新婚夫妇不得不注意的事

 ruhewanhuihunyin?conggangkaishideqinpeilihun，zhujiandaobushanyanci，meishierzhengchaodeng。qinshenjinglilemeiduanjiaowangquanguochenghou，fuqijianfeichangrongyiyouyuqingganwentibaofachuzhuduoweixiandeguanxishujuxinhao。dangnantijianjiandijidian，laogongdexinhuimanmandedujuelaopo，youyuquanbudekunaodoulaiyuanyuyujiazhong，jiazhongduitalaijiangjiushishuo1gejingjichang，tahaowuyiwenhuichongjing1geqingjingdediquxunzhaoshufudejuede。renpingshitaiyanzhongxialai，dangshidebaitoudaolaozhikeyibianweiyiwang。laopoyuanyijixubaochilihun，jiuyingdanglejiezenyangwanliulaogongdexin。qingganwanhuizenmeban?

一、夫妇完婚没多久就闹着离婚了，缘故是啥?

 youxuduojiehunfufuyincizaiwanhuntouniandeneishihoujiugangkaishibuduanchanshengmaodunxiangliyi，weishenmedangshilianggerenmanhuaihelingyifangguoyishengdemingxianxiwangqueaobuzhu1nian，jiatinghunyinjiuliekaile?tounianyincishijiehundemohe，baohanleliangxingge、shenghuofangshishangzaochenglemaodun。jinguanzheizhongdoubingbushifanleyuanzexingdenanti，danlianggerenruochangchangyouyuzheizhongsuoshierzhengchao，neimazheixieqingganyejianghuijingbuzhumolian。nilejieyoushenmegerenxingweizaochengledajiadefuqiganqingpoliema?

 duilihundeqidaizhiguogao。zaijiehunqianyourenmendoushilihunguodulixinghua，duijiehunhoudeyishizhuxingzaochengdeqidaiganguogao，barichangshenghuoxiangxiangdehenxingfu，hushilejutiherichangshenghuodeyangzi。ruguojieguoburuqiwangzhideneishihou，xintaizhuangtaijiuhuizaochengcuobaigan。dangzhangqixingchuzaimishideqingkuangxia，jiuhuizaochengxuduodemaiyuan，qidaigenjugeshigeyangdefangshi，lairanglingyifangchaoguozishendeyugu。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?liruzaijiehunqiantahuanxiangshijiezhemeirixiabanlenenggou fanhui1gezhengjieqizhengdejiazhong，laopoduanshangrehuhumeiweidefanshi，zaiyiqilaikanchangyingpian。ershijishangxinhunrenqifanmanglemeitian，fanhuijiazhongjinjinsuiyinongmouxiefeichangjiandandefanshichilejiuxianghaohaodixiexiyixiaxia，qidailaogongnenggou bangzhuhuanjiejiawuhuobangtuinayixiaxiaxiaochupilao。jieguolianggerendouxinhuaibuman，chizezhelingyifangbenzhibumingbaiguanzhuzishen。

 jiehunhouquanbudequexiandoupuluchuqu。zaichuduixiangdeneishihou，lianggerendoufeijinxinjichengxian youshilaijizijigaokaojiafen。erzaijiehunhou，tongzaiyiqi，quanbudequexiandoupuluchuqu，zanjichulaidechengjibuduanzaikoufen。kenenghuidaozhilingyifangzaochengzheizhongniantou：ruheniyeshineimecaogaode?

 pubiandejiushishuolaogongmeiyicishangweishengjiandeneishihoudoubazuobianqigaozang，laopomeiyicidouchibuxiao，wulunzenyangmayewufagaibianlaogonghenduonianlaidexiguanxing。zhiqianmeiyicipengmiandeneishihoulaogongdouganjuelaoposhi1gexiaogongju，jiehunhoumeiriluozhuangxiangduixingcaifajueyuanxianlaopoyezhiyoushiyilianbanderenlaozhuhuang，zhiqiantiexindazhi，rujinmeitiandoubajiazhongdaxiaoshizhuayibinglaixiazheteng。

二、挽留老公该做的几件事

 gaoqingchuzishenqingganjiandejibenmaodun。yixienvxingxinfutaigao，bumingbaidairenjiewu，yincihuiyoupoxizhijianhebulaidezhuangkuang。youxierenzezaiqingganlibiannuliguoshao，yixindirangzhangfunuli，erqieyongbumanzu，nanshengdoushigongzuoyalizhongzhongde。yeyoumouxieshiyitiandaowanxihuanwanbuyaojia，chedimeiyoujindaolihunqingkuang。yeyouxingqingtaiqianghan，conglaibujinanshengqingmiande，huoshibukeyijiyunanshengxinshenshangtuotiezhaoliaode，zheixiezheileide。wojuedediyiduanqingganfenqidouxuduo，yiqiemeiduanjizhiguanlianquanshiyaochixuxiufu，lianggerenxianghuchengcai。

 jingzhundingweizishenderenwujiaosepinpaixingxiang：xianshu，wenrou。zourulihundeliangrenwojuedebuguannanrennvren，yingfudeyiwuhejiaowangfangfaquanshiyaojinerbianhuade。liru，nvshengbianchenglebierendexifu，neimenijiubukeyiyonglianqingshineileiwujuwushu，wufawutiandexintailaikandainidelihun。renmenchangchangyaoshuomouyinanshengjianzhihaofuqi，qulemoumoumouyouxianshuyouwenrou，kandejian，zaizhangqidehunhoushenghuoli，muyechashidenvxingzongshibananshengyinxiangqitanvxing。

 ruhewanhuihunyin?“yanyilvji，kuanyudaita”。zheierchangshuode“yanyilvji”，bingfeijinimeiriyishizhuxingdeshizaitairenzhenxizhi，caomujiebing。zhishinizaizishenderongyan，fuzhuang，yanxingjuzhi，shuohuadengcengmianguidingyankeyidianer。bubisuizhishijiandebianhua，huoshiyishizhuxingburuyi，jiufangxialeduibenshendeguiding，yiqieyigenvhai，yaoshijingjingdezhushijiandepiaoxi，aiganjingzhengjie，qinchuanzhedaban，buyuandui，shaozaihu，duoshanyan......nidemeili，huichendingdeyulaiyuchunzheng。

三、在离婚里不必惦记着去更改另一方

 rujinxuduodejiazhonglijingzhangqidejiaowangdouhuichuxianneiyanghuoshidenanti，xuduorenyaozixunweishalianqingqineienaiyoujia，shixianghuweiyishizhuxingdesuoyou，zaiwanhunyihouhaoxiangzheizhongdahuoerdouwangquele，shengyudedaliangshizhengzhishibaoyuan，shixianghudoufashengbianhuahuanshiliangrenqueshirutongjuededeneiban，liangrenyouwenti，yincixuduorenzanlihunlijiuyizhidianjizhequgenggailingyifang，danshiruguonineiyangquzuodeneishihou，budebuchengrenlingyifangbudanmeiyoubeigenggaifandaolizishenyuezouyueyuanle，youyuruguonidianjizheyaoqugenggaigududeshihouniduitadeguidingyehuihenduo，danglingyifangdabushangnideqidaideneishihounidemaiyuanjiuhuihenduo，dajiadeqingganyehuisuizhemingan。yiner，zailihunlibubidianjizhequgenggailingyifang，zhishiyaoxuehaohelingyifangjiaowang。

 qingganwanhuizenmeban?xianghulijie，gongtongfendou。xuduodefufuzaiwanhunyihouhaoxiangdoushishuoworenweilingyifanghezhiqianbutongle，zhiqianlingyifangbadangzuozishenderenhe，zhiqianlingyifangyizhihenzaiyi，danshifangfozaijielehunzhihou，lingyifangfangfoduizishenquandoubuzaiyile，lihunhoujuedenaxiequanshizishenzijiqukang，xuduorenyaoshuoyanfanhunhoushenghuo。danshiyishizhuxingbingbushitashuoyaoguohaotajiunenggou hongyundangtouxingfukuailedeguoxialai，hunhoushenghuobixuliangrendeqinfen。zairujindabufenrende1gehunhoushenghuozhongdoushicunyouneiyangde1gezhuangkuang，ruguoshuoyishizhuxinglizhinenglingyifangzaiqinfenzaigenggai，danshiyincineiyangdelihunshifeichangmingande，zhinenglingyifangdeqinfen，jianjiandidejiuhuijuededaoleiheyanfan。ruguoniquguidinglingyifangnulideneishihou，neimawoyehuibianchengtayanlidemanbujiangli，neimawoyehuiganjuezishendeyishizhuxingguodehenbiequ，zailihunzhongshibixuliangrendegongtongfendouqudidayigeliangrennenggoujienadelinjiedian，zainibixuwodeneishihouwobangniyixiaxia，zaiwoxuyaonideneishihounihaikeyilawoyibingsuanshifuqixiangchuzhidao。

 zaojiuyishizhuxingdegongtongxing。xuduorendaojiehunhouzhongxindianchanshenglegenggai，zhiqianlianggerenpaiyipaituo，guangyiguangshengtaigongyuanyinciliangrenyiqihuihenqingqingsongsong，keshizaijiehunhoudeshenghuoyibushizhinengliangren，yishizhuxinglijiashangle2gejiazhong，yeyouyouyanjiangcu，banidaliangdezhongxindianfangdaoyishizhuxinglingsuideshiershang，erhushileliangrendeyishizhuxing，liangrendejibenjianshe，yinerzaijiehunhouliangrendegongtongxingshihenguanjiande，dajianenggou zhunshiquzuomouxiedajiazhiqianlianqingdeneishihouzuoguodeshier，qusuzaodajiazhongjiandegongtongxing，neiyangnenggoujinidelihuntishengcijiheshenmigan。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?fuqijianhaowuyiwenhuiyoumeiduanmohe，lianqingdeneishihoubicisuozhanxianjilingyifangdejuedaduoshuquanshiyoushi，zhizhiyouzaizhenshijiaowangquanguochengzhong，xianghujiandeshenghuofangshi、benrenaihaodengcaihuizhenshichengxianchuqu，zheizhongquanshibixurenherenzhijiandehuxiangguanzhe。erlaopojiarujinjinyixindimaiyuan、huoshiyixindiyuanyigenggailingyifang，guzhiyumouxielingsandesuoshishang，tiaoxuanyulaogongzhengchao，haowuyiwenshizaiganzoulaogong，neiyangdejiazhongbenzhisuanbushangxingfukuaile。wanliulaogongxiangyaoniconglidaowaidegenggai，bashenhuisedelihunzhanranyanlidewuyanliuse。