fenshouhouzenme wanhui ?qingganwanhuizenmeban?xiangwanhuiaiqingdehuazenmezuo?
xuduorendaofenshoushizuiaishuodetuoci,jiushishuorenmenyouwentile、woduinizaoyimeiganjuele、womamahebababuyuanyizheixie。dankeguanshishishizheimoyangdema?wojuedeniyelejie,haowuyiwenbingbushineiyangde。aiyigerennenggou meiliyou,zhikaojuede,keshitaoyanlebixushiyouyuangude。tashuobuyi,taoyan,jinjinyibianjinidesunhaijianshao,jinidexinligengweihaoshouyidianerbale。dangniyuanyiwanliunidenanyouhuoshiniyaoxiameiduanlianqingnenggou fangzhizheizhongnanti,nibixuyaonongqingchushierdenantichuxianzainaer。xiabianrenmenjiuhuizongyixiaxiahaoduogepubianzaochengtichufenshoudeyuangu。
yi、buliangxiguanguoduxianzhu
fenshouhouzenmewanhui?zheiyinantizainanrennvrenshoushangchangyoujianghuichuxian,dannaxiecaisuanshishangshibuliangxiguanni?xiaiyinjiumeiyoucuo,keshimeiridoulanzuiruninaizhishijiu,nijiujueduichengzhiweishibuliangxiguanle;xiaichouyanmeiyoucuo,keshishishikekedouhuixi,neidoushibuliangxiguan;nvhaiyouaimuxurong,dujixinhuoduohuoshaohuiyouyidianer,yidiudiunenggou zuoweigediao。keshiguoduojiumeirenkeyirenshoudele。buliangxiguanzaigangkaishideneishihou,lingyifanghuoshihaixingchengshou,keshisuizhishijiandejishaochengduo,zaihaodexixindoushibeixiaoqianzhengjie,zainageneishihou,lidajiatichufenshouyehenjinle。huoxu,tazongshiduinishuo,dajiayouwenti。
二、要求感过大
xiangwanhuiaiqingdehuazenmezuo?wojuedemeizijiquanshiyouyaoqiude,keshibuyiyangshuipingdeyaoqiuyehuijirenchanshengbutongdetihui。yaoqiuganguodatongchangzainvshishoushangfanyingdejiaoweiduo。youyuxuduonvshizaichuduixiangyihou,doushijiaoweixiainianzhetadenanyou,henbunengnenggou meishimeikekandaolingyifang,jiarulingyifangyaomangerhushileta,jiuhuizuochumanbujianglidenggerenxingwei。erzaizheiyiquanguochengzhong,nvhaijiuzhanshichule1geshifenmingxiandeyaoqiugan。mingxiandeyaoqiuganzehuijitananyouchanshengshifendadegongzuoyali。zheileiyuanbennenggou wuxuchengdandegongzuoyali,meirennengzhangqiderenshoude。zheizhonggongzuoyalizongshirangdajiaxunsudichaoguoganqingdebuguidian。nanrenyunvrenwojuedeyiyang,yaoqiuganguodaduidajiaeryanyidianeryichuyemeiyou。
三、不重视另一方
qingganwanhuizenmeban?zaiwoguo,nanshihuoduohuoshaodoushiyoudianerdananzizhuyi,shidangdedananzizhuyinenggou rangnvxingganjuedajiayoulingdaoganbudegongzuonengli,womenzaiyiqihenkekao,keshiguoduodedananzizhuyizhijuedenibingmeiyouzhongshilingyifang。yexugushihou,nvxingbingburongyiyounaxiejianyi。keshirujinshizaidangdai,jiarunvxingganjuewobuzhongshita,neitajiuhuizhao1genengzhongshitaderenle。jiarunvrenzhongshinanshi,doushi1geshifenbijiaoyanzhongdenanti。zhimingganqingzhuanjiakangnacengjingshuoguo“congmingnvrenmingbaiquweihubaoyangzishennanshengdepinpaixingxiang。”yincishuonanshidezizundoushibixuquweihubaoyangde,dangnibukeyibaozhengjichuzhongshi,neimatayeburongyixiangduinizijintourule。zaicijiaowangyezhiyoushixiaoqianzhiqianjidiandeganqingbale。
四、原则性不正确
shenmejiaoyuanzexingbuzhengque?jiushishuomouxiehuihuaibiaozhun,chuyudaodaodedixiandeshier。meigerenyouguishuyuzishendedaodedixianhebiaozhun,dangnibuzaihudiqubaituo,neimadajiadetichufenshouyejiuzhongjiule,burongzhiyi。neishenmeshierhuichuyudaodaodedixianni?zuixian,waiyu,fouzelingyifangbuaizheni,yaoburanmeirenkeyijienahuanshang。yeyoudajiahuoshibipolingyifangfashengxingguanxi,quanshibuguanbugutarentihuideshier,bingqielingrenjuedezaicizainipangbianhuihenbuanquanxing。manmaqinrenhepenyou、xingshifanzuizheixie,quanshibukeyibeijienade。dangniganlezheizhongshier,buguanbugulingyifangdetihui,neimalingyifangdoumeiyoubixugusuannidetihuile,dajiatichufenshoushibidingde。
fenshouhou,bubichanlingyifang,zhishixianbatichufenshoudeyuanguzhaochuqu。zhinengzhaodaoyuangu,nenggouxunzhaochulidefangfa。xunzhaonantiyihouyebubiquduobinanti,youyuduobishinanyijiejuezhijieyuanyinde。haohaodizhaoxundajiatichufenshoudeyuanguba,jiaruyuanyiqudechenggongwanhuiganqing,zheidanshishouxian。
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