稳固的婚姻关系是怎么得来的？

 ruhewanhuihunyin?fufuzaiyingduijiaowangdeshirishiyouzhangdeshiguang。ernvxingshishenweiherenwujiaosequyulingyifangyishizhuxingni?gushihouguannianli，nvxingshisanbuchubulaiguimen，hunhoudoushijinjinweiraojiazhongquyishizhuxing。dangdainvshiyinweishehuifazhandefazhan，qishiyeshangsixiangguannianxintaizhuangtaishangmianchuxianletingdadebianhua，jinershinanrennvrendejiaowangchuxianlehuomiao。qingganwanhuizenmeban?

 nanshengzaiyuangushidaijiuzaoshoujiyinyichuanjiyilideweihai，weihuzishendedipan、weihuzishendejiayuan。nanrenzaihunhoujiuhuigangkaishiquweihuzishendejiazhong，nanrennvrenyeyinergangkaishironghe。ernvxingzaizaishenghuoshangshibinanshengzixixuduo，yingduizheiyangdeshiqing，nvxingjiuhuichuziyumuxingdebennengfanying，quzhaoliaonansheng，bianweilenanshengdediergemuqin，manmanzheixieganqingbianweilezhenqing。

 jiaowangquanguochengzhong，nanshengyouzuobutaihaodediqunvxingjiuhuichuquchize，tashihunyinlijiaodadexiongshou。nenggoujiaruozishendenanshengershidouhuibeimamaxunce，yincixiangganjinzhangdaletaochuzheileiziranhuanjing。zhangdahouerlizhinianbeizishenxifuchize，neimananshengjiuburongyitaozouma?

 qingganwanhuizenmeban?yincinvxingjiuyingdangqingxingguolai，gaoqingchuchizelingyifangbingburongyiranglingyifanglejiezishen，zongshitishengxianghudefenqi，ranglingyifanggengweixiangtaochuzishen。xuehaoruheyulingyifanggoutongjiaoliu，genggaixintai，yongtiexinzhenchengdeyudiaoyexunengranglingyifanggengqiangdejienazishendejianyi，shibicidefenqidianjianshao。birudangnanrenyifushangdepeidabutaihao，nenggouwanzhuandeshuo：“neiyangdesecaidapeijianghuitaixuanle，niyaobuyuanshixiayongrubaisedechenyidapei，jianghuihuigengshishangchaoliuxie。”nanshengfanganbeichize，erzheijianshiermingbaiquhuanyudiaobiaoshu，yexufenqijiuburongyineimafeichangrongyizaocheng，rangxianghujiandejiaowanggengweishushi。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?fuqixiangchuzhong，nvxingshiganqingshangbinanrenminganxuduo，danbukeyiyouyuneiyangjiuxuanxiezaizishennanshengshoushang，zhishiyaomingbaibijiaomingandefajuezishennanrenxuyaoshenme，kaolvlingyifangyaoqiu，neiyangnenggourangfufudeguanlianhuodezhangqixingshenxinjiankangfazhanqushi。