如何抓住男人的心？

 ruhewanhuihunyin?jingyinghunyinshizheimenshenaodedaxuewen，zhinengxuehaohaohaodijingyinghunyin，nidehunhoushenghuocaihuixingfukuaile。jiaruzaiyebuhuijingyinghunyin，zongshicouhe、yingshouleshi，neimafuqizhijiandefenqihuibuduanzaocheng，neijiazhongyizhimimanzhezheizhongfumianxinxidexintai，zhangciyiwang，dajiajiuburongyizaixiangjiale，rendoumeiyoule，jiashikongde，neimadajiadehunyinyoumeiyoushenmeshijiyiyini?zuihouzongshitaruliyidelumian。neima，renmenyingdangruheyunyingzishendehunyinni?qingganwanhuizenmeban?

一、夫妻之间多一点交流与沟通

 qingganwanhuizenmeban?duoyidiangoutongjiaoliushiweichihunyindefeichangjiandaneryoudebanfa，dangnipengdaoshierbugenlingyifangshangyi，zhimibuwu，neimanizaigentoudejiyuyueduoda，bingqiehuiranglingyifangganjuewobuzhongshita。jiaruliangrenqianquegoutongjiaoliu，neimajiufeichangrongyizaochengcaiji，caijiruguozaocheng，neimaliangrendelianqingshichuangjianqilaidexinlaijiuhuiqingketanta，zheiyineishihou，dajiahunyinjiuhuizaoyuweiji。yinci，xuehaogenlingyifangduoduodegoutongjiaoliu，zhinengneiyang，nenggourangdajiaduilingyifangdexinlaiganyulaiyuqiang，dajiadeguanlianyehuiyulaiyulaogu。

二、不必让衣食住行太枯燥乏味

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?fuqizhijianjiaowangdeyuejiu，shenmiganjiuhuizhujianxiaotui，zheiyineishihou，ninengjuedefangfomeiyouneimaailingyifangle。wojuedezheiyouyudajiadeyishizhuxingtaikuzaofaweile。yinci，jibianjiaowanglehaozhangshijian，huanshinenggou duoyidiangenlingyifangchulaiyouhuidujialvyou，duoyidianshizhemouxiexindewupin，rangzheizhongyouyisideshitianbudajiazhongjianyouyujiaowangshijianzhangzaochengqueshaodeshenmigan。zhinengrangyishizhuxingduocaiqilai，nenggouhelidiweidajiadeganqinglengzang。

三、创建好奖惩体制

 ruhewanhuihunyin?zaijingyinghunyinrichangshenghuoyaochuangjianjiangfatizhi，danglingyifangzaihunyinlibianchuxianbuzhengqueshi，nenghelidichufa，ranglingyifangguanniandaobuzhengque，fangzhichuxianleisinantizaichuxian。rutongganqingzhuanjiakangnashuode：“jianchibuxiezishendebiaozhun，lianqingzhonglingyifangfancuowudeneishihoubixuyaojitamenxiangduidechufa，yaoburanlingyifanghuihelixingzishendebuzhengquebingchixuqinhainidebiaozhun。zhangjiuyiwang，lingyifanghuibuzhongshibuxinlaini。”yinci，zuobuduihaiyaochufa，zuomeicuojiujiyujiangshang，1gequdechenggongdejiangchengtizhi，zaijingyinghunyinlinenggou qihenhelidegongxiao。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?zaihunhoushenghuozhong，yaoxuehaoweichifuqiguanxi，diaojiefufuliangrendejiaowangfangshi，xinlailingyifang，xuehaodanfuqihunyinzhongdeyiwu，jilingyifangjiezhu，zaipingshishengchanzhizaodianlanman，zhongxindianrandajiahunhoushenghuozhongreqing。wanhunrutongzhongxialeyizhuxiaoshu，zhiyaonirenzhenjiaoguan，tanenggouchengcaiweicantiandashu。