分手的真正原因，情感挽回你真的了解吗？

fenshouhouzenme wanhui ?qingganwanhuizenmeban?xiangwanhuiaiqingdehuazenmezuo?

 xuduorendaofenshoushizuiaishuodetuoci，jiushishuorenmenyouwentile、woduinizaoyimeiganjuele、womamahebababuyuanyizheixie。dankeguanshishishizheimoyangdema?wojuedeniyelejie，haowuyiwenbingbushineiyangde。aiyigerennenggou meiliyou，zhikaojuede，keshitaoyanlebixushiyouyuangude。tashuobuyi，taoyan，jinjinyibianjinidesunhaijianshao，jinidexinligengweihaoshouyidianerbale。dangniyuanyiwanliunidenanyouhuoshiniyaoxiameiduanlianqingnenggou fangzhizheizhongnanti，nibixuyaonongqingchushierdenantichuxianzainaer。xiabianrenmenjiuhuizongyixiaxiahaoduogepubianzaochengtichufenshoudeyuangu。

yi、buliangxiguanguoduxianzhu

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?zheiyinantizainanrennvrenshoushangchangyoujianghuichuxian，dannaxiecaisuanshishangshibuliangxiguanni?xiaiyinjiumeiyoucuo，keshimeiridoulanzuiruninaizhishijiu，nijiujueduichengzhiweishibuliangxiguanle;xiaichouyanmeiyoucuo，keshishishikekedouhuixi，neidoushibuliangxiguan;nvhaiyouaimuxurong，dujixinhuoduohuoshaohuiyouyidianer，yidiudiunenggou zuoweigediao。keshiguoduojiumeirenkeyirenshoudele。buliangxiguanzaigangkaishideneishihou，lingyifanghuoshihaixingchengshou，keshisuizhishijiandejishaochengduo，zaihaodexixindoushibeixiaoqianzhengjie，zainageneishihou，lidajiatichufenshouyehenjinle。huoxu，tazongshiduinishuo，dajiayouwenti。

二、要求感过大

 xiangwanhuiaiqingdehuazenmezuo?wojuedemeizijiquanshiyouyaoqiude，keshibuyiyangshuipingdeyaoqiuyehuijirenchanshengbutongdetihui。yaoqiuganguodatongchangzainvshishoushangfanyingdejiaoweiduo。youyuxuduonvshizaichuduixiangyihou，doushijiaoweixiainianzhetadenanyou，henbunengnenggou meishimeikekandaolingyifang，jiarulingyifangyaomangerhushileta，jiuhuizuochumanbujianglidenggerenxingwei。erzaizheiyiquanguochengzhong，nvhaijiuzhanshichule1geshifenmingxiandeyaoqiugan。mingxiandeyaoqiuganzehuijitananyouchanshengshifendadegongzuoyali。zheileiyuanbennenggou wuxuchengdandegongzuoyali，meirennengzhangqiderenshoude。zheizhonggongzuoyalizongshirangdajiaxunsudichaoguoganqingdebuguidian。nanrenyunvrenwojuedeyiyang，yaoqiuganguodaduidajiaeryanyidianeryichuyemeiyou。

三、不重视另一方

 qingganwanhuizenmeban?zaiwoguo，nanshihuoduohuoshaodoushiyoudianerdananzizhuyi，shidangdedananzizhuyinenggou rangnvxingganjuedajiayoulingdaoganbudegongzuonengli，womenzaiyiqihenkekao，keshiguoduodedananzizhuyizhijuedenibingmeiyouzhongshilingyifang。yexugushihou，nvxingbingburongyiyounaxiejianyi。keshirujinshizaidangdai，jiarunvxingganjuewobuzhongshita，neitajiuhuizhao1genengzhongshitaderenle。jiarunvrenzhongshinanshi，doushi1geshifenbijiaoyanzhongdenanti。zhimingganqingzhuanjiakangnacengjingshuoguo“congmingnvrenmingbaiquweihubaoyangzishennanshengdepinpaixingxiang。”yincishuonanshidezizundoushibixuquweihubaoyangde，dangnibukeyibaozhengjichuzhongshi，neimatayeburongyixiangduinizijintourule。zaicijiaowangyezhiyoushixiaoqianzhiqianjidiandeganqingbale。

四、原则性不正确

 shenmejiaoyuanzexingbuzhengque?jiushishuomouxiehuihuaibiaozhun，chuyudaodaodedixiandeshier。meigerenyouguishuyuzishendedaodedixianhebiaozhun，dangnibuzaihudiqubaituo，neimadajiadetichufenshouyejiuzhongjiule，burongzhiyi。neishenmeshierhuichuyudaodaodedixianni?zuixian，waiyu，fouzelingyifangbuaizheni，yaoburanmeirenkeyijienahuanshang。yeyoudajiahuoshibipolingyifangfashengxingguanxi，quanshibuguanbugutarentihuideshier，bingqielingrenjuedezaicizainipangbianhuihenbuanquanxing。manmaqinrenhepenyou、xingshifanzuizheixie，quanshibukeyibeijienade。dangniganlezheizhongshier，buguanbugulingyifangdetihui，neimalingyifangdoumeiyoubixugusuannidetihuile，dajiatichufenshoushibidingde。

 fenshouhou，bubichanlingyifang，zhishixianbatichufenshoudeyuanguzhaochuqu。zhinengzhaodaoyuangu，nenggouxunzhaochulidefangfa。xunzhaonantiyihouyebubiquduobinanti，youyuduobishinanyijiejuezhijieyuanyinde。haohaodizhaoxundajiatichufenshoudeyuanguba，jiaruyuanyiqudechenggongwanhuiganqing，zheidanshishouxian。