怎么样挽回爱情？

 zenmewanhuiaiqing？aiqingzenmewanhui？shuodaofenshouyidingshijiannanguodeshiqing，erruguoshiyinweitongkujieshoubulejiulikewanhuiqueshibujianyide。xiamianjiulaijiangjiangguanyuzenmeyangwanhuiaiqingdezuofaba。

一、平常心对待

 zenmewanhuiaiqing，shouxianmianduifenshoudeshishi，jiranmeifagaibianniyinggaitanranmianduibuyaocaiquguojidewanhuifangfa，zheiyangzhihuirangduifanggengjiayaneni，nixuyaobaochipingchangxinyaobideduifangtaijin，jiduifangchongzudeshijianyukongjian，zanshiduanliannengkeyirangduifangzhujianwangjinidebuhaocongerxiangqinidehao，zheishihounixuyaozhengshizijidewentiyipingchangxinquduidai，buzuopianjidewanhuixingweicainengrangwanhuigengshunli。

二、冷冻感情

 lengdongshizhizaibinlinposuideganqingshangzuolengchuli，bushiyinweiyaofangqiwanhuigengbushizhiyonglengbaoliduidaiganqing，lengbaolizhihuiehuaguanxierlengdongshiyoumudeyoujihuadilengchuliganqing，biqilengbaoliyenengdedaogenghaodejieguo。

三、进行冷处理的时间

 aiqingzenmewanhui，zaigangfenshoudeshihouyexushitazhengqizaitoushang，yexushinimenzhijianyouhendadewuhuiyexushitazuocuoleshenmeshi，fenshoudeyuanyinyouqianbaizhong，danyebuyongzhejiquzhaoduifanglilun，yinweizheishidenihuiyougezhongdebuganfennubuernengyongpingchangdexintaiqulilun，zhihuichanshengfanxiaoguoduifangyezhengchuyushengnuqi，zhishiyiweijiandingzijidexiangfa，wulunnishuoshenmedoutingbujinqu，shenzhifazhandaobuxianglini，buxiangjianmianshenzhixiangdaonijiujuedetaoyandeqingkuang，zaiqingkuanghaimeiyoutaichadeshihoumashangjinxinglengchuli。

四、保持住跟他还能有交集

 zenmeyangwanhuiaiqing，nizijixianlengjingxialaibuyaohuangzhang，zuohaozijibaochixintaidepingheng，yaoxuehuilijielengchulishiyaoxiangxintahaishiainide，zhishinimendeshizanshibuhuiyoulianxibuyaoyizhixiangzheta，fouzenidezhenggeshenghuodouweiraozhebieren，niyouzenmenenggaibianziji，youzenmenengzaiguanxijiedongzhihouquebaotanenghuidaonishenbianni?xianlengchulinizijideganqing，cishiniyezhengqudaoyixiekeyigaijinfansideshijian，fansizheiyiduanshijianyilaizijizuocuoleshenme，yeyaogaijinzhiqianzuodebuhaohuozhebugouhaodedifang。

五、保持积极向上的心态

 niyaojinliangbimianzaibierenmianqianbiaoxianchufumianxiaojideyimian，shenshangchongmanfunengliangderenzhihuirangzhouweiderenjianeryuanzhibingqiebizhibuji，erqiexiaojidexintaihuikongzhinidexingweihuirangnizuochucuowudejueze，zuochurangzijihouhuimojideshizhiyoubaochijijidexintai，rangjijidexintaiquzhidaonidexingweicainengrangnidewanhuidedaohaodexiaoguo，shenghuojiuxiangyimianjingzidangnibiaoxiandejijixiangshangdeshihou，niyenengshouhuojijidexiaoguo。

六、懂得享受生活

 nishifouxihuanzhaizaijiali，buxihuanhuwaihuodong、bucanjiajuhui、buxihuanjianshen、buxihuanmaoxiandeng，nixuyaozhidaohaodeshenghuotaiducainengxiyinyixing，jiuxiangfuhedashishuo：“shenghuozhiliangshizhangqixiyinzuizhongyaodeyigeyaosu，yinweishenghuozhiliangyuegaoyuejingcaijiuyuenengzhangqidexiyindaoshenbianderengenniyiqishenghuo。”xianzaikaishizouchujiamenba，rangnideshenghuofengfuqilaizhongxinxiyinnideqianren。