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一、挽回中如何建立复联
1、buduantishengziwomeili。shilianhoudenibuduanzaigaibianzheziji,guodeyangguang、chongshi,gaidiaoleguoqudequedianhehuaimaobing,chenxiaxinlaihuikanhefenxiguoqudeganqing,faxianduifangdeyoudianhemeihao,huainianneifenzhenai,zaibushiziwodeqiantixia,chaozheduifangkenengxinshangzijideyixieshanguangdianqunuli,buzhibujuezhongducuziwobiandegengyouxiugengyoumeili,weilezaijiandeneiyitianrangduifangyanqianyiliang。yinci,zaifulianjinxingzhongyebuwangshikexiulianziji。
2、zainijuechadaozijideyiyanyixingyijingbeiduifangguanzhuhelejie。zaiduifangkaishibuduanzhudongzhaonilianxiniguanxinnideshihou,nikeyijiejizhizaopengmian、yuehuidejihui,mianduimiandezhenqingjiaoliu,huirangganqingjisushengwen。yuci,nikeyishuogengduozanmeixinshangduifangdehua、maimaiwenqingdezhushiduifangdeyanjing、weixiaoerbujushudejiaotan;yekeyiyoumofengqudezichao,qiaomiaodidianchuguowangzijiderenxinghebuzu,huoshiliangrenyiqianjiaowangzhongcunzaidewenti,changkaixinfei,rangduifanggengdongni,yegengkanqingzijiduinideganqingzhuangtairuhe。
3、zengsongwenxintitiedeliwu。jideduifangdexingquxihao,liangrenzaishilianhoumeiyoujianmian,zaifulianhoudeyiduanshijianneiyemeijianguomian,keyitongguokuaidisongliwudefangshi,yingdeduifanghaogan。buyidingshizaitebiederizilisongchu,dangxiademeiyitiandoufuyouyiyi。fulianhoudemeiyitiannidouyingrenzhenduidai,budemahu,rangduifanggandaobeirenguanzhubeirenaidewennuan,zhongwenwangrishiguang,nianzhebicidediandi,renxindoushirouzhangde,zongyouyitianbeigandong。
二、挽回中如何合理化矛盾
1、学会换位思考
zaiganqingdeshijieli,meiyigerendoushipingdengde,nixuehuihuanweisikao,zunzhongduifangdeguandianhexuanze。dangnimenzhijianchanshengmaodundeshihou,nishouxianyinggaicongzishenzhaobuzuyuquedian,erbushibacuowudoutuidaoduifangshenshang。nimenzhijianchanshengmaodunshihuichaojiashiyinweinimendeqianyishimeiyouduijieshang,nizhishigujizijideganshou,ermeiyoukaolvguoduifangdeganshou,bunengzuodaotiliangduifang,yushinimenzhijianhuiyuechaoyueshikong。
2、同意对方的观点
xianghuajiemaodundian,zhengquedezuofashi,yongyuantongyiduifang,qishi,maodundianzhidejiushizaiaiqingguochengzhong,shuangfangyinduimouxieshiwudekanfahuozheguandianbuduidengerchanshengdemaodun。ermaodundiandelaiyuanjiushinimenshuangfangduitongyigeshiwudekanfashibuyizhide,lingwai,meigerenxinzhongdouhuiyouyigehelihuajizhi,huiquhelihuazijisuozuodeyiqie。
3、提升自我
fenshouzhihou,niyaozuodeshiqingbushiqukukuaiqiuduifang,ershiyaotongguotishengziwo,gaibianzijidewaizaiyuneizai,laijianshaoshuangfangdemaodundian。biru,nikeyidazaochengniduifangxiangyaodeyangzi,yekeyizaiwangluopingtaishangzhanshinizuijindebianhua,zheijiuyouliyuniduitazhankaiercixiyingongzuo,zhongxinwanhuita。
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