如何解决婚姻七年之痒

 poliedehunyinruhezouxiaqu？suhuashuo，bainianxiudetongchuandu，qiannianxiudegongzhenmian。dangjinshishangsuiyouliyonghunyin，dadaogerenqitamudederen，danyouduoshaofuqijiehunshiweilelihunni？danshi，jingguoshangxinshanggandetongku，bushaofuqimeiyounenggouzouxiaqu。neime，womengairuhejiejuehunyinqinianzhiyangni？

一、如何解决婚姻七年之痒

1、shenmeshihunyinzhongdeqinianzhiyang

 zheigejieduandefashengshijiankezhangkeduan，bingbuyidingqiahaoshidiqinian。zheiyijieduandefuqizhijian，kenengyijingyouyifangyouchuguidexiangfale。tacikedezhuyaosuqiukenengshi：“woxuyaoyixieshijian/kongjian。”“woxiangzhidaowoshishei，woyaoshenme。”

 poliedehunyinruhezouxiaqu？xiangyaopinganduguozheigejieduan，yifangxuyaoduilingyifangyouwenroudebaochi，rangduifangyouzugoudekongjianyushijianchengzhang，bingzaizheiduanguanxilidedaoziyang。ruguowufawanchengzheigejieduan，wangwanghunyinhuizaicishiyaozhe。danjishiruci，beichuguideyifang，buxuyaobazheigejieguodangzuozijideshibai。

 yigerenzaihunyinlipojianchengdie，chenggongyufou，youhenduoyinsu，yigewenroudebaochishizuoweipeioudeliwu，danshihenyihan，zheibingbushihunyinchenggongdechongyaotiaojian。

2、学会换位思考

 chuxianmaodunshi，buyaoguzhiyijian，buyaofanchuchennianjiushi，yingjiushilunshi，zhanzaiduifanglichang，sheshenchudisikao，liqinglailongqumai，jinerlijieduifangdebenyi，caishijiejuemaodundefangan。

 hunyinzoudaojintouruhewanhui？shichangweizhangfuzuoxieshiqing，napaweixiao，yeyaorangtaganshoudaonideaiyi。liruqichuangzhunbeihaozaocan，zhangfuchumenzhiqianweitadalingdai，dengtaxiabanhuilaizhunbeihaoretengtengdewancan，buyaohulveleguanqiedewenhou。yekeyilianggerenshenfenhuhuan，banyanduifangdejiaosejiyouquyounenghenhaodongdeduifang。

3、创造仪式

 shenghuoshixuyaoyouxieyishigande，shenghuoyishinenggouranghunyinshenghuorijiumixin。lirujiehunjinianri，xiangaizhounianjinianrideng，meigejieridoushishuyuxiaoliangkoudeshenghuoxiaoqingqu，yeshizengjinqinggandezhuli。hunyinzuikepadeshipingdanrushui，yincikeyiweidandiaofaweideshenghuozengtiandianlequ。hunyinzoudaojintouruhewanhui？ouerjiduifangzhizaoyigeyiwaijingxi，zuoyixieyuyiwangbutongdeshi，nengshiduifangtiyanxindeganshou，shiaiyibengfa。

 meiyouwanmeidehunyin，yemeiyoubujuandaideaiqing，buyaorangainideren，manmancongnideshenghuodangzhongxiaoshi。yigeqinwen、yigeyongbao，huoxujiukeyizhengjiunimendeaiqing，ruoxinzhonghaiyouduifangdecunzai，hebuyiqiqianshouzouguoyusheng？