三观不合怎么挽回？

 zenyang wanhuinanyou ?benyingwanmeideaiqingqueyouyunanpengyoujijusanguanbuhebeifenshoule，nishifenyihuo，jiranlianggerenshiqinglvguanlian，lidangshixianghuzhijiankuanronglingyifangdequexian，guolixianghuadelianqingyishizhuxingcaidui。ruhewanhuinanpengyou?

一、正确认识三观不合的实质

 youyigenvshengpushanglai，youkuyounaodishuonanyouyaohetatichufenshou，youyulingyifangganjuehenvshengsanguanbuhe，hetayiqiburongyixingfukuailecaihetatichufenshou，danshinvshengshuotafeichangailingyifang，lingyifangjiushishuotaderenhe，meiyoulingyifangtahuodehaolei。bingqienvshengnaxieshierdouweilingyifangguanxin，shishichuchulizainanhaierdeshijiaodulisikao，weihesanguanbuhe，zishenneimeaita，yemeifancuonaxie，weihejiubixudefenshou，xingqingbutaihaowonenggai，yibiannanhaieryenengzuo，genwoshuogaizenmeban。

 bubibarenhedouguijiuyudao“sanguanbuhe”shang，duile，sanguanbuheshihuiweihailiangrenzhongjianqinggandefazhanqushi，keshitabingbushisuoyouyuangu，bingqiejinjinzhanjuyibufenyuangubale。youyumeiyixinggequanshiyuzhongbutong，liangrenyiqiyouyuxingqinghaowuyiwenhuiyoubixudemoca，keshiliangrenyiqi，budanyouyuliangrenxingqingshihejiunenggou baitouxielao，gengburongyishishuojiuyouyusanguanbuhejiuqingyisheqimeiduanqinggan，jiarutazhishiyouyuxingqingnantijiutiaoxuanpeinitichufenshou，neimatazaitanlenduanqingganyihou，haihuiyouyuyiyangdeyuanyinhebuyiyangderentichufenshou。youyusanguanbuhejinjinlingyifang1genenggou helixingdajiazhongjiantichufenshoude1getuoci，neiyangtajiuburongyiganjuebaoqianni，youyunantichuxianzainishoushang，jiangditaduinideneijiuganeryi。

 “sanguanbuhe”jinjinlingyifangyanfanzheixieqinggan，buyuanzaicizheixieqinggande1getuocieryisuihoujiushashadedijuedezishendexingqingbutaihao，suihoujiuyaodishengxiaqi，fuwuchengnuozishenbidinghuigaizhengmouxiebutaihaodexingqing，shizhongzaiweiquqiuquan，neiyangdeqinggan，jiusuanshizuizhongniwanliulelingyifang，neimaniyehuishifenjianxin，huoxubenzhibuqingchudajia2gechanshengnantidezhenshiyuangushisha。

 ruhewanhuinanpengyou?“sanguanbuhe”yezhiyoushi1gefangxiangdenanti，errenmenquebatadangzuoshiqingganliweiyidenanti，babiedenantitongtongzhegaidiao，suihoujiudanxinzishendexingqingjiujingnaerbutaihao，babiedenantihushidiao，keyincizaochengliangrentichufenshouyouqianbaizhongqianzhongyuangu，zhaodaozhenshideyuangusuanshijiejuekunnandezhongyao，neimanihaiyaoxiangzhezaixiangchudequanguochengzhong，shibushiniduilingyifangdeguanzhubuzu，shifoubujianronglingyifangdejuece，shifouzishentaizishentaiqianghanzaochenglingyifangjienabushang，zheishibushiniduilingyifangdeyaoqiugantaiqiangranglingyifanghenyougongzuoyali，zhinengzhaodaozhenshitichufenshoudeyuangu，pouxinantinenggouduiyunantiqugongke，zainiwanliulingyifangshixiangjindenanticaiburongyichansheng，liangrenzaizhihoudeqinggannenggouquebao。

二、提出分手的真实缘故并不是只能三观不合

 xuduorendaofenshouzhihouyizhiyaoshuoyouyuliangrendesanguanbuhecaihuizaochengliangrendetichufenshou，ninengganjuenifeichangailingyifang，lingyifangshiniderenhe，meiyoulingyifangnihuodehaolei。bingqieninaxieshierdouweilingyifangguanxin，shishichuchulizailingyifangdeshijiaodulisikao，zenmehuishisanguanbuhe，zishenneimeaita，yemeifancuonaxie，weihejiubixudefenshou，xingqingbutaihaowonenggai，yibiannanhaieryenengzuo，wojuedezaiqingganlisanguanbuhejinjintichufenshoude1getuoci，jiushinidemouzheixianggerenxingweilingyifangzaoyibukeyijienale，yincimingquetichudetichufenshou。

 zhaodaoqingganlidajiacunzaidebuzu。bubibarenhedouguijiuyudao“sanguanbuhe”shang，duile，sanguanbuheshihuiweihailiangrenzhongjianqinggandefazhanqushi，keshitabingbushisuoyouyuangu，bingqiejinjinzhanjuyibufenyuangubale。youyumeiyixinggequanshiyuzhongbutong，liangrenyiqiyouyuxingqinghaowuyiwenhuiyoubixudemoca，keshiliangrenyiqi，budanyouyuliangrenxingqingshihejiunenggou baitouxielao，gengburongyishishuojiuyouyusanguanbuhejiuqingyisheqimeiduanqinggan，dajiazhongjianzhenshidenantishisha，nikeyixuehaoqusisuo，shifouzishenzaimouyigeshangmeiyouchongfenkaolvlingyifangdetihuihuanshizishendemouleigerenxingweizuobuduilingyifangbukeyijiena，zhinengzhaodaozhenshideyuangu，nenggouyizhaojutiqingkuangquchuli。

 zenyangwanhuinanyou?qurenkedajiazaiqingganzhongdenanti。xuduorenyaoshuotayaoyuwotichufenshoujiushishuoganjuewozuodecuowu，huoshishijuedewobutaihaocaihezishenfenshou，jiarucikezishenhaiqurenkenanti，bingbushizairenkezaizheixieqingganshizishendecuo，neilingyifangbingbushigengyouyuanguliquzishenma?bingbushiyingdangqubiaoshuranglingyifanggaoqingchuniaitagengqiangma?danshiniyoumeiyouxiangguo，zailingyifangxiangfenshoushi，lingyifangjiupingdingniyeshicuodele，dangnicikequhetazhengbianniyeshiduoaita，niyeshiaitacaineiyangzuode，ruguonibuduanquhelingyifangzhenglundeneishihou，woyedengyincizaifourentashuodehuanjuhuashuodajialiangrentichufenshoubingbushitashuodeyuangu，shitawujieleni，tabuyingdangneiyangzuo，tajiuhuijuedeniyeshihetaduilimian，zaochengdajiadefenqidianyulaiyugao。

三、了解男人的思绪，提升挽留通过率

 zaifenshouhou，xuduonvxinghuiyingyonggeshigeyangdewanliufangshiquwanliulingyifang，jiururanglingyifangjiangchunishoushangdequexian，chixufuwuchengnuozishenhuigenggai;jiankonglingyifangdexingji，sichanzailingyifangshenpang;huoshishizaiweixinpengyouquan、qqshineikongjianchixushifangfumianqingxuwenben，zailingyifangyanqianjiazhuangchuchukeliandemoyang。keshineiyangdegerenxingweibujinbukeyiwanliulingyifang，bingqiehuiranglingyifangganjueniyeshidishiyongjiazhide，jianshaowanliudetongguolv。

zuoweinvxing，yuanyiwanhuinanpengyou，haiyaolejienanrendesixu，neiyangnenggouzhunigaoxiaolvwanliuqudechenggong。

 gongjianzhongjiubiyuyangengyouganranli。nanshengshikeguandexiaodongwu，niyuanyisuibianshuoshuoshuodonglingyifang，neiyangshiwufaqudechenggongde。zaitamenneixin，gongjianzhongjiubiyuyangengyouganranli，jiurulingyifangyouyulingyifangkanbushangwobuzhongshibenshenjibenjianshe，yexuchixuxianglingyifangfuwuchengnuo，erlingyifangjiandaonihuanshizhaojiu，chedimeiyouyouhuoli，neiyanglingyifanghuijianxinnibu?dangnigaohaobenshenjibenjianshe，yihuanduifanxindewaimaochuxianzailingyifangyanqian，xiyinzhutadeyanguang，neiyangbiniyizhizainanpengyouyanqianzuoquebaozuofuwuchengnuoqianwancidougengweiheli。yuanyiwanhuiganqing，haiyaoyongshentilixingzhengshizishenyouxinxingenggai，erbujinjinjiangjiangbale。

 zenmewanhuiqiannanyou?jishijianlingyifanghezishenqulizhisisuo。fenshouhounichixusichanlingyifang，jiankonglingyifangdexingji，neiyangjishinikeyibawozhulingyifangderen，yenabuzhutadexin;nidechixusichanjilingyifangtishenggongzuoyali，yincihuizaochenglingyifangdeyanfan，naizhihuizaochengdaliangdefenqi，tishengwanliunanduxishu。zaifenshouhou，jichongzudeshijianrangbicipingjingxialai，sisuolianggerenzhongjiandenanti，zaixintaixingfendeneishihou，renmendewuyishijiuhuidakaizheileifangfanyishidefangshi，ganjuelingyifangzenmeshuohuaquanshibuzhengquede。zailizhideqingkuangxia，bicinenggousisuolianggerendenantigenbenyuanyinsuoshu，xunzhaojiejuekunnandefangshi，jianshaofenqidian;yiqizaizheiliyiduanshijianchixushengzhizishen，rangbenshengengyoufengcai，tahuizaicijiandaonideneishihoutichuzhiyizishenpeinitichufenshoudejuece。

 zenmewanhuiqiannanyou?huijueshifangfumianqingxuxintai，rangzishenbiandeyuelaiyuechuse。youxuduonvxingzaifenshouhouhuizaiweixinpengyouquan、qqshineikongjianhuoshizaiqinqipengyouyanqianchixushifangfumianqingxu，zishiranglingyifanglejietazouleyihouniyuelaiyuezheibanqican，nichenlundezhuanxianbujinbukeyizaochenglingyifangdeneijiuxintaizhuangtai，bingqiehuiranglingyifanghelixingzishenlikainidegerenxingweishiqiadangde。zaibicilizhizheiyiduanshijian，fengfuduocaizishendeyishizhuxing，ruguoniguoduanshijianmeiyouzhaolingyifangdeneishihou，chaoguotadeyugu，yincitajiuhuihaoqixinnijinqidegenggai，yuanyizhangwonidexiankuang，neiyangnikeyibawozhushiqizaicixiyinzhutadexin。