学会换位思考原则教你挽回前男友

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一、学会换位思考原则

 liangrenzaigoutongshangbunengdachengyizhi，dourongyixingchengyizhongxintai，bicidoubulijieduifangdeguandian，zhujianchansheng“xinggebuhe”dedingyi。suoweihuanweisikaoyuanze，jiushishuangfangchuyubutongdeshijian，didian，jingshenjieduanshixuyaoyongdaohuanweisikaoyuanze，zebazijidairuduifangdesiweizhongqusikaowenticongerzhaochuduifangzuiweixuyaodadaodemudebingwancheng，yidadaolianghaodexiaoguo。

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二、抛开固有的相处模式，增添新鲜感

 zenyangwanhuinanyou?danglianggerenxiangchuyiduanshijianxingchenglegudingdeshenghuomoshi，bicijiuhuijinruyige”shushiquan”，erzheige“shushiquan”huirangnixingchengyizhongguanxingsiwei，zheizhongsiweirangnirenwei“womenjiushizheiyangshenghuoxiangchude”，danqishi，zheizhongbubiandexiangchumoshigengrongyizaiyudaowentideshihoushuangfangchanshengfenqi，renweinibucengduiwozuoshenme，bierenjiadenanpengyoushizenmezuodedengdeng，suoyi，zouchuzheiyangdeguanxingsiwei。

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