ruhewanhuihunyin?wanliulaogongbingbushizongronglingyifangwulun,lingyifangjiubidinghuihouhuimoji,xiangyaofanhuizishendeshenpang。yebingbushishuoyunyongshenpangderenduiqishiyajiunengtahuilaolaoshishijiufan,zhongguihunyin。yixielaopoyouyuduilaogongdebuzuzhangwo,zaiwanliudequanguochengzhongfanlemouxiebuyaofandebuzhengque,chanshenglezaicisunhai,zuihoudewanliuxiachangbujinrurenyi。wanliuzhiluluyituozaituozoubushangzhongdianzhan,daodilaopofanleshenmeguoshini?qingganwanhuizenmeban?
一、挽救婚姻之最愚昧的沟通交流方法——冷暴力
ganqingzhuanjiashuoguo,wanhuiganqingshizuiguanjianyinsu,wojuedezhineng1ge,xianliao。zuikaishilianqingshiyouyuliaodaolai,zuihoufenshoushiyouyuliaobushangyikuaier,erzuizhongwanliuqudechenggongqueyouyouyuliaodaolai。
fufuzhangqixingmeihua,jiuhuichanshengxintaiwenti,xianghudejiaoliuzhangaiheduihenduoshierdekanfabianhuahenda,erlingyifangchanshenggenggaidanduifanghaiyaoyuandipaobu,neibianchanshengshuobailede“nibuxingwodebufa,niwozhijianshiqujunheng”。
bingdongsanchi,feiyirizhihan。ruguoniguanniandaodehunyinchuxiannantishi,wojuedezaoyibingbushiyitianliangtiandaozhidele,jiarutiaoxuanzaicilengbaolixialai,bubafenqideguanjianzhaochuqu,zongshibadajiadejianjuyuelaiyueyuan,zuizhongniangchuliyidebuxing。yiner,zuixianyaorenkedajiazhongjiancunyoudefenqi,suihouzhaodaoyuangu,yongxixinchuansongchengxin,zhongxinqidonggoutongjiaoliuhehuihua,xuehaoqingting。
biru,dangbicizailengbaolijiaozheqingkuangdeneishihou,ninengbofamouxiewenhedegequ,suihouyongpingjingdeyudiaogenlingyifangshuo:“qinaidede,laipeizhewoyongxintinggequhaome?”dangtaxiangyaozuozhelaideneishihou,“renmenliaoliaoba,wohenaini。”ganqingzhuanjiakangnalaoxianshengshuoguo,zailianqingzhong,nvxingshibixubeizhengqueyindaode,nanshengyingdangzaihunyinzhongyejuyou1gelingzhelingyifangdegongxiao。
fenshouhouzenmewanhui?xuehaoqingting,tingtashuohua,bubijitiyi,wennibixunaxie,erbingbushijiaohuitaruhezuo,nanshengquanshiaimianzide。dangqingtinglelingyifangdeniantouhou,yichengxiangdaidegaosutalingyifangnideniantou,qingqingchuchudigoutongjiaoliu,qiewuyingyong“xintaizhanshu”,ranglingyifangcaishizuiyumeidefangshi 。biru,zaitagennibiaoshuzishendeniantouhou,niyingdangtanbainideyaoqiu,niqipanbeiai。
zuiyouxiaogoutongshiganqingdehuxiangjieshou,buqujueyushuodeshisha。goutongjiaoliudeshijixiaoguobuqujueyujiangguoduozhangshijian,erqujueyulingyifangduirenmenshuodehuashibushihelidedafu。kanjianlingyifangshuohua,yongyanshenjiaoliu。suihouzhenduisuotingjian、guanchadaode,jiyushiduerjianjiemingledefanying,biru:“yuanlaizheiban……”“shi……”jiqidoutou,ranglingyifanglejieniyizhizaiting,yehuiranglingyifangtihuidaobeizhongshi。
二、挽留老公的全过程中将会易犯的过失
mohubuqingshilideyoukuyounao。yingduichuguinanren,tebieshizaishizheixiexingzishouhuanyingdelaopo,zaifajueyiqiannagezishihenlaoshibajiaolaogongjuranganlepanbiancishi,mengrannuhuochongtian,changchanghuichezhumouyijianshijielidalilaiyoukuyounao,ermeiyicidachaodanaozhihou,nanshengyijiuwaiyu,pinciduole,shijianzhangle,nanshenghaihuiyi“ganqingpolie”weiyou,zainidetoudingmomingqimiaokouqilaiyigemoxuyoude“zheyangmao”。daoneishihou,niminglejietawaiyuyouwuzaixian,quemeifaboquzhoubianrendelianmin,hailuoxialai1ge“hanfu”dezuixing。
fenshouhouzenmewanhui?xiangbicilaorenmen“kongsu”。yeyouderendaoyikuernaosandiaosidoumeifadadongzhangfuhehaoruchuyihou,jiuhuijiangzhangfuchuguidezuixinggaosutaguojiazhengfu、popobabamama、jiedi,xiangdedaozheizhonglaorenmendexiezhu,qidaitamenlaiquandaolaogonghuiguo。kezheileijiduyinsideshieryaoshizailaorenmenzhongjianchuanchuhou,yidinghuishengcheng“dajiazuzhanshi”。henxianzhu,guojiazhengfuyupopozaiduidaichuguinanrenzhizhonghaowuyiwenhuichanshengmaodun,jiusuantamendouhenliangzhi,danquanjiedehuajiaofayedabuyiyang,kezainanshenglaikan,bazishendeyinsibaohugongbule,shuobailedezizun、mianbudoubeisidiaole,tamenjiuhuigengweimingmuzhangdandequzhaoqingrenfalaosaoqu,zailaorenmenyizhengpian“wenhuajiaoyu”shengzhongbaochichenmo,dengshengxiangyiguo,haihuidaohuilaifanyaoniyidakou。
duidisanzheershiyi“taotianzuixing”。yixielaopozaifajuelaogongchuguile,jiuhuitoutoudizhaoxunyanzangzaizhangfushenhoude“nvxing”,suihouzaimotoutadexingji,zhaoxunjihuiyudisanzheerhudui,youdenaizhihaihuisuishenxiedaiqidagu、bayimabaotiaoruleideqianquxiaojichunao。nenggouhaowuyiwen,disanzhehuizaizheiyineishihoufangdefeichangrouruo,tabidinghuibaozhengmabuhaikou、dabuhaiji,jinizhangfujiandaotabeinidudadeqingkuang,jiqinizhangfudeweihuchongdong,suihouzaichizenidezheileihanfugerenxingwei。guohou,nizhangfuhuilikebangtabanxinjia,huanyigediquzangqilai,neishihounibudanzhaobuzhedisanzheer,yexulianzhangfudouzhaobuzhe。
三、根据提高诱惑力的方式 真实挽留老公的心里
qingganwanhuizenmeban?huixiangdangnian,dajiayouyuxianghuxianghuzhijianxiyinzhuerlaidaoyikuaier。xianrujinlaogongdegongzuonenglihuodeletigao,taduilaopodeguidingyehuijinertigao。qingganshiweichidajialianggerendeguanjianlianxinqiao,danglaopoquefayouhuolidabushangtadeguiding,daidaotachedisangshijuedeshi,neimahunyinhuihuashangxiuzhidebiaoji,yibianwanjiuhunyin,nideranglaogongzaidubeinixiyinzhu,rongguanghuanfachuguishuyunideyuzhongbutongfengcai。
zhongshiwaiguanshejiweichigaokuanbideyouhuoli。kangnacengjingjiangguo:“nvxingtigaoyouhuolidefangfafeichangjiandan。bazishenchuanzhedabandehaokanyidianer、jirendejuedebusuiyi、tishengnanshengtiaozhanyu、jinanshengchengxianzishendeshineikongjian。yaoshineiyangzuo,shenpangjueduibuwunanshengzhuiqiuwanmei。”suiranhunhou,lianggerendeguanlianzaoyisuanzuozhenshidejianlile,huiyiyixiaxia,laogongzaibaomingcanjiaqiyechangsuodeneishihou,zainenggoudaishangqinshudeqiantitiaojianwaiyoutiaoxuanpeinichumenma?wojuedejiushinide“jiatingfunv”pinpaixingxiangzaochengtameifapeinicanjiahuodong。
haodewaiguanshejihuijirengaokaojiafenxuduo,laopozaiyingshoujiazhongdeyiqi,yebukeyiwangdiaoduizishendedaban。chuanzhedabanshangshunconglaogongdepinwei,danglaogongxiangyaodailaopobaomingcanjiachangsuozhutihuodongdeneishihou,nijiuzhengshitarenkelelaopo,ganjuedailaopochumenshizheijianwushangguangrongdeshier,keyikanqilaizishenhenyouqingmian。
zuoyiweiguanaitiexindelaopo。laogongyibianrichangshenghuodexingfuhenmailipinbo,bingbushiyiweizhetazaigongzuozhongdequanguochengzhongmeiyoupengdaoguocuobai,nanshengyaohaodexingqingzhongjiutayaomomodichengdanzheirenhe。zuoweilaopo,keyizixidifajuelaogonghepingchangyoubuyiyangdezhuyaobiaoxian,fajuetahaoxiangyouxinsixiangtong。fajuebudangzhichu,laopojiugaijijichongfenfahuiliangmudegongxiao,genjuguanxintitielaogong,qingchutadeyoulv。bingbushilingtingtaxinlidehenman,dangtajiangchuxinlidedashi,huodeleqinggandefaxie,qingkuanghuijinerzhuanhao。yeduilaopojuedebiaoshimanyi。
ruhewanhuihunyin?tigaoziwojiazhijingengousi。fuqijiandegongtongfendoushifenguanjian,bingbushishuolaogongtigaolexuduo,laopotigaolefeichangshao,lianggerendetigaomeiyou1gehelidetongbu。lianggerenzhongjiandechabiehuiyuelaiyueda,goutongjiaoliushangfeichangrongyihuizaochenglaogongganjuelaopodejianjiehaiziqidengzhuangkuang,yufaranglaogongduilaopojuedexinhan。laopoyingdangyaozhuisuilaogongtigaodebufa,hetachaoguoleisidecengjishuizhun,neiyangzuonenggouranglaopogengdonglaogong,keyiyulaogongliaodaolai,chanshengleyouliangdejiatinghuanjing。
ruhewanhuihunyin?jiaruzaiwanliuzhongtufancuowudehua,meibanfawanliuqudechenggongde,zongshituzenglaogongdichu。danruguoyigenvrenjiarukeyiyouzhegaokuanbideyouhuoli,zheileiyouhuolironghelebenrendewaizaimeiheneizaimei,neimazaiwanliudeneishihounenggoutigaotaduizishenderenzhidu。cikedeni,shi1gechusedenvxing,shitaxiwangzhongdelianren,neiyangzuosuanshiqiadangdewanliufangshi 。
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