妻子外遇怎么办呢？

 yulequanzhong，fenfenhehenaishichangshi，danshiyouwangyourenweiyinengjingchuguishishishi。mingxingyeshiputongren，zaiyiduanguanxizhong，ruguoqizichuguile，biranshiyouyuanyinde。qiziwaiyuqishineixinyeshibeishoujianao，xiamian huazhenqinggan xiaobianjiulaihedajiashuoshuoruhezhengquechuliqizidewaiyu。

qizichugui：qiziwaiyuzenmeban？

时刻保持冷静

 qizijizijidailvmao，shimeiyounagenanrennengzuodaohaowubodongde，danyinciershiqulizhidexuanzebuzhengquedefangshixuanxieshibukequde。oudaqizibaofuqingdizheixiexingweizhinengshizijigengjiabuxing，haihuishitagengjiashuyuanni。neimecikewulunzijiruhenuhuozhongshao，baochilizhiyongyuanshizuixianxuyaozuode。

 qiziduihunyinyihoudeyigemingquedetaidu，tadexinshifourengranzaizheigehunyinzhong?huozhishaoyuanyizhongxinhuidaozheigehunyinzhong?zheihenzhongyao。fouzezhangfudeyuanliangzhishijizijizaiyicishoushangdejihuieryi。

选择原谅后的心态平衡

 ruguoshuangfangmeiyou“yuanzexingdewenti”，wangwanghuimohehaoxiufuhao。erruguoyifangchuxianle“yuanzexingdewenti”zezheiduanhunyinjiangmianlinyanjunkaoyan。

chuguihewaiyuxianranshi“yuanzexingdewenti”。yinweiqizichuguizheiyangdeshiqing，duobanhuizaochengzhangfuneixinjudadebupinghenggan。

 ruguoxiangyaohunyinjixuxiaqu，neimeyidingshiyaonenggoupinghengneixinzheizhongtongkuhebupinghenggan。ruguopinghengbule，neimeyihouzaishenghuohemianduibicishi，shuangfangdeguanxijiuhuichuyuyizhongshihengzhongnanyizhangjiufazhan。

 qizichuguiguranbudui，danshiruguohaixiangwanjiuhunyindehuajiuyidingyaolizhidichulichuguidewenti。canzhaoyishangdefangfa，yexunenggourangqizizhongxinhuiguijiating。