分手后挽回前女友的方法

 wanhuinvyou dehuazenmezuo?dannitangruozhenshixiangwanhuinvpengyoude，tingwoyequan，zuorenhedegerenxingweizhiqian，xiansansierer，chongfenkaolvyixiahaojigezhongyaohuanjie：ruhewanhuinvyou?

1、要不要挽回?

niyinweishangxinyujue，buganxinbeipaoqiyinerxiangwanhui，haishichengxinchengyiaita?

 nishizhangwodaobenshendenandian、yuanyibiangengbuyuanzaidubuxing，haishijidianran“wanhui”dehuangzi，jizijizhaoxintaianwei：zhishaocongqiandewozhengquyiguo?

2、wanhuiyiweizheshenme?

 nanhaiziwanhuinvpengyoudeneishi，renweiwanhuijiushijiuzhengzheizhongtawufarenshoudeshiqing，biruyizhiguanta，biruyiqianbugouguanxinta，biruyiqianduitabugoukongqi。shenzhimouxienanhaizizaojiuzhenshijingliguoduocidefenyuhe，rengranbaoyouzheizhongxiangfa。

 danwanhuidequejiushijiandandequjiejuezheizhongbiaocengdeshiqingma?rengranxiangganqingshidejiatinglengbaolihuozhengchaoyihou，shuoxiehaotinghua，zuoxielangmangerenxingweijiunengxiufuganqing?

 ruhewanhuinvyou?niwangle，xiangfenshouyinweiliangrenwufaxiangchudejieguo，fuhexingshiliangrenxianghuzhijianxiyindejieguo。ruguonirengweifenshoushinenggoubiangengxiangchufangshi ，neijianghuibuyixiangfenshou;danzaojiuxiangfenshouderen，xiangxianghuzhijianxiyin，jiuburongzhiyibingfeibiangengyixiaxiangchufangshi le。yinerwanhui，shiyaojinxingshendu11tisheng，zaibiangengxiangchufangshi deyikuaier，jinxingercixiyinliucheng。

3、wanhuishinizishendeshiqing。

 ganqingchuxianwenti，liangrenjingchangchuxianzeren。danwanhuiderenshini，yinweiwoderentongbenshennandiandeyikuaier，baorongtadenandian。changshuo，“gegefangmianlaijiang，ganqingguanxichuxianderenhenandian，doushinanhaizisuozaochengde。biewenwozenmehuishishuo，shigeyemeneryinweiwodexuejingjianfu，jianfuninvshifanguodeyiqieyouwu，yinweishinimeiyouhenhaodejin1genanrendezerenlingzhehaota，caidaozhitazoupianzouwai。jiarulianbenshennvshidoubunengzhengqueduidaidaoxianghuzhijianyijianrugu，neizhinengshuonishuzuiduohetatongyangsuangeniangniangqiang”。

 ruhewanhuinvyou?huasuiranyoudianzhong，dandaolijiushizheiyizhengdadaoli。wanhuijiushinizishendeshiqing，wuxutuixiezeren，wuxuxunzhaotuoci，yaoburannirongyizhongtutundiao。

4、挽回之后呢?

 wanhuinvyoudehuazenmezuo?wuxubianyuwanhuierwanhui，yaosikaoyixia，wanhuizhihouliangrenjinrujingchangxingguanxidejilv。yinweichichuanzhuxinghaishiyaozaidude，tiqianshexianghao，duiyuweilainikeyigengyouxinxin，haikeyijitahenduoxinxin。birukuaguolian，yihougairuhejieshu;birumamahebababubijiaomanyi，niruhejiejue。

 danwuxurangzheileibianweiwobuhuiwanhuidetuoci。nirengweiwanhuihuodechenggongshi，pingjunqiwenbudahaokeyibianweinifangqideyuangu;wanhuihuodechenggonghou，zheileiquanshibianweilianggerenhuxiangjiejuedenandian。“yuangu”wuchubuzai，zheishixiaochule1ge，xiayishunjianyounengzhaoxunxinde;er“nandian”jiusuanlingrendanyou，quekeyijiejue。

fenshouhouwanhuiqianrennvyoudefangfa

kanleneimeduo，niliyingyikaishiyishidaowanhuinvpengyoubingbushineijianduanshijian、jiandandeshiqingle。

 nijiangyaoshuo，“kongtan，wozaojiuzuoleneimeduoshiqingle，dantaxianrujinhaishiduirenmenjiqilengdan”。dangzheileifangfa buguanyongdeneishi，niyikaishixunzhaolingzheilei。yiner，fenshouhounizhuanyanjishidejihui，jianjiandizhujiandebeiniqinshencuihuile。

 worenweifangfa meiyouduo，wanhuizheishiqingyebingfei1gefangfa jiuyitiebingchude，weishenmeshizhongzhongshijutinandianxiangxifenxiquanshizheiyizhengdadaoli，yongyaozhiliaozhihou，haiyaojiuyi，haiyaobinghoudiaoli，shiyihuankouyihuande。zheier，nijinliangzhangwonanhaizizaiqinggandangzhongdezeren：

 1、bujiuzaojiushuoyiguo，zailiangxingguanxizhongnanhaizijinliangzuoguanjian，jianfusuoyouzeren，gaoqingchulingzhenvshi。tangruofashengzhengzhideneishi，nishizhongbazerenqianglietuijianjiduifang;ruguonishizhongbeitaqianzhebizizou，quebuqingxizenyangzhengqueduidaitazaimanhengwulishijijizhudongfancuowu，neimaniburongzhiyishibugounanhaizide。

 2、nanhaizishibunengxiangnvshifaxiexintaizhuangtaide。nvshicaizhongaitaolao，meishizhaoshi，faxiexintaizhuangtai，nibubishuobenshengongzuoshangmang，yalida，ruguonilianbenshendexintaizhuangtaidouwufakongzhi，nirangnvshizenyangquexinninengjiyutaweilai?erqie，1gepumanxiaojiqingxudenanhaizi，hexiantianjiuxihuanxinshenbuandenvshiyiqichichuanzhuxing，dianjizhedoushiwenluanerkepadeyemian。

3、nanhaizibunenghaowuyuanze，bingfeishuobunenghongnvshi，jinjinzaihongwannvshizhihou，yaojutibiaoxianchunidebuxihuanzhibiao。

 worenweidahuoerhuixiangfenshou，zuimashangdeyuanyinshinizuodezheizhongshiqing，yikaishirangtaduirangnilehuaidexiangqi，manmandaoyihou，taduinibuzaiyourenhexiangqi，huanjuhuashuomishi。huanjuhua，dangnifenshouhoubuduansichanshi，taxiangqidaodeshi“woqinfenneimeduoquesangshiyingli，henlei”“zhengzhizhihoudetongxin”“tashizhigaobudongwodewanbanwunaiheshangxin”。niyufabuduanaijin，tazheizhongfumianqingxuxiangqiyuedaxianzhu。daozuihou，nizuodeshizaojiuwufadaozhitadeganqing，tamanmanmamudeneishi，taderennaomashangjiuzaochengleduinidefumianqingxusiweinengli：wulunnizuoshenmeshi，doushibudahaode。

那咋办呢?

 jiexialai，quzhaiyaoduinishuo1gezhongyaodeguannian。jiarushuowanhuideneishi，meiyicitajijizhudonglianxini，doushi1gejihui。tangruojiangnibencijihuibawozhule，yinweiwobawolewanhuideguanjian。

 wanhuinvyoudehuazenmezuo?pirushuo，tabuqingxishouleshenmeciji，huoxushikaiqilemoubenyiqikanguodeshu，huozheneishoudahuoerdedingqinggequxiazai，huoshiyinalibawodaonidexianzhuang，huanjuhuataxiangqileni，bingqiejijizhudonglianxinilei。zheishihou，taduinidexiangqi，youzheyichanei，jiushineimeyichaneishijijide。ninengzuode，jiushiduitajinxingshidangdezhengqueduidai，kuodazheiyidiandiandejijidexiangqi。

具体应怎样做呢?

zaidafuzheiyinandianzhiqian，nixianhaohaodianjizhe，nidequeyouneimebawonidenvpengyouma?

 zaizhengzhideneishi，dahuoerdouhenfapiqi，juededuifangwufazhangwo。yikaishinirenzhebubuji，yihoutakebodeneishi，nirenbuzhuhuizuile，liangrendezhengzhigengqianglie。worenweizheishihou，niruguozaidubaochichenmo，jiezhedengzhenitatichuzhiyiniweishenmebuzuoshengshi，shuoyijuhua，“ng，shidoushiwodecuo”jiuchongyule。

 yinweidangnineibanshuo，nvshijiuhuiyouyubujue。tagenninaobingfeixiangpeizhenixiangfenshou，tazhishixiwangdedaonihenduodeguanzhu，qidaiyuninnenggoubawotadexiangfa。nijiarufancuowu，wuluncuozaimani，taquanshixunsujingxialai，yinweitacuoquerenniduitabaorong，tahuilikui;nicuo，querenniyikaishiyishidaobenshendenandianle，tajiuhuichongfenkaolvjinijihui，erbingfeizaidupeizheninao。

 zaiwanhuideneishi，nijianghuizuolehenduolianbenshenwubichudongdeshiqing，xinzhongqidaitaquanshineibande。jiushiwogedaxueshenggaosuwo，fenshouzhihou，tahualehenduoqianzuxialai1gedingjicanguan，yijupengyoubatayuegandaoneili，haizhaolailesuoyoudehuxiangpengyou，zaipengyoudejianzhengxia，zaicanguandeyingmushangbofangletazhizuode1geshipin，limianjiangguohenduohua，doushiyouyiqushedinghaode。jiezhetapengzhe99duomeiguizaiguanlihoutaichuxian，guixiaxiangtagaobai，rangtazaijitajiyu。liantazishendouchudongtongkuliuti，dannvshengqueyouyule，bujieshou。zouxiataihou，haihewoshuo，womenhuibuqule。

 nanhaizizaiwanhuinvpengyoudeneishi，hendade1gecuowuguandianshi：guangqianguazhebenshenzenyangcaihuibeichudong，quehulvetawubideshishenme;xiwangbuduanqucijitaxintaizhuangtaibodong，quehulvedaozhidexiangqishijijihaishifumianqingxude。zhiyouxuanyongshidangdefangshi ，lizaitadejiaoduquchongfenkaolvheshedingfangfa ，keyicijitadexintaizhuangtai，daozhijijidexiangqi。erxiangzheizhongfenggoushidesichan、buduandesonghuasongshengriliwushejigainianlangmanjingdianpianduan、shizheshuofutajieshouniluanqibazaodesiweiluoji、zhaomamahebabazhaogepengyouzhaogepengyouquqiuqingzheizhong，yexuyehuicijitadexintaizhuangtai，tahuijuedehaofan、yalihenda、nihendichu，dangtaxiangqidaopeizhenixiangguanderenherenshier，tajiuhuixiangdao“fan”le。

这是你能的吗?

huashuohuilai，wanhuinvpengyoushi，yaogenjudahuoerqingkuangchuyudezhuangkuang、zaochengguodeshiqing，xuanyongxiangfuhedefangshi quchuli。

wobeiwanhuijieduanfenchengle7gejieduan。

 jieduan1，dahuoerzaimoushucimocayihou，taturanbujiaoninichengle，huozhedangnijiaotahuopin、aikeshi、xifuerdeneishi，taxintaizhuangtailengdan。huozheshengchengyaopeizhenixiangfenshou。huoxuzhiruowangwen，meiyoumashangcaiqurenhexiubugerenxingwei。

 jieduan2，niyishidaotazailengdan，yikaishifengkuangdequzuowanhui。tahuiyexudehuaerliulei，huinanguo，huipeizhenizhuiyiguoqu。zuihouyingshuo“meiyouxinxinle”“womenhuibuqule”“wojiguoniguoduojihuile”。

 jieduan3，nizaidunidefengkuanggongji，tayikaishibunaifan，liangfanquandao、jinggaozhihou，yikaishiduoni，youshibujiedianhuahuozhebuhuiduanxin。

 jieduan4，fengkuangdewanhuigerenxingweitarengranshierbujian，niyikaishijingxialai，yuwojiaoliuyugoutong，yibianshuoxianghetazuopengyou，yibianyonggeshigeyangfangshi laicijita。cishiqiyou2getedian，yishitarengranyuanyipeizhenilianxi，liaotianerjiaoweihexie，danliaoganqinghewanhuishileiqu;ershinidepingjingshijiazhuangde。

 jieduan5，tabaochipengyouxuyaodejiange，xintaizhuangtaishilengshire，youshijijizhudongjinifaxinxi，youshihouyoubuhuinixinxi，niwufajieshou，huitiyixiechaochupengyoujiexiandeyaoqiu。naofanzhihou，tajiangnilianxifangshilieruheimingdan。

jieduan6，nishizhecaiyonglengdongdefangshi ，tanbaitanizaojiufangqi，xiangrangtalaijijizhudonglianxini。

 jieduan7，niyiduanshijianchengdanbushangxintaizhuangtaijijizhudongjiejuelengdongqulianxita，tanbaitaxiangzheneimejiuhuanshiwufabici，mingquezhichuzuohaopengyou。tameiyanzhiyoulini。

butongdejieduan，yaoxuanyongbutongdefangfa qucaozuoguocheng：

 zaixiangfenshoudediyiweijieduan，likerentongsuoyounandiandoushinidecuo。neibanzuodehaochu，shirangbenshencunzaiwudelianggeren，huidaoletongyangshilishang。yaozhangwo，dangrendaoqueshikeguandeneishi，nibuduandemiaoshu、shenzhihetazhengchao，tayizhiqidongzhandoufangfa，gengjiabukeguan。genghekuangtahuanshinvhaizi，taganjuebenshendenanpengyoubenlaijiugaiguanzhehebaorongbenshende，wuluncuozaisheinei。

 yiner，wuxujitafashenme“nijinyedejutibiaoxianjiaowotaihanxinle”“wojuededajiawubixianghuzhijianlixingyixia”。niruguoyuwoshuo，“huopin，shibaoqian。”jishitazaidushuoduinihenhanxindejuzi，yewuxuyincierluanlezhenjiao，jinliangzaizheilitiaoduanxinneijitashaoweijulishuomingzheizhongshiqing，bingqiebasuoyoudezerenlanzaibenshenshouli!

 jiezhediertian，shizheyongyixieyuangubatayuedao1geyoujingdediyu。worenweizheizhongjieduanxia，doushuyuyinnixingxiangfenshou，ruguowuxubidetaijin，younengrangnvhainongqingchu，“tadeyiqieyichangxianxiangdouyinweitaizaihuwole”，tajiunengzhangwole，yinweitayeyinweitaizaiyicaihuizhanni、caihuixiangshishikekezhangwonizaina、caihuizaihunidejiaoyou、caihuizaiyitashuodemeiyijuhua。

weijixiaosanzhihou，keyizaiwanhuixueyuanshangpaoshangyigeyue，jishuzhuanyepeixunxuexiyixiananhaizijingchangxingxiangchudezheizhongfangshi 。

 zaifenshouwanhuidecizhidaozuihoujieduan，liketingzhiyiqiefengkuangdedaodexingwei，congpengyoulianqi。ninengnongqingchu，wanhuishifeichang“jichou”de，nizuodemeiyijianshashi，quanshibuduanjidianchulai，buduanjiajutaduinidefumianqingxuyinxiang。jishiyikaishitahaiduiniyouganjue，juededahuoerliangzoubuchulaile，dantabingfeineimequeli，tayeyaoyouyu。danniyichan、fafeng，tajiuquelile。sheizhongaihe1gejingshenbingjiaopengyouni?

erqiedangnimeiegaodaoxiayigejieduan，dengyunidewanhuinanyiduyuebianhuaduoduanda。

 yinerburujiubaochipengyoudeguanxi。nongqingchushenmejiaopengyouma?jiushiniwuquanguowentaxianrujinhenagerendaojiucan，yeguanbuletashenmeshihoudafunideduanxin。pengyouyebuyijingchanghetaliaoganqingdeshi。zaiwubishuizhunshang，baochipengyouguanxi，nenggoujiangditadefangbeixin，danruguonibuduan，tajiuhuibuxiangxinni，jiandingnishibianyuwanhuishuodahua。neibangengrongyidaozhitadefangande。

 shidangdefangshi shi，haosi1genvxingpengyouneiyang，liaoyixiazuijinzaimangshenmea，youshenmetiqianzhunbeia，huanjuhuashiyixiewuguantongyangdeshi，jueduibuliaoganqing。ninengquebaoyanxingyizhi，rangtazhangwo，nishidequexuehuifangxiale，haosi1gepengyouneiyangbaochizhegoutongjiaoliu。jiezhetangruoqixianneichuxiantaxintaizhuangtaibudahao、shibaideshike，bawozhuta，neiquanshi1gejihui。bingfeishuotanbaitaniyizhidouzaiwanhui，jinjinzaitaxiangniqiuzhushi，daitaquyixiefengjingyoumeibangtazhuanyizhuyilibujizhong，jiyuanweihedenghou。

jiexialai，ninengjinxingtisheng。

 wulunnichuzainagejieduan，shidiyiwei、erdaosijieduan，huanshiwudaoqidejieduan，ruguonibukenlunwei1gebeitaidehua，niwubijinxingshendu11tisheng，weichiercixiyinliucheng。yinweifenshouzhihou，ninenghetazhengchaojiaoliuyugoutonglianxi，niyeyuanyijingjingdijiyuguanhuai，tayuanyigenniliaotianer、pengjian，danshitayikuaieryeyikaishihebiedenanhaizipengchu。huanjuhua，tabuzaijiangnizuoweidiyiweihouxuanrenle。zheishihou，nijinliangtigaonidemashangshangpindejiazhihefujiashangpindejiazhi，rangtaganjuedaonidebuyiyang，nichichuanzhuxingjingcaijuelun、kaixinjiji、youfengcai。nikeyizheiliguoduanshijianlizuohaozheileishi：

1、biangengyixiabenshendewaizaiqiyexingxiang，touxinga，fuzhuanga

2、babenshendechichuanzhuxingfenpaidenongnong，budanzhuanyizhuyilibujizhong，ciwaiyezaiweidiyigezuozhutifenggechubei

3、quzuoyixienihenxiangzuo、danzishizhizhongmeiquzuodeshi，biruqidai

4、jutibiaoxianbenshenjijideshenghuoguannian

5、heyixiegaozhiliangnvxingpengyouquheyingzhaopianhou

6、duoquyixiequweixing、youliangdian、huozhezuirangrenhenyaolaidediyu，jiezhepaiyixiezhaopian，biaoqingkaixinde

7、jijianxiangmuweixinfapengyouquan、qqshineikongjiansheji、weibodengwangluopingtai，ershangmian1-6diandoushihenhaodesucai

 8、tangruoyouhuxiangpengyoudehua，yeyaoyingyongchulai，bingfeiquzhaotamenguiquan，jinjinzuzhijuhui。congmeiyoulianxita，dao“wuyijian”zhongzaiduchuxiandaotadequanshijie。niruguoziranjiedezhanshichubenshendeshejiaonenglijiukeyile。

 9、dangnizhenzhengtishenglezhihou，tajijizhudonglianxinideneishi，tazaojiuganjuedaonidebiangengle。nikeyibeidilibatayuechulai，gengyishuhuarangtaganshounidebianhua，cishi，tahuiyoushunxiangdexiangqi，ercixiyinhuiqidong。dangtadexintaizhuangtaijiaoweihaodeneishihou，nishenzhikeyidaitaqubianhuanchangsuowuliuci，haosineishihouwanmeizhuyizhetongyang，rentipengchu，qinwen，fashengguanxi，neimedahuoerdezaiduguanxijiuyikaishile。

 danshi，tangruoqingkuangzaojiuehuadaofenshouwanhuidedi5jieduanyijiwushangxiadejieduan，tabalianxifangshidoulieruheimingdanle，jianyiwuxubenshenzuorenhetixian，zhaozhuanyejiaoshijianchaducu。yinweizheishuomingle3dian：

1、taxianrujinduinidefanganchaochulezheileijizhi;

 2、nideganqingdengjitaidile，shizhigaobudongzenquzuorenheneijianshidangdeshi，jishixiamaoyudaosihaozi，niweixinfapengyouquanchengxianhouchuxianle1gejihui，nidougaobudongjinxingxiayibugongzuo;

3、nidewanhuijihuizaojiufeichangshaole，bunengzaipuzhanglangfeimeiyoule。

wanhuinvyoudehuazenmezuo?wozaizhongshiyixia，wanhuishiyouhuangjinqide，shidecaozuoguochengqishixiangfenshou1ge