在挽回中懂得察言观色很重要

 zailianggerennaomaodundeshihou，yaoruhequwanhuiduifangni？qishiya，xuehuichayanguansehenzhongyao。neimechayanguanseshishenmeyisi？ huazhenqinggandaoshi gaosudajia，chayanguansedeyisiyijitazaiwanhuidangzhongdezhongyaoxing。

一、察言观色是什么意思

 chayanguansedeyisishiliuyiguanchabierendehuayuheshenqing，duozhichuaimobierendexinyi。chuchu 《lunyu·yanyuan》：fudayezhe，zhizhierhaoyi，chayanerguanse，lvyixiaren。

二、 挽回 的过程如何察言观色

1、看对方情绪行事

 zheiyibandoushigangyouzhengchao，fenshouhuohaiweifenshou，zhishilengzhanzhongde。niruguohouhuidangchudezhengchaole，xiangyaofuhe，xiangyaorangduifangyuanliang，shouxianyaokanduifangshifouhaizaishengqi，ruguoduifangqihaiweixiao，jiugaizhaogejihui，yongshenmebanfaxiangduifangdaoqian，rangqixianxiaoqi，zhiyaoduifangqixiaole，houmianyejiuhaoshuole。

2、查探情况

 zheiyibanshifenshouyouxieshijiande。zheizhongnishouxianjiuyaozhuyiduifangshifouhaidanshen，ruguorenjiayijingkaishilexinshenghuo，neijiubushishengqineimejiandanle，duobanbierenyijingbaniwangle，zheiyangdeduobanyebuyongshituwanhui，ruguohaizaidanshen，zhengmingzhiqiannimendeganqinghaishimanshende，neijiuganjinde，xianggebanfa，zhaogejihui，quzhuihuilaiba，buguojidehaohaojieshizhiqiandeshi，qianwanbuyaozaichongdong。

3、探话真假

 zheiyaofenliangzhongqingkuang：yizhongshiliangrenbingmeifen，yexuzhishizhangqidechaochaonaonaoguanle，zhishimouyitianturanyourentichulefenshou，bieyouyizhongshikenengpingshidoutinghaode，jiushituranyouyitianyinweiyixieshenmeshichaole，erqiechaodebukekaijiao，zuihouyousheitidaolefenshou，yushangzheiliangzhongqingkuangqianwanbuyaoji，qiewuyongnihengwogenghengdefangfachuli，yidantingdaoneijuhua，ruguohaiyouyifangshilizhide，neimedexianlengjingxialai，buzaishuohua，zheigeshihou，ruguoduifangbingbushiyishichongdong，shiyumouzhexiangjieyicizhengchaonaodaofenshou，neimeneirenkendingbuhuibaxiu，haihuijixunao，zhidaonaodezhenfenshouweizhi，ruguozhishiyishichongdong，buyongshuo，yidanyouyifanglengjingxialai，lingyirenyehuianjing，dingduochongchuqusansanxin，huoshiduojinfangjiananjingyihuier，yiqiedouhuihao。

 yishangguanyuchayanguansedezhongyaoxing，youqishizaiwanhuiaiqingdeshihouxiandegengzhongyao，xiwanggeweixiaohuobandounengzuoyigedongdechayanguansederen。