怎么挽回想离婚的男人？

 ruhewanhuihunyin?danglaopotingjianlelaogongmingquetichuliyideneiyike，huishinaxiedetihui。jianghuidouzaoyitarudaolaonianfuqidehuanjie，xiaopengyouyedongshile，ciketaweiheyeyaomingquetichuliyi，nandaoshuojiumeiyouzaiyiguoxiaohaizidetihuima?hunyindepojiubingbushimashangbaofade，jianghuifuqijianzaoyiyongyouxuduodenanti，zaojiuzhongxialehuohuan。suihoutajuedeneishihoulaidaojiutiaoxuanleyulaopohepingfenshou。keshi，dangnibingbuyuanyutaguanlianpolie，yingruhewanliulingyifangni?qingganwanhuizenmeban?

一、当婚姻出現了危機，怎样把风险化作机遇

 weijishuobaileyoufengxianyouhaiyoujihui，dandangmeiduanhunyinzhongchuxianleguanlianliekai，xuduorenpangguanzheqingzhijiandaolefengxian，quebumingbaibawojihuibangzheixieguanlianzhuanweiweian。suyushuo“bingdongsanchifeiyirizhihan”，ruguonidelaogongyaopeinimingquetichuliyideneishihou，dajiadehunyinzaojiuchuxianlenanti，yizaoyizhongxialehenduodeanquanyinhuan，nilejienikeyiruhezuonenggoubawozhuweiji，bafengxianhuazuojiyuma?

 lejieliekaideqingkuang，zhaodaotamingquetichulihunyuanyin。yaowanhuihunyinyiqian，nizuixianyaojienatayaopeiniliyidekeguanshishi，dangnimeifalejiedajiarujinliekaideqingkuang，nijiangshenxianshifentongchudehuanjie，erqieduiwanliuchedimeiyouyidianerdexiezhu，fandaobianchengwanliudeqiaomenzhuan。lirunimeifajienatajiangyaoyaolikainideyishizhuxing，nibuganzheixiehunyinjiucijieshu，nideyaoqiuhuibuduantisheng，buduanzuomouxiebulixingdegerenxingweiyuanyilingyifangjininhaodedafu。ershijishang，gaoyaoqiugandegerenxingweizongshibadajiadeguanlianfazhanqushidaogengjiang，batabazerentuixiedehenyuan。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?nizhengquerenshixiankuangyihou，nibixuzuodeshierjiushishuozhaodaotaxiangnimingquetichulihunyuanyin。pubiandelihunyuanyinyou：laopojiajugongzuonenglibugou，bumingbaijiejuejiawuhuojiatinggongzuogongzuorenyuandeguanlian;qianghan，bumingbaiweihubaoyangnanshengdexurongxin;manbujiangli，changchangzhizaomaodun;heyixingpengyouchupengguoduo，youwaiyudefengxianxingzheixie。nikeyizhaodaozaochengdajiaguanlianliekaideyuangu，tazenmehuiganjuepeinideshirihuodehaolei，jinishenmegerenxingweizuodebugou?bubizuochufuwuchengnuo，jingjingdigenggai，gaizhengcuowudegerenxingwei。

 zongtiguihua，tishengziji。ruguonizhaodaoletaxiangnimingquetichulihunyuanyin，nizaicisikaorujindeguanlianpeinizishendenantiyihou，ninengchuxianzheizhong“neiyouwaihuan”dejuede。huikanqingdajiarujindejiatinghunyinshifencaogaodeyiqi，chajueyouxuduodequexian，zaochenglaogongcongduinixinhandaoshiluo，duinidezijintouruyuelaiyuedi，naizhichuxianlezhongzhizijintouru，conghentianmeideguanlianyanhuadaofufutongchuangyimengdechengdu。yinciwanliuyiqian，nikeyigaohaozongtiguihua，liru：badajiadeguanlianjiangxueya——helixingnibuzhengquedegerenxingwei——jiejuemaodun——jiejuekunnan——zaixianchuangjianjiaowangfangshi。suoyourenderenzhuangkuangdoubutong，wanliudezongtiguihuadoubutongde，wanliudefangshi congbuhuiyichengbubian。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?zaizhixingwanliudequanguochengzhong，yeyouzhangqixingguanlianjiaowangzhong，tishengzijijiushiniyishengbixuzuodekecheng。fuqiguanxiliekaideyuangulaizinidebugou，bulunshinidewaizaihebenzhi，bixuduofangweitigaozishen。baohanwaiguanshejigengxingaizao、benzhigengxingaizaoshenghuojiegou。lirubazishenchuanzhedabandegengnianqingmaomei、yundongjianshen、yuedushuji、kuozhangzishendeyishizhuxingshejiaoquan、bajiazhuangshishejidegengweiwennuanzheixie。

二、感情专家谈产生离异危機咋办

 hunyinzaishijiandejianghezhong，yidinghuijianjiandixiaoqiandiaoliangrendereqinghelianai。danghunyinchuxianweijideneishihou，nishibushifeijinxinjiyuanyiwanjiuhunyin?bubixianggewuguanwenchongluancuan，laiyongxintinglianaizhuanjiadeyijianyujianyi：

 qingganwanhuizenmeban?bubiguoduqingxubuwending。ganqingzhuanjiakangnashuo，danghunyinchuxianweijideneishihou，zuixianbixuyaocaozonghaozishendexintai，renqingweijizaochengdedajili，fangzhijiduanhuaxintaihepianjigerenxingweidezaocheng。richangshenghuozhong，xuduoderendaohunyinchuxianweijideneishihou，buqingchuzishengairuheban，zhixiangbamanhuaiyuanqifaxiechuqu，yincidongxiangxianghudepenyoubaoyuansuku，qulingyifangqiyemanhengwulizheixie。zheizhongzuofaquanshibukeyongde，budanbulinantidechulide，fandaohuibaduifangyuetuiyuelaiyueyuan。yinci，jinji，fangzhiqingxubuwending，buxubicifenqishenhuaweifeng!

 fangzhilengbaoli。xuduofufurenweihunyinchuxiannantideneishihou，dahuoerxianfenlilizhiyixiaxiahuigengqiang，keyixiangqingxixianghudenantichuxianzainaer，younengfanyingzishenbaorongdaqi。wojuedetashizheizhongxiaochendefangshi ，suyushuo“fufuwoshichuangdajiadououchuangjiaohe”，fuqizhijiandeqinmiwujianshizuifeichangdejiaowangfangfa，jiarudajiacaiyonglengbaoli，zongshijiajuweiji，suozaochengdepohuailiyincibizhengzhihaida，duilaopoeryan，guoshanghaorizilemeiyoulaogongdeshiri，fangfomeiyoulaogongbiyoulaogongzaishenpanggengqingqingsongsong，neixinhuiyouzhongshiluoxiaoji，wojuedeshijianyizhangtahaihuiyuanyiwanliulaogong，keshiduanqineineitabeizheileijuedesuomihuo。erlaogongneiyimianyefeichangrongyijibierencuowujihui，yincihuanshiyaoqinfenkaizhanlianggerendegoutongjiaoliuhuihua，fangzhilengbaoli。

 kaizhanhunyinpingding。kangnajiaoshishuo，hunyinpoliezaochenghou，pingjingxialai，lixingduicicideweijizuochupingding，bubiyouyuduociweijijiusuibiandefoudingdiaozishendehunyin。niqidaihunyinlaidaonaxiedechengdu?zheiyinantihenguanjian，bujinjinjianyidewenyiwen，zhishifufubicidouyingdangyaoyoutongyangdezongtimubiao。dangweijichuxianshi，nizishenyaolejiedajiarujindehunyinqingkuangdenaxiemoyangde，duihunyinkaizhanpingding，xiangzhexianghudeshenghuofangshi，gerenaihao，xingqingqiehedu，xiaohaizheixie，zaikaolvdaoshibushizuigailiyi。

 xianghulijie。kangnajiaoshishuo，zaimeiduanhunyinzhong，fufulianggerendesisuofangfa，yishizhuxingshengzhangxixing，baohanjiazhiquxiangyinweifenbiedeliangxingrenwujiaosedexianzhihechengcaibeijingtuqinshenjinglibuyiyang，shimeibanfachaoguoxiangtongde，zheiyejiushishuohunyinzhongmouxienantifeichangrongyichanshengmaodun，shijianyizhangbianweiweijideyuangu。yinci，shizhelizailingyifangdeshijiaoqukankannanti，xiangzhehuanweiniyizhizaineileibiaozhunxia，nihuizenmezuo，youmuyougengqiangdejiejuefangan。xuehaoqianjiulejie，wanjiuhunyinyefeichangrongyideduole。

三、探讨幸福婚姻的必需要素

 zaidangdaihunlianjiaoyouzhong，jinguanyixiefufukanshangqushifenbanpei，tamennancainvmao、jiatingqingkuanghewenpingdoufeichang，zhoubianderendoujuedetamendehunhoushenghuohaowuyiwenhuihemuxingfukuaile，keshishirenchengmujieshedeshitamenjuranlilehun，yuangushisanguanbuhe。wojuede，sanguanbuhejinjintamenliyideyuanyinbale，jingyinghunyinbixufufubicixianghunuli，eryixieyaosushixingfuhunyinbukehuoquede，yuanyihunyinzhangjiuxingfukuaile，nibixumingbaizheizhong。

 mingbaikaolvlingyifangdeyaoqiu。weiheyixiefufuchangchangzhengchao，laopohuimaiyuanlaogongjihudoubuqingchutayuanyinaxie，erlaogonghuichizelaopoyizhimanbujiangli、decunjinchi，wojuededaozhineiyangdejushiyouyufuqijianmeiyoukaolvlingyifangdeyaoqiu，biruzaihunyinzhongnanshengdeyaoqiushixinlai、jiena、ganxie、zanyang、rentong，ernvxingdeyaoqiu：zhongshi、guanzhu、lejie、tiexin，fuqijianyaoduoguanzhulingyifang，zhangwolingyifangdeniantou，jiyulingyifangzhenshiyuanyide，hunyinnenggougengpingwen。

 ruhewanhuihunyin?xianghudounengchangshuangliaotian。zaihunyinzhong，yixiefufudangyouniantoudeneishihouquelinyugenlingyifangshuo，palingyifangduizishenyouqitaguandianhuowuhui，jineryayiganzishendeqingtuyu，neiyangshibulihunyinweichide。youxierenguo：haodehunyinjiushishuoxianghudounengzailingyifangyanqianchangshuangliaotian，xianghudoulejiezishenshibeilingyifangsuojieshoude，erwuxudanyoulingyifanghuiwujiezishen。tashihunyinzhongzuihemudeqingkuang，fuqijiandoushilingyifangjizijihaopengyou，xianghujiaowangshishufuzidede。

 xianghuxieshoubingjiangongtongjinbu。dangdaihunyinquanshichangkaishide，hunhoudeyouhuonaizhibijiehunqianyeyaoduo。erbuguannanrennvren，jiaruniyizhizaihunyinlimeiyouyouhuanyishi，shifangyaliduizishendeguanlifangfa，erlingyifangsuizhinianjidetigao，yanjiehuihenduo，yehuiyulaiyuchengshuqiyoufengcai，shenpangdeyinyoujiuhuihenduo，ruguoniluowuairenguoduodeneishihou，nideairenjiuhuiganjuedajiazhongjianmeiyougongtonghuati，hunwailianyeruqierzhi。xingfuhunyinbixufufuxianghuxieshoubingjiangongtongfendouchengcai，yikuaierlizaixiangtonggaokuanbi，jiandaoyiyangdejingse。

 ruhewanhuihunyin?congbierendeshijiaoshangkan，meiyounantidehunyindaziranburongyilaidaoliyidechujing，daziranshihunyinzhizhongdenantiweihailejiazhongdebuju，ranglaogongdexinligangkaishiduihunyinzaochengxinhandexintai。bukezhifoutaqueshixianghelaopoliyi。zheishilaopodeyiyanyixingdoushiweihaizhelaogongxinlidezhuanbian，sheqiqingxubuwendingdekangzheng，zhaodaodajiazhongjiandenanti，xianjieduanzuiyingdangchulideqingkuang，caikeshiniyulaogongdeguanlianyouzaishengdezhuangkuang。