挽留以前，先找到造成提出分手的根本原因

 ruguoniyuqiannanpengyoushuofenshouzaoyiyouguoduanshijianle，niquefajuenimeibanfafangdexiazheixieqinggan。keshiwanliudedamenkouburongyihuoxudeyumeigerenxingweierdakai，zaiqizhongdedadaolihaosixiaxiangqi，yibuqipanzoubudui，huiweihaihoubianquanbucanjudeshuying。ruhewanhuinanpengyou?zenyang wanhuinanyou ?

一、挽留以前，先找到造成提出分手的根本原因

 wanliubingfeidishengxiaqi、disisichandefangshijiunengtahuihuijiade，fandaohuitahuiduinigengweiyanfan，wanliushizheimendaxuewen，shi1gexunjujianjindejieguo，yaowanhuinanyou，youshenmegongzuojingyannenggou jiquzhugongniwanliu?

 fenshouzhihoujianshaoyaoqiugan，youyiyuguanliandexiubu。richangshenghuo，shiduoshaoqinglvzaifenshouzhihouyinweiduiganqingdeshebude，yibianwanliulingyifangganlexuduojiduanhuadeshier，rufengkuangdijilingyifangtongdianhua，sichanlingyifang，ruqinzishen，naizhiyisiweibideng。keshizheileiwanliufangfa，queshinengwanliulingyifangma?zhimingganqingfuhedashikangnalaoxianshengshuoguo，“dangduifangweinimingquetichufenshoushi，jiuyiweizhezhetazaoyiduiniderenhedouduofangmianfourenle。”yinci，zheishinihaidelingyifangyuejin，zongshiranglingyifangyuedichuni，naizhibuyuanzaijianniyimian。

 ruhewanhuinanpengyou?fenshouzhihouyuanyidanizhuanlingyifangdeyaoqiugan，zuixian，niwubiyaomingbaijizheixieguanliankaizhanjiangxueya，jianshaobenshenyaoqiugan，qianyizishendejizhongzhuyili，duorangzishenbaomingcanjiamouxiegengyouyiyidezhutihuodong，dujialvyou，shejiaomeiti，xingqupeixunbandeng，ruguoniyibubabenrendejizhongzhuyilifangdaoqinggandeshiermouchu，nidekailangcaihuigengfeichangrongyihuodetarendechengzan，lingyifangduinibutaihaodeyinxiangyehuisuizhishijiandetishengpeinibanshidechengshuqierjianjianditundiao。

 zhongfengzenyangfuhexing?qiantitiaojianshiyaobianchengdeziji。fenshouzhihouzaisuonanmianyouzhongfengdemeitian，zenyangyunyongzhongfengdejiyuranglingyifangzaiciduiniyougan?qiantitiaojianshiyaotigaozijideshiyongjiazhi，bianchengdeziji，neiyang，ninenggouercixiyinlingyifang。fenshouzhihouhaohaodixiangzheweihelingyifanghuilinierqu?youyunidexingxiangqizhinanti?shinidegongzuonenglibugou，youhuoshijiushinidebanshibusuanzheixie。

 ruhewanhuinanpengyou?yuanyiwanliulingyifang，cishinihaiyaoduiyubenshendenantikaizhanjiuzhengle。bazishendefuzhuangpinweitigaoqilai，wangwenzhongdefangweiquzuo，duoyumouxiechenggongzhegoutongjiaoliu，xuexipeixuntamendebanshifangfahesisuofangfa，zaiweirenchushideshiershang，duoxianghulijie，qianxunqiujiao。neiyangdeyouxiurencaihuizaoshoudaliangdereliehuanying。

 ruguonidegenggaiqudechenggongle，erqiehuodedahuoerderenyiqi，kandaolingyifangshihuanshibixucaozonghaobenshendeyaoqiugan，xianyulingyifangzuoyixingpengyougangkaishi，bubitaolunqinggandenanti，yebubitaolunyiwang，shuomouxieqingqingsongsongdiandehuatitaolun，rugongzuofangmiandeshihejinqichanshengdemouxieqitedeshi，yaoshizaitanhuaneirongquanguochengzhongranglingyifangjuededaonidechengshuqihefenshouzhihounideyoulianggenggai，wanliuyezongyoutingdajiyule。

三、挽回感情全过程中幸福的幽会不可或缺

 zenyangwanhuinanyou?zaiwanhuiganqingquanguochengzhong，nilijingbenshenjibenjianshe，genggailebenshendequexian，zhaodaodezijiyiqi，zongsuanyaoqingqudechenggong，lingyifangtongyiniyouhuidekenqiu。keshicikeshizhiguanzhongyaodeyibu，jiaruwobuliuyiyouhuizhongdejinquhejindi，feichangrongyihuiyouhuigaoza，jiniyiqiansuozuoderenheqiangongjinfei，tishengwanliudenanduxishu。

neima，youhuizhongyoushenmebukeyipengchudejinquhejindini?

 fangzhijiushizhongti。zaifenshouhou，youderenneixinhuiyouyuzhiqiandemouxieqingganshierwangbudiao，mangzhequbiaoshuzishenzhiqiandezhuduobutaihaogerenxingwei，huoshishushuozishennulilexuduo。keshiyouhuishizheizhongzaojiuxiyinzhudefangfa，zaizheiyiquanguochengzhongniyingdangzhanxianzishenshideyibianzailingyifangyanqian，erbingbushijiushizhongti，ranlingyifangxiangdaozishennidezhuduobuzhengque，xiangdaozhiqianbugaoxingdeshier，jinerzaochengtadedichu。neiyangniyiqiansuozuoderenhegenggaijiumeibanfazaichengxianzaitayanqian，youyu“zhuguanyiduan”deguannianganjuenihuanshizhaojiu。

 zenmewanhuiqiannanyou?fangzhiguoduozhuyaobiaoxianzishen。youderenyouyuzishendegenggai，jibukenaiyuanyizailingyifangyanqianzhuyaobiaoxian，keshizuoweinansheng，yaomingbainvxingzuifanganruhedenansheng，jiushishuokuadaqici，meiyoubenzhineihandenansheng。jiaruzailingyifangyanqianguoduozhuyaobiaoxianzishen，neiyangyincihuiranglingyifangganjueniyeshixuqingjiayide，zuoweinanshengyaomingbaizailingyifangyanqianfangzhiguoduozhuyaobiaoxianzishen，rangshierdebuchangshi。duoyidianlingtinglingyifangdexinlihua，tingtadexiankuang，neiyangyincihuiranglingyifangganjueniyeshiguanzhutade，zaitabixudeneishihouchengxianzishen，neiyanggengnenghuodelingyifangdehaogandu。

 fangzhipulubenshendeyaoqiugan。dajiarujinzaoyifenshou，qingzhengquerenshidajiarujindeguanlian，zaiyouhuiquanguochengzhong，fangzhijizhequduitaqinmiwujian;zailingyifangjiubuyuanhuiyingnidenantineishihou，fangzhiqubiwenlingyifang，yincizaiyouhuideneishihou，jiarutameiyouquelideanshizhe，shihuanshilakaijuli，fangzhipulubenshendeyaoqiugan，youyidiquyuelingyifangyincihuiranglingyifangganjuenidegonglixinghenqiang，zaochenglelingyifangduinideyufangneixin，neiyangyincihuitishengwanliudenanduxishu。

 zenmewanhuiqiannanyou?wanliudiqudeqiantitiaojian，bixuchuangjianzailingyifangbingbushixihuannideqifenxialaikaizhan，caikeyiyulingyifangjinergoutongjiaoliu。yimianqinfenqusikaowangrijiuzhenggerenquedian，jinkenengzaiyunanpengyouchupengdejiyuzhongtahuijiandaonishoushangdegenggai，yimianzaigoutongjiaoliuqineibuxulingyifangrenzhidaonidemingxianyaoqiugan，nenggoubawozhuyuzhixiufuhaogandudejiyu。jiyubingbushijingchangchuxian，yingyongqiadangfandaonengjiasunidewanliusulv，jinzaoyunanpengyouxiufuqinglvguanlian。