挽回联系的框架：重塑框架，通过吸引的方式去挽回

 ganqingdediweibingbushishuojiazhidi，ershijiazhigandi，biaoxianweizaiganqinglifuchuhenduoquedebudaoxiangyingdehuibao。jiuxiangwomenjingchanghuikandaoyigeyouqizhi、gaoshouruduinanyoutitieruweidegunianghaishibeifenshou，huozhebeichugui。yuanyinjiuzaiyuzheixieguniangduinanyoutaihaole，shiqulezijidekuangjia。 huazhenqinggandaoshi gaosudajia，xiangyaowanhuiduifang，tongguogoutonglianxidefangshi，jiuyaoxianzijishedingwanhuilianxidekuangjia，biruyaoyongshenmeliyoulianxiduifang，meicilianxidemudeshishenme，wanhuilianxipinlvyinggaizenmezhangwo，zheixiedoushiwanhuilianxiduifangdefangfa。

一、 挽回 联系对方的方法

1、fangqijiuchan，jieshouxianshi

 zheizhongfangqibingfeishifangqizheiduanganqing，ershijiangzheigejieguolengchuliyixia，chengnianrendoushijubeidulidesikaochengxude，zheigeshihourangzijichedixiaoshizaiduifangdeshenghuoli。

 yifangmiankeyijiduifangyigelengjingsikaodekongjianjishijian，yifangmiannengxueruoduifangdexintaidikang，weizhihoudezhongxinqueliguanxidaxiaojichu。

2、zhongsukuangjia，tongguoxiyindefangshiquwanhui

keyixuanzetongguogaizaopengyouquandeneironglaitigaozijideziwojiazhi。

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3、zhaodaoyigeheshideliyourangduifangjieshouzhongxinlianxi

 zhongxinlianxishiyaoyigeheshideliyou，ruguomeiyouheshideliyou，duifanghuiganjuezhongxinlianxirangzijihenmeiyoumianzi，congerqukangjuzhongxinlianxi，eryouleyigeheshiliyou，duifangjiuhuiganjue，zheishikeguanyinsurangtabudebuhezijilianxi，nengguolezijixinlideneidaokan。

 keyizhaonimendegongtongpengyoujuzaiyiqi，yiqijianmian，qujianmianshiyaoduizijidewaixingzuoyixiatisheng，yaozhidezhuyideshi，zheishihouwanhuilianxipinlvbunengtaipinfan，buyaoyizhichanzheduifangbufang，jiandandidayigezhaohu，rangduifangkandaozijidegaibianjiuhao。

 yinweibutongdeyuanyinfenshou，xuyaosuzaobutongdewanhuilianxidekuangjia，zhiyaonenggourangduifangkandaozijidebutong，jiduifangyizhonghuanranyixindeganjuejiuxing，ruguoduifangduinihaiyouliulian，jiuhuizhudonglianxinile。