不要做降低自己价值的事：挽回前男友

 zaishangxin，zainanguo，niyewufalikebiangengniyutazaojiufenlichulaidezhenlidekeguanxing。renpingnitongkuliutiyingchuang，sichanlanda，jiuwubishidewanhuifangfama?ruhewanhuinanpengyou?zenyang wanhuinanyou ?

一、女生不要再做让本身低商品的价值的事

 zaiqingganzhong，shangpindejiazhiguodirongyidaozhiniyulaiyuwuguantongyang。yinerdishangpindejiazhideren，juedaduoshuquanshishibeipaoqideren。yuanyinhenjiandan，jiushitamenmeiyouyoushi，meiyouxiyinli，yinertamenjiuzhinengyijuchixuduilianrenhao，laihuodelianrenduibenshendegengdazhongshi。neimezaiwanhuidizhongshangpindejiazhiyoushenmejutibiaoxian?

 bianyuwanhuibabenshennadegengdi。dangnijutibiaoxianchuniyuebibukeshaota，tayuedabuyiaixi，nideshangpindejiazhiyehuisuizhijiangdi，yexujutibiaoxianchulainishifangbiankedede。fuhedashikangnashuoguo：“qidaiyinweikanshangquxingfukuailebingqienanyishixian，yinerhuibeidajiaaihu;tangruotashikeyi beisuibiandahoudajiaode，neimetajiuhuiganjuetashifangbiankedede，yinertabuyibeiaihu。”niweishenmexiangwanhuita?weishenmebibukeshaota?yinweiniganqinghaijituozaitashouli，niduitayouxianzhudeguidinggan，zheizhongguidingganrangnikeyiwanhuita。danshitaduinibingmeiyouneimaxianzhudeguidingganyinertayaoxiangfenshou。xiangyaotagennifuhexing，nishoulijinliangyoutasuowubidewujian，huanjuhua，nishouliyaoyouxiyintadediyu，tabeinixiyin，daozhileduinideguidinggan，tacaihuizaidugenniyizhidouzaiyiqi。

 luoluwanhuimude。jinguannvzhuinangecengsha，danshiwanhuiguochengzhong，nibunengjutibiaoxianshiniyizhidouzaiwanhuita，jiusuanshinixiangyaotahuijiale。ninengzuodeshizaiduxiyinta，jiqitaduinidegerenaihao，congerrangzhengqueduidaitajijizhudonglianxini、shenzhiwanhuini，danshiruguotazhidaonidemude，neimetaduinidegerenaihaoheguidingjiuhuijianshao，yinweizhudaoquanzaitashouli。yinerninengjutibiaoxianchunibuyidingta：nimeizhoujingchangchuxianduozhongduoyangdeyulehuodong;youyibangzhiquxiangtoudepengyou;huiyueshanghaojigeguimiyikuaierguangjiegouwumaixie;huimeitianbabenshenyizhedabandeenaduozi，tigaohuigou;niyeshineifenwendingdeqishiyedanwei。neiyangdeni，suanzuozuixiyintade。

 yejiushinijijizhudong。jijizhudongdiqulianxita，guanxinta，zhengzhiyeshinijijizhudongquhehao，minzujieritabuxunisongshengriliwu，congmeisongguohuajinizheizhongzheizhongzuofa，shinishangpindejiazhididejutibiaoxian。jiaruoganqingwubizijinfenpei100quweixiubaoyangzheizhongguanxi，danshinizijinfenpeile99，neimetazhiwubizijinfenpei1，taganshoubulezheizhongganqinglitadeqinfenwubi。dangniduitazijinfenpeideyueda，ganqingdeqingxieduyuexuanzexingtashi，qinggandeguidingganjiuhuiwanquanshiheng。youzijinfenpeicaiyouyinglidepanwang，caihuiganshoudaozheizhongganqingdezhongyaoxing。ganqingbingzhiyouyigerendeqinfen，zhiyouyigerenquweixiubaoyangdeganqingbuyizhangqixing。

二、男朋友想分手后可否挽回男朋友

 dangnanpengyougenbenshenmingquezhichufenshoushi，quexinhenduonvshengquanshiyouyouchounanguodexintaizhuangtai。doushihenduonvshengyinweijieshoubulenanpengyoulikaibenshendezhenlidekeguanxing，yinweibenshenhuanshiqianwangnanyou，yinerxiangyaowanhuibenshendeqinggan。fenshouhoukefouwanhuinanpengyou?ruguoninengyunyongshidangdefangfacaozuoguocheng，wanhuinanpengyoudejilvhaishihengaode。

 henduonvshengzaiwanhuinanpengyoudeguochengzhongquanshifanguozheileiyouwu：dachaodanao，sichanlanda。fenshouhoujiusuanxiangyaowanhui，yebunengyunyongbuduanaiqiuduifangdewanliufangshi，yinweitaxuanzegennixiangfenshou，shuomingtazaojiufoudingnilei，tangruonikeyibuduanlianxita，shizheshuofutafuhexing，yizhijiazhongtaduinidefoudingxintai，duinidaozhiyanfangan，yuanbenduinijinshengdeyidianyouhaoduquanshibeidanchudiao。neiwanhuinanpengyoudeshidangcaozuoguochengshisha?

 zuikaishi，rentongnandianbingfenxinandian。dangnanyoumingquezhichufenshoushitajianghuibuduanxunchinidenandian，cikeniliyingzuodeshizhenzhidifancuo，rentongnanyoudekanfa，erbingfeichixuweizijifanbo，shizhezhaoyuanguweizijibianbo。yexuyufabaidaoyuduifangcunzaiwudejianjie，duifangduinidejiebeixinyuedaqiang，neibanduiwanhuishifumianyingxiangde。jieshouyouwuhou，nihaiyaolixingdesikaodaozhidahuoerxiangfenshoudejibenmaodunshishenme，fanshengzijipingshishouliyoushenmequedianshirangduifangnanshoude，bingqienulidigaizhengbuzu，paiyoujienan。

 cizhi，jieshouxiangfenshoudezhenlidekeguanxingyinvxingpengyouxintaikeguanxing。henduonvshengzaifenshouhoujiukeyiyaoquexinnanyouhuilikaibenshendezhenlidekeguanxing，renghuibaozhenanyouhaiaizhebenshendexiangfa，jiezhezhishiyiyidequyangqiuwenchongwanliuerbikainandian。worenweishiqingzaojiuzaochengle，niliyingzuodeshirentongzheiyinandianjieshouxiangfenshoudezhenlidekeguanxing，keguanduidaidahuoerneizailianxi。xiangfenshoujiuquerendahuoerzaojiuyibingbushiqinglvguanxi，qinglvzhengzhongjianhuizuodeshiburongzhiyiquanshihuitingzhide，cikeninengmashangjianchixiaqudexintai，wuxuxiangyiqiantongyangzongxiwangmeitianlianxiduifang，xiwangtanengzaidupeizainishenbianjiucanpeizainishenbiankanju。niliyingbaduifangzuoweinvxingpengyoutongyangduidai，xiangpenyoubanyouhaoxiangchu，buzaitiganqingdeshi。

 ruhewanhuinanpengyou?jiezhe，gaizaobenshentishengzishenxiyinli。zhumingganqingzhuanjiakangnashuoguo“wanhuibingfeizhengjiu，jinjinercixiyin。”duifanghuigennifenshou，yidabanshuomingnidexiyinlizaojiujianshaodaobunengxiyindaotadeshuizhunle。yinernanpengyouxiangfenshouhou，niliyingyikaishihaohaojingyingbenshen：gaizaobenshendezaoxingsheji，rangbenshenyulaiyugengnianqinghaokan;duozhongduoyangbenshendeshizhi，kuodajiaojiquan，tishengzijideyishidengji。neibanshibianyutishengnidezishenshangpindejiazhi，zishenshangpindejiazhitishengshanglaile，keyizhujiushengjibanderongmaojirenhuanjingzhengjiedeganjue，chaochuzaiduxiyintademude。

san、wanhuiaiqing：gaoshangpindejiazhinvshenghuijuyouzenyangdejutibiaoxian

 zaishangdiyiduanguanxizhong，weishenmeshitaxianlikainide?yinweikeguanxingtalaijiang，nideshangpindejiazhigengdi。likaishangpindejiazhiyuedideren，bixudezhijiechengbenyuedadi。zhiyouniyizhizaiweixiubaoyangdahuoerdeqinggan，nizijinfenpeideqinggan、jinqian、shijianbitaduo。jiaruoweixiubaoyangqingganwubi100，niqinfenle98，neimetazhixuqinfen2。weizheizhongqingganqinfenle98dezaiyebunengqianguazhelikai，yexudexiangfenshouzhijiechengbenhengao!danshidangtaguanlijuecejieshuzheizhongqingganshi，shenzhitalian2doubuyongqinfen。yinertajiurongyilikai。wanhuiaiqingzhuanjiajiaoshoukangnayiqianjiangguo：“dangnideshangpindejiazhiyuegao，tayouxiurencaihuiyuexiangyaoni。”nikeyiwanhuita，neimezuikaishininengbabenshendeshangpindejiazhitigao。

gaoshangpindejiazhidenvshengyoushenmejutibiaoxian?

 yougerenfengcai。shenmeshizijifengcai?jiushibierennengganjueniderongyan，congerbeinixiyindezhuanyenengli。rongyanshirendediyiweigerenmingpian，jinguanrenderongyancongchushengqijiuzaojiuguanlijuecele，danshiyijubutongdezhuangronghebutongdefushidapei，meiyifenmeiyimiaodenikeyipiaoliangdebuzhongyang。jiarubanibenshenyizhedabandegengqiangkanshi，renyehuigengjiayouzixinxin。nidexiaoronghegerenxingweidoushiyouganranlide，nidezixinxinheleguanhuiganqinishenbianderen，congerbeinixiyin。

 zenyangwanhuinanyou?yongyoubenshendejiaojiquan。fenshouhou，wuxubabenshenmibishichulai，niliyingduoyujiuyoulianxi，yikuaierduobaomingjuhuiqujieshixinpengyou。tuozhanlebenshendeweixinfapengyouquanhou，tigaozijideyurenxiangchuzhuanyenengli，xuejinghenduorenyurenzhijianxiangchudefangshi。suhuashuo“wuyileiju，renyiqunfen”，gaoshangpindejiazhidenvshengshenbianshizhongweiraozhegaoshangpindejiazhideren。dangnishenbianderendoushiyouyanjiedekexuejia、gongzuozhongdejingyinghuozheyingxiangligaoderenshi，bierenduinideyinxiangsuizhetigao。

 zenmewanhuiqiannanyou?huixiangshoushenghuo。baochi1gejijizixinxindexintai，duoqujianliwangluomeijie，duoquduizijifuzezhongaizuodeshiqing。dangnizishenkeyileguanzixinxindichichuanzhuxing，shanyufaxianshenbiandeyouqudeshi;huibabenshenyizhedabandeenaduozidechumen;huiweizijizhunbeichongfenneifenmeiweikekoudezhongfan;bakuzaodemeiriguodejingcaijuelunshi，nijiushizaixiangshoushenghuole。kenengzaixiangshoushenghuodeneiyikekaishi，nideshizhiyezaisuizhibiangeng。

 zenmewanhuiqiannanyou?wanhuiaiqingkaodebingfeixuehuifangxiatitaiyunanyoujinxingduitan，yebingfeikaoyiweihaibenshenweibiyaotiaojianquweixieqifuhexing。niyinweixiyinlibugouerdaozhixiangfenshou，niyizhidouzaitaneixinshidishangpindejiazhidecunzai。neimehaole，yinweiwoliyingwanggaoshangpindejiazhifangmianqujinxingtisheng，juyougaoshangpindejiazhidederen，youneierwaihuishifangchulaibutongxunchangdefengcai，yongyoubenshendeshanguangdian。bicizhijianbasuoyoumeilidouzijinfenpeidaonanyoushouli，shenzhiduiwanhuidaodexingweijinxingchixuehuashengji，buruzhengquyongbuyiyangdebiangengqudedaowanhuiaiqingdezhudaoquan。