxianghudeguanlianzuoweizhiqiandeguanliankandai，tashibuzhengquedexintaizhuangtai。zaifuchouzhelianmengdeneishihou，niyingdangweichilianghaodexintai，balingyifangzuoweiyixingpengyouxiangtongdaziranyoushandiqugoutongjiaoliu，neiyangcaiburongyijilingyifangdaozhigongzuoyali。

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 ruhewanhuinvyou?yibutizhiqianqinggandeshi，duoliaojingcaidehuatitaolun。zaifuchouzhelianmenghoudegoutongjiaoliuli，huatitaolundetiaoxuandoushibixujinshenxuanzede。zhiqianqinggandeshishibukeyizaitide，tidaojiushihuifeichangrongyishilingyifangyouxiangdaodajiazhiqianchanshengmaodunshidebutaihaozhuiyi。niyingdangtiaoxuanmouxiedajiafenshouzhihou、qianbujiuhuoshibujiuchanshengdeshizuoweixianliaoneirong，neirongbixuruguojijizhudongde、quweide、shehuizhengnengliangde。liruninenggongxiangxiafenshouzhihoudeyishizhuxing：xiangquleshenmedifanglvyou，genlingyifangxiangxijieshaobendiderenwenfengqing;nishizheleshenmetanxiancijixingdeshier，gongxiangjidongrenxindeshike;nipengdaoguoshenmeyouyisideshi，yulingyifanggongxiangzaiqizhongdekuailezheixie。zheizhongneirongnenggou ranglingyifangganjuefenshouzhihoudeniyishizhuxingyuelaiyuegengjingcaile，juedeniquanburendoutigaole，huizaiciduinizaochengqiuzhiyu。

 ruhewanhuinvyou?zaiganqingzhongnizaoyibuchenggongguoduoci，zaizhengdehuiganqingdequanguochengzhongjinkenengbaozhengbiefancuowu。niyuqiannvyouzhongjiannenggou shizhecongxiufulianluoxueqi，zhibuguoshizaizheilixiufudequanguochengzhongniwubiyaocaozongzhuzishendeyaoqiugan，bubijilingyifangtihuidaoguoduoniyuanyimashangwanhuiaiqingdexintaizhuangtai。yaolejiecongmingderenhuihuodedaliangdelianluojiyu，zaimanmanzaochenglianluoshiyebiewangjitishengzishendeziwojiazhi，rangtazaochengduinidehaoqixin，huatitaolunyongyouyihou，qingganjiukeyixiangzhiqianneibanjianjiandijidian，nidefuhexingxinyuanhaowuyiwenhuidadaode。