防止开启否认心态状态:挽回前男友

 ruhe wanhuinanpengyou ?sangshideganqingjiarukuaisufanhuizishendeshenpang，neijianghuishizuiwanmandexiachang。kexiangquwanliubuyiweizhebierenjiuhuidafusuonulideqingyi，jiuhuitongyiyunifuhexing。zenyangwanhuinanyou?

一、分手之后做下列的事情会他会对你的否认加重

 tichufenshouyizhihuilingrentongchu，zheileilianqingdetianmeihetichufenshoudejimosuodaozhidejidaqifu，douhuilingrenjuededaoshouzuwucuo。zongxuduorenyuanyiwanliu，keshibuqingchugaizenyangzuo，tingpingzishendejuede，hemanqiangrexuedetiaosuo，gensuizishendejuedequzuo，quwanliuta

二、复合型全过程中我觉得得防止开启否认心态状态

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