离婚之后挽回的话要怎么说才有利于挽回

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一、从无需求的话题入手

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你可以问问他的近况，求助一些他擅长熟悉的事情，或者看到他感兴趣的话题转发给他看，又或者看到他喜欢的东西在搞活动，告知他一声。这些话题看不出什么 挽回  dexuqiu，nengrangrangduifangfangxiajiebeixin，jishitahuaiyiyebuhaojujueni。youlezheiyiceng，jiuweinimenjiexialaideqingsongliaotianzuohaopudian。

二、找好联系的时机

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三、主动结束话题

 huatizhaohaole，diyijuhuayefachuqule，duifangyejiyulehuiying。neime，jiexialaizenmezou？shijixuzhaohuati，haishizhongzhihuati？butongqingkuangyaocaiyongbutongfangfa。dangduifangyong“ng，a，hao，shi”dengzheixieyuqicihuiyingnishi，biaomingtaxianggenniliaoxiaqudeyuanwanghaibushineimeqianglie，neinijiukeyibuyongzaizhaohuatihuozhezaihuifule。zaigaliaoxiaqu，huizaiduifangmianqianbaolulenidexuqiugan，rangduifangjianshengfanyi。

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