如何维护自己的婚姻？

 ruhewanhuihunyin?lihunyoushizhizhongdouburongyishihongyundangtoude，zheiyidianerbixujilao。jiusuanshizheixiezaoyilaidaorenshengjintoudetoufabianbaifufumen，yiqianjiaowangdeshiguanglihaowuyiwenyeshiqinshenjingliguokankankeke，zhiyoutamenmingbaicaokongzhumingjiaoganqingdechuanbo，nengjianchibuxiezaidafengdalanglimianweichizhebuhuigaibiandechuhangyundongguiji，zhaobudaodidangbuzhudezuzhinengzugeliangrendeqinggan。qingganwanhuizenmeban?

一、在离婚里怎样降低离异的概率

 nikeyixuehaoqiadangdequweihubaoyangzishendelihunnenggoushiliangrendelihunpingwen。erbingbushishuoquguidinglingyifanggenggaibianweizuixihuandenixiangxiangdemoyangjiushishuodajiazhenzhengdeaiqing。zhinengqiadangdeweihubaoyangnenggoujianshaoliyidegailv。

 qingganwanhuizenmeban?chuangjianzishendejiagou。zaidajialihunli，xuduorenmeiyouzishendejiagou，zailingyifangganlesunhainihuoshijiushinitaoyandehenbijiaoyanzhongdeshieryihou，xuduorenyaotiaoxuanrennai，couhe，zaiyebuhuidongdeyongjiangfatizhilaijiejue，yincizainilingyifanglaikanbuguanganlenaxieshiernizuizhongdoushitiaoxuanyuanliang，tabingmeishenmesunhai，sunhainizhenduitaeryanbuyongnulichengbenfei，neimatazaizuoganjuezaiyebuhuiyuanyideshierdeneishihouburongyipeinishangyi，lijipeinishuojieguo，neimazainidelihunlijiushizhongcunyouzhewaiyudefengxianxing。dajiazhongjiandeqingganyehuiyulaiyubupingwen。jianjiandideniyehuijiangzishenfangdao 1geshouhairendezhenshishenfen，jianjiandidehuichixudemaiyuannidelihun，maiyuandiqudajiazhongjiandeqingganyehuijianjiandidechuxiannanti。yincibixuyaochuangjianzishendejiagou。

 ruhewanhuihunyin?chuangjiangongtongxing。zaifuqiganqingzhongxianghutongxinghenguanjian，gongtongxingshaoyizhiyudajiadewuyishimeiyouduijiedao，tashifufuzhangqixingguanlianlishifenguanjiande。youyujiarudajiadewuyishinenggou huodelianjie，neimalingyifangjiuhuiduinizaochengzheizhongnijiushishuotadelanyanzhiji，zaixuduoshierkeyidajinxiangtong，neimatajiuhuijuedekuanrongni，aizhenishitaliyingzuodeshier，jiuburongyizaiqutiaonixiaomaobing。yincinikeyihuizaigoutongdejiqiao，jiqipingchangyishizhuxingyisuomendefangshishenghuoshangyebaoxianfangfatigaodajiazhongjiandeqinggan，tishengdajiazhongjiandegongtongxing。

二、怎样维护保养离婚的长期性平稳

 wojuede，lihunshimeiduanjiongranbutongyulianqingdeguanlian，huizaochengtamenliyiyeyouyutamenzaiwanhunyihouxiedaileliangrenxianghuguanxiweihubaoyang。neima，zenyangzuonenggougengqiangdeweihubaoyanglihundezhangqixingpingwen?

 zailihunderichangshenghuotishengmouxiequweixing。hunhou，liangrenshicongtianmanlanmandelianqingxianjiedaoqieqieshishidelihunli，dangliangrenshizhongquanshifaweidechaoxixiangchu，jianjiandide，jiuhuiganjueguodukuzao。renquanshiyouqiuzhiyude，douxiaijiandaoxinxiandewupin、youyisideshi，yinciyaobaochifuqijianshenhoudeqinggan，tishengyishizhuxingxingfugan，haiyaomingbaizenquweirichangshenghuo tishengquweixing。dajianenggou youshihouchulaixiangyouyixiaxialanmandeliangrenshijie，jigouyixiaxiaqinzihudonghuojiazhongchuxing，youhuoshiyikuaierweijiazhongpinzhuangmouxiequweidewupin，gesanchawudegaomouxiepingchangpianshaozuodeshierjiuhuitishengdajiahunhoushenghuodequweixing。

 ruhewanhuihunyin?bicibixuyouzijintouru。zaizheiyiquanshijie，peizhenizuizhangdeneirenshinideduifang。yiner，fuqiganqingnenggou shuochengshijiezuiqinmiwujiandeguanlianle。zhimingganqingzhuanjiakangnacengshuo：“aideganshou，jiuqujueyuzijintourudeshiduoshao。nizijintourudeyueda，nidexinganshouyueduoqiang。renmenbukeyineimazisizili，bukeyizaiquanguochengzhizhong，zhinengzishenzijintouruerbuxutaquweizheixieguanlianzijintouru。”zaihunhoushenghuozhong，dajiazaixianghuyishizhuxingdeneishihou，nikeyimingbaizenyangweilingyifangnuli，qiemingbaizenyangquzhengqueyindaolingyifangjizijinuli，youzijintouru，zhenduiganqingdeganshoucaihuigengweimingxian。

 ruhewanhuihunyin?tuoshanchuliqinziguanxi。qinziguanxiyouxuduozhong，zaiqizhongbierenshuodeshuzuiduode，chukaifuqiganqinghuoxujiushishuopoxizhijianle。1gejiazhongzhizhong，poxizhijianbuheshihenduorendoumeifachulidenanti，chengweiqianguanandian。keshi，poxizhijianqueshishimeifadiaohedema?wojuedebingfeide，youyujiapodoushiyigenvhaibale，bingqiegenxifuerxiangtongquanshishiquwangxiangtongnansheng，dajiazhongjianshiyouxiangtongdiande，nikeyigaoqingchuzheiyidianererqielejiejiapo，jianxinpoxizhijiandoushikeyihemujiaowangde。

三、离婚中夫妇的几种交往技巧

 xuduorenhuihenxianmujiduneileifeichangshaozhengzhi、fuqijianhuanhuanxixideyishizhuxing，xianmujidutamenkeyixianghuxinrenxianghu，bizhaozishensuochuyudehunhoushenghuoqingkuang，chanshengzheizhonghendadeqifugan。ruguoxiaojidexinxuzhanyounaohaizhong，jiuhuijifufulianggerendejiaowangdaozhikunhuo，bulizhihoudeqingganfazhanqushi。danwojuede，fuqijiandeyishizhuxingbixuweichizheizhongjunhengdeqingkuang，genjuyoushandejiaowangjiangdixianghudefenqi，jikehuanjieyishizhuxingchengdan。

 qingganwanhuizenmeban?fuqijianyingxuehaoshenjiao。buguanfashengshenmeshishi，jiusuanshilaogongyeba，laopoyeba，nenggoushizheyulingyifangjiangchuzishendexinsi。lizailaogongdeshijiao，jinguanshiyijiazhizhu，lidangdanfuquanbudegongzuoyali。keshiyouxinsishizhongyanmaizaixinli，nantishiquchulizongshiweihaibenrenxintai，feichangrongyifanhuijiashijilaopogezhonggeyangmianse，weihaifuqiguanxi。nenggou shizheyulaoposhenjiao，jiangchujinqipengdaodenanti，liangrenbaijiaqifangshizhejiejuekunnan。zheizhongxingweiwojuedejiushishuotishengfuqijiandegoutongjiaoliu，1gequefagoutongjiaoliudeyishizhuxing，wanrujiatinglengbaoli，feichangrongyiyinqihunyinpolie。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?fuqijianyingxuehaohuxianglijie。dajiachangshuolijiewansui，lejiedaibiaoquyanjiulingyifangdejiaofahuozuofashibushimeiyouxiashuo，shifouyoulingyifangdeyuzhongbutongkanfa。zhengzhiyincilaizizheijianshiershang，bicicunyouhuxiangcunzaiwu。jiujiuxianglaopomailaimouxielaogongbuyuanchidexinxianshuiguohuijia，laogonghuiganjuehenmihuobujie，zishenbenlaishuoguobuyuankandaozheizhongwupin，taquemaihuiqule。zhiyoubuzaizhangwoshiqingdeqiyinjiumangmugenfengdeyulingyifangzhengchao，zongshirangyishizhuxingyuelaiyueganga。xuehaolejie，huoxulaopojinqishentibushi，erzhenghaozheizhongxinxianshuiguodeyingyangchengfennengdiaoyangjiankangshenti。lingyifangzaibanshideneishihouhaowuyiwenhuikaolvdaomouxieyuanyin，danggaoqingchuqianyinhouguole，ninenggengguanzhulingyifang，guanlianhuigengweihemu。

 zhimingaiqingzhuanjiakangnachangshuo：“lihunbeijuyouyuyongbuzhengquedefangfajiaowang，jiaowangfangfayaomeicuo，nigensheiyiqidouxingfukuaile!beijuhuiganran，haijidedujuebeijuren。”shide，meiyouyouliangdejiaowangfangfa，lihunjinjinzheizhongbuxiangxideyishizhuxingqingkuang，meiyourangfufulianggerenhuodefeichanghaodeguanniangoutongjiaoliu，qingganyinershiqujijizhudongdeshenghua。

 cengxuleqiyeyuanjing，hesuozuiaiderengongtongduguolihundejianghe。xianghuyifufuxiangtong，nijiuyingdangjixubaochizhelianggerenzhongjiandeqingyi。youzhelemingyi，fufunenggouzuodejiushishuohaohaoquyunyingzheizheichanglihun，shitatianmanlenongnongdeyouyuegan。zhikaorenyiyifangdeqinfen，douwufazhangqixingranglihunchuzailixianghuadeqingkuang。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?neifenqingganshiguishuyuliangrende，laogongbixujinernuli，laopoyiqiyebixujinernuli， genjuchixutanqiusuanchuzuiheshilianggerendejiaowangfangshi，bianyujiangdiguoduodejiazhongzhengduo，jinershiguanliankeyipingwendefazhanqushixialai。