为什么不联系对挽回真的重要

 womenzhidao，nannvpengyoufenshouzhihou，ruguobushihepingfenshou，jiuhuiyouyifangquwanliulingyifang，youxierenbuduandijiuchanlianxi，danhaishimeiyouxiaoguo，danyeyouxierenbulianxixiangwanhui，fanerhuiyinqiduifangdezhuyi，bulianxiduiwanhuizhendezhongyaoma？

 youshihou，tongguoyiduanshijiandechedixiaoshi、buzailianxidezuofa，nengyituiweijindiwanhuiaiqing，tashiqingganwanhuizhongzhiguanzhongyaodeyibu。zanshizhongzhilianxiweiganqingxiufudailaidexiaoguoshiwomenwufaxiangxiangde。danshiyinweikanqilaitaiguojueqing，ranghenduochuyuaiqingzhongderenhuandehuanshi，bianchengweileyizhongbuganpengchudebanfa，youxiejibianshicaiqule，yeyinweimeiyouzhangwohaodu，fanerchanshengbuhaodexiaoguo。

huazhenqinggandaoshi gaosudajia，weishenmebulianxiduiwanhuizhendezhongyao，bulianxihouwanhuihuichanshengshenmeyangdexiaoguo。

一、不联系后 挽回 的三大效果

1、nengweiduifangzhizaoqiangliedexinliluocha

 lianggerenfenshou，nanguodebuhuizhiyouniyige。tichufenshouzheqianyishilihuixiangxin：tatichufenshou，niyiranhuixihuanta，libukaita。ruguozheishihouniduitasichanlanda，tananmianchanshengzideqingxu：kan，zheigerenshishuyuwode，meiyouwotahuobuxiaqu。

 ruguofenshouhouzanshizhongzhilianxi，jiuhuidapozheizhong“zixin”，tahuixiang：weishenmetabuzailianxiwo？nandaotabunanguo？nandaotazaojiuxianghewofenshou？nidezhongzhilianxihuiyinqitawuxiandeyiwen，suizheshijiandetuiyi，tahuimanmanhuixiangqinidehao。

2、 nengzhizaoyixiexinxiangan

 xinxianganshiganqingzhongdezhongyaodiaoweiji。lianggerencongxiangshidaorelian，congreliandaopingdan，congpingdandaomaodun，congmaodundaofenshou，xinxianganheshenmiganfangfopaowuxian，zhujianzengjiayoudieluodeguocheng。shidangdezhongzhilianxihuiranglianggerendemaodunzanshitingzhi，buzaijianmian，meiyouxindemaodunchansheng，julijiukaishichanshengmeile，tayexujiuzaibujingyidehuixiangnidehao。suizheshijiandeyanzhang，zheizhonghaoganhuimanmandezengjia，yibansangeyuedaobanniandeshijian，taduinidehaoganduhuishengdaopingjundian。dangran，jutideduanlianshijianyaogenjumaodunqiangruopanduan。

3、weizijitishenggerenmeiliyingdezugoudeshijian

 jugelizi，ruguoniyuliangweigunianghezuzaiyiqi，sangerenmeitianyiqichifan，guangjie。yinianzhihou，qizhongyiweiguniangyinweigongzuoyuanyindaolebiedechengshi，nimenyihouzaimeilianxi。ernihelingwaiyiweigunianghaiyiqihezu，yiqishenghuo，jihumeiyoufenkaiguo。sannianhou，ouyudiyiweiguniang，tabiandegengpiaoliangle，yuanlaiyouxieweipangdeshencaixianzaiyijingaotuyouzhi，yuanlaisuyanchaotiandemianpangxianzaizhuangrongjingzhi，nijihuyouxiebuganrenshitale。niqingbuzijindegantan“zheixieniannibianhuazhenda”。

 erneiweishizhongzaiyiqideguniang，zainideyanli，haishiyiqianneiyang，shuohuaxili，xinggeqiangshi，zuijinhaizhangpangle。lianggerenxiangbi，nijuedefenkailedezheiweigunianggengjiashangxinyuemu。

 qishini，nihezheiweiguniangjingchangzaiyiqi，tayidingshiyoubianhuade，dannichajuebudao。danshiruguoyiduanshijianbujianmian，yebulianxi，dangzhanxindenichuxianzaitamianqian，zheizhongqiangliedeshijuehexinlichongjicaihuizhongxinxiyinta。

 bulianxixiangwanhuiyeyaozhuyibawodu，taiguoledehuahuirangduifangyiweinishizhendefangxiazheiduanganqingle，congerduifangyehuikaishifangqi，zuihouwujierzhong。