ruguonilaopoduinihenshiwang,duinisixin,neishuomingnijitadeguanxinhehehuyouxian,bijingnvrenshiganxingde,yidanganjuedaoniqueshaoniduitadeguanxinyuhehu,tajiuhuijuedenibuaitale,congerchanshenglihunzhileideniantou。ruguonanrenruoyouhuiyi,xiangyaonuliwanhuidehua,jiubuyaozaituoyanle,xiamianhuazhenqingganxiaobiangaosuni wanhuilaopo demijue。
一、挽回不要寻找对错
zairichangshenghuozhong,youxuduomianlinhunyinweijidefufudouzaixianghubaoyuan,guaizuiduifangjiangmaodunjihua,bingqieshituxunzhaohunyinwentidecuoyudui,jiangqicuowuxiuzheng。qishi,zaixintaizhuanjiakanlai,zheizhongxunzhaoshiyufeidezuofabujinshitulaode,erqiehaihuijianghunyindemaodunkuodahua。hunyinzhonggenbenjiumeiyoushiyufei。nengfouyiqibaitoudaolao,xiangyaowanhuidehuaguanjianzaiyuniduidaihunyin、jiating、laopo、haizidetaiduhejuexin。
yinci,buyaorangyishidechongdonghuoshilanduo,shihunyinzoudaojintou。yebietaiguoyukanzhonghunyinzhongdecuowu,guogaodeyaoqiuleduifang,yinweizheixieyaoqiuhenduoshihouwangwangbianchenglekeke。
二、不要流露出任何想要强行挽留的情绪
zheigeshihouwulunniyouduotongkuduonanren,doubuyaoquzhiwenta、shuluotashenzhidamata,yaoxuehuikongzhizijideqingxu。xiangxinwo,xintai,shizaiguanxizhongliyububaizhididegenji。erzaizheigetongkudejieduan,nixuyaozhaodianshizuo,zhuanyiyixiazhuyili,diaozhenghaozijideqingxu。zheiliwokeyigaosuni,yigenvrennengaishangniyici,neimetayidingnengaishangnidierci。
weishenme?yinweinishenshangchuxianguotaqianyishixiangyaozhuizhudepinzhi,genghekuangnimenyijingyouleshenhoudeganqingjichu,burulehunyindediantang。shuomingtacengjingduinizheigeren,shikendingderentongde!zheiyeshiweishenmeyigenvrenzhaodenanrenzonghuiyouxiangsizhichudeyuanyin。
三、审视自身的错误,了解对方的需要
wanhuihunyinyaolejiehunyinpingheng。hunyinzhongruoyifangzhidongdesuoqu,lingyifangzhizhidaofuchu,zheiyangdehunyinbiranzouxiangpoliedebianyuan。jiuxiangwulixueshuozhongdezuoyongliyufanzuoyonglidexiaoguoyiyang,hunyinshipinghengde,ruguozaihunyinzhongchuxianliehen,youqishiyifangqiangshilingyifangruoshi,hunyinkendingbuhuiyukuaizhangjiu。yinciduiyuzheizhongqingxing,xiangyaowanhuihunyin,jiuyingdangxitongxingdelejiehunyin,mingbaihunyinzhongliangrendediwei、zerenheyiwu,zheiyangcainengweixihaohunyindepingheng。
suoyizheiduanshijianniyaohaohaowendingqingxu,lengjingsikao:“dangchunilaopoyujiannideshihou,shibeinideshenmepinzhixiyinde?nideyoushishishenme?xianzaizheixieyoushihaizaibuzai?”woxiangxin,henduonvrenzaihenanrenlianaijiehunlezhihou,zaipingdanzhongyefangsonglemouxiedongxi,suoyixiangyaowanhuilaopokeyicongzheixiefangmianxiashou,zhongxinzhanxianchulainiyouliangdepinzhi。
四、增加对家庭、老婆的责任心
zaixianzaizheigedenghongjiulvdeshehuishang,dabufendelaopodouxiwangzijidelaogongkeyigujia,youzerenxin,dongdezhaogubieren。qishi,nvrendouxiwangnengyougeyikao,yinweinvrenmendoushishifenquefaanquande。yidanjuedezijidelaogongbuzaiwenroutitiediduidaizijideshihou,jiuhuiyoulikaideniantouchuxian。suoyi,zuoweinanren,bixubiandeyouzerenxin,dongdezenyangqubaohuzijidenvren。
五、利用共同回忆。
danglaopoxiangyaolihundeshihou,keyiyutaquyiqianyiqitanlianaidedifang。liru,yiqichifandecanguan,dianshangdangshitazuiaichideneidaocai。yiqiquyiqianchangchangmanbudegongyuan。yiqianchangqudedianyingyuandengdeng。dangzuozheixieshiqingdeshihou,huichufataduinidebushezhiqing。jizhu,nvrendoushiganxingdedongwu。
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