挽回强调时间是很有必要的

 wanhuifulianshifaxiaoxishijianyoushenmexuyaozhuyidema？womenzhidaozaiduanlianhoushimeiyourenhelianxide，yidanhuifulianxi，duanxinyaozenmefa？wanhuiduanxinshijianyinggaigengpinfanhaishizenmeyang？ huazhenqinggandaoshi gaosudajia，wanhuiqiangdiaoshijianshiyoudaolide。

一、短信聊天的时间间隔同步

 shuodejiandanyidian，jiushibuyaomiaohui。zaiduanxinliaotiandeshihou，yaobaochizijidejinchi，buyaoyicixingdiediebuxiujitafashijitiaoxiaoxi，tabantianzhihoucaihuifu，nishoudaotadehuifuzhihouyoushimiaohui，nizhidaonizheiyangnengjitadailaiduodadeyalima？tahuixiang，nishibushiyitianjiuxianzhemeishi，baozheshoujidengzijihuifuni？tongyangde，nidewanhuiduanxinshijianyebaoluchulenidegaoxuqiugan，nidejiazhiyehuizaizheilibiandi，wanquanjiuhuibeitaqianzhebizizou。

所以，不管你有多么渴望跟他聊天，请你务必控制住自己的手，他隔10分钟才回复，那你也回复他的消息就控制在10分钟以上，他隔半个小时才回你，那你也至少隔上半个小时再回复他，如果他秒回呢？要跟他保持同步的话岂不是也要秒回？No！就算他秒回，也请你务必回复的慢一点，30秒到3分钟的间隔是比较理想的状态，不要担心你回复不及时他会不想跟你聊天了，当你回复慢的时候他会好奇你在干什么，是不是还有别人跟你聊天，好奇心和占有欲的催促下他会主动找你的。所以， 挽回 fulianshifaxiaoxishijianyaozhangkonghao，buyaotaiguojijireqing。

二、感情也要同步

 nizongshiyong“relian”xiangdui，yinglaidequeshitade“lengpigu”，niyiweireqingnengrangtaganjuededao，dantajinidezhiyoulengmo，zheiyangdehua，jiuqingnishouqinidereqingba，niyaozuodejiushinaixindengdai，ruguotabiaoxiandereqing，jiubaochixiangtongdereqing，huozheshaoweijianshaoyifenreqing，ruguotadefanyingshilengdan，neimeniyeyaobaochixiangtongdelengdan，shenzhiduoyifenlengdan，zhishaoyaobaochitongbu，zheishidixian。

 dabufenrendouzhidaozenmefenbianduifangshireqinghaishilengdan，danzheilihaishiyaoshuoyixia，nimenliaotiandeshihou，kantadehuifujiuzhidaole，tahuifunideneirongzhang、huaduo，erqiehuifuxiaoxidejiangeduan，pinlvgao，jiuzuyishuomingtashireqingde，fanzhi，ruguotahuideneirongjiaoshao，zhishijiandanyinghejiju，neijiuhenxianranshilengdande。ruguotashireqingdehuiying，neimewangwangnenggouzaigennideliaotianshidairuzijideganshouhuozheganqing，erruguotashilengdandehuiying，neimetajiuhuipoqiexiangyaotaolizheiduanduihua，buhuijiaruzijideganshou。

 wanhuideshihou，yidingyaozhuyibuyaobaoluzijidexuqiugan，buyaojiduifangdailaiyapogan，yongzijidelixingkangjuzijideganxing。wanhuishideliaotian，yidingyaowendezhu，buyaoyinweizhejierbaduifang“ganzou”le。wanhuiqiangdiaoshijian，danshitongyangyeqiangdiaonimenzhijiandeganqingzhiliang，buyaoweilewanhuierquwanhui，fenqingchudaodishiaihaishibuai。